healing yourself is your responsibility, no matter what someone did to you

Recovery involves doing what is right for YOUR nervous system not what you feel other people want you to do.

Marquesan Tattoo

Stop expecting everyone to have the same heart as you.

I don’t do revenge, but i can ignore your entire existence

If they put you second, put them last

My type is someone who doesn’t entertain everyone and anyone...

Be open to the possibility that people are speaking nicely about you behind your back. People are conspiring about ways to help you. People advocating for you. People are genuinely rooting for you behind your back.

You will meet people who will teach you love in its safest and purest form.

‎" For your peace of mind, do not try to understand everything. "

I’m not angry, I’m hurt and there’s a big difference.

Tammara Webber

— Jodi Picoult, Sing You Home

I don’t need no revenge. nobody loves the way I do, have fun

Self improvement is great but ultimately? you have to accept your self. Yes you can eat better, exercise more, read more, set boundaries, love your self, but it all comes down to this. Some days you won’t have the energy to do any of these things. And you’ll look in the mirror and think that this is not enough. That’s a lie. The biggest love for self is to live slowly. To rest. To really rest. Have a nap. Eat what makes you feel good. Read if you want to. Embrace yourself and accept that you cannot and will not be ever be perfect. Accept that you are good enough. You don’t need to keep busy all the time. you don’t need to go out all the time and post on instagram. You don’t need to journal if you don’t want to. You don’t need to make art if you don’t want to. Breathe, give yourself grace and compassion. Give yourself the love and tenderness you so badly need. Be gentle with yourself. You are trying and it is good enough. You are good enough.

have you ever thought about how many people think about you? it’s so bizarre. imagine someone, out of the blue, thinking of your face. something happens; they remember you. your favorite song, how you dress, the way you talk, the look in your eyes when you are happy. they remember that about you, even if you haven’t seen each other in years. everything in life is a reminder of a person, a place, a moment. you may think you’ve forgotten, but you haven’t.