literally every sleep advice pamphlet and website: don’t do things before bedtime! no reading! no video games! don’t watch tv! nothing stimulating at all within two hours of going to bed! :)
me, an adhd: you fools. you buffoons. i can’t even manage one minute without stimulation. i will die before following this advice and that is a threat
i NEED to sit in chairs with armrests but not for my arms only so that i can then sling my leg over them in a debonaire and extremely comfortable style
do you ever shift in bed slightly and suddenly youre in the most perfect sleeping position ever and you feel like the fucking planets are aligned
A girl I liked convinced me to stab a man, so I did. Felt guilty for a bit, then promptly forgot about it and walked around with the murder weapon for a couple of hours, going about my business, walking my dog. Eventually I was cornered by a plainclothes police officer who asked me why I had a bloody knife; I told him I was looking after it for my bogan cousin. He said, “You’re under arrest,” and I was like,, “No, I’m not, watch this,” and then I woke up.
that’s a goddamned power move
Becoming more confident is a long journey full of hard work. I’ve always had very low confidence but in the last few years I managed to become more confident than I ever imagined I’d be. Here are the things that helped me with my confidence the most:
As alwas I truly hope I helped at least some of you and have an amazing year full of self love!
For number 4 I recommend Marie Kondo.
For number 9, this might help with some variations of depression and boredom. How many of us endlessly scroll through social media and wish that something interesting would happen or that we were doing something else? So go do something else! If you don’t have anything else because you never tried it, see number 7-there are probably plenty of things in your hometown! See if there is a maker space that has any classes you want to try, check out youtube/the internet, see of any clubs in your area. Hobbies are good to have.
-FemaleWarrior, She/They
too poor to afford a nice phone? own it. that’s your thing now. you have an old phone model and its an aesthetic now because u made it that way. too poor to afford cute clothes or good makeup? or you just don’t know how to dress well? own it. you’re killing it with that hand-me-down pair of jeans and an upcycled t-shirt with socks that don’t match and messy eyeshadow. that’s cool. that’s punk rock. you’re awesome. you don’t have to feel ashamed for not having what others have or for not fitting in. you’re unique and that’s cool. you’re okay just as you are and you don’t have to change. you can have quirks. you can have weird/gross habits. you’re human. own it.
So until very recently I was using a completely shattered phone with the power putting fallen off and the lower part of the screen completely off. And people at work gave the horrified reaction that they would. And I was all cool about it. Like I was savage to use such a phone and not feel ashamed one bit. So no one dared to pass any mean comment. You really can own it.
He is pansexual and asexual.
Highly adhd (mood)
He doesn’t really have any vocal tics- which he is greatful for- but he will turn his head to the side, causing it to crack abnormally, and maybe flap his hands a bit.
He doesn’t understand why it’s so difficult to get along with the other proxys, Tim especially.
He’ll always end up arguing with Tim over stupid things and believe me toby won’t back down in an argument he gets so mad so easily that he goes full force and will succeed at making most people cry.
He made sally cry once and felt so bad about it.
Sally is like the sister he never had (or did he…?)
Despite his constant fidgeting when he’s on a mission for slender he’s very composed and quiet and very rarely moves around too much.
If there’s a target about 10-20 ft away he can throw one of his hatchets and it’ll most likely hit whatever it’s aimed at.
Once he tried to talk back to slender and boy did he learn the hard way to never do that, ever. (Jeff kinda sympathized with him cause he gives slender a lot of shit and gets in trouble for it a lot, and that was they first and last time Toby and Jeff got along)
Toby hangs out with Ej a lot, mostly cause he’s accident prone but also cause he just think’s Ej is a “cool dude”.
Ej might be the only one- besides Ben and sally- that can tolerate toby’s constant fidgeting and movement.
Doesn’t likes cars much, can’t remember why.
Can, has, and will walk miles if it means not getting into a car.
Sometimes sees stuff??? He isn’t sure tho.
Definitely hears a lot of shit tho.
HAS MADE FRIENDS WITH THIS CAT IN THE WOODS, HIS NAME IS BASTARD
He usually sneaks the cat inside when the weather is harsh, doesn’t want anyone to know.
Everyone knows.
“Toby why is there meowing coming from your room”
“I-ITS JUST ME!”
-Kay
Gerard:
Mikey:
Frank:
Ray:
Self harm isn’t always what you think. It’s not only razor blades and wrists and thighs. Sometimes it’s punching things so you can feel bruises. Sometimes it’s drinking until you can’t feel a thing. Sometimes it’s isolating and ignoring people you need. Sometimes it’s wrecklessly playing with an animal so you can feel the scratches and bites. Sometimes it’s excessive scratching. Self harm isn’t just some emo kid with cuts on their wrists, it’s so much more. Because people only see it like this, sometimes you dont even recognize that you are self harming until it’s too late. Until your hand is broken. Until you have to get your stomach pumped. Until people give up on even trying with you. Until you need stitches from the bite. Until you have skin between your nails. Please recognize self harm. Don’t let it go ignored.
IMPORTANT!!!
There are more ways of self harming than cutting. But we have to keep in mind that there is a difference between Self Harming and Self Destructive behavior. Self harming is self destructive behavior. But self destructive behaviors is most of the times not self harming.
Definition Self harm: “Self-harm (SH), also known as self-injury, is defined as the intentional, direct injuring of body tissue, done without suicidal intentions.”
So self harm includes intentional cutting, punching, biting, scratching, burning, bruising and breaking.
Definition Self destructive behavior: “Self-destructive behavior is any behavior that is harmful or potentially harmful towards the person who engages in the behavior.“
Self destructive behavior is drinking too much, smoking, searching your boundaries, reckless driving, isolating, ignoring people, refusing help, eating too much, starving yourself, sleep deprivation etc.
I noticed that people keep saying that self destructive behavior and self harm are the same things. Which is not true. We have to keep those two seperated. We also have to stop telling people they self harm because through this we romanticize self harm and let people feel like they have to self harm to have serious mental disorders. You don’t have to self harm to have serious mental problems. We all know how horrible self harming is so why romanticizing it or telling others that they self harm while they are being self destructive, which is really bad and unhealthy too. It doesn’t have any positive effect to blur the line between self destructive behavior and self harm only negative effects, including romanticizing self harm. They are seperated with a reason.
please share this to help people realize this and stop romanticizing self harm or tell people they self harm while they don’t, self harm is not something you should want. So please keep the line between those two.
I will repeat this again. You’re romantizing self harm with this. If you read the comments you will see that people feel worse when they think that the self destructive things they did is self harm too. So please stop spreading the world that it’s the same!!!
January: Black
February: Black
March: Black
April: Black
May: Black
June: R A I N B O W
July: Black
August: Black
September: Black
October: black and orange
November: black
December: black
You are ace
I already survived alot, and I’ll survive more i have a strong belief in that, i can fight and I’ll fight. I’ll change myself for better. Though small/minor bad things break me (now i’m in that stage) but still I’ll be strong enough and not allow anything to break me atleast I’ll try the more i can do, and I’ll not give up.
I already wasted so much time on sad, bad things, i could do so many better things I’m still not able to but now I’ll try harder and become a stronger and confident person than before.
I will change myself for better things. But it doesn’t mean my pain will disappear it will be there always with me but it will not take over me, i will not allow it to take over me, to hurt me. One day I will get over it.
Sex ed teachers : One day ALL of you are going to have sexual thoughts and urges related to other people lol dont be shy it happens to ALL of us
Teens who grew up and realized that they were asexual all along :
Kids at my school are out flirting with people, getting into relationships, crying when they break up, and thinking about sleeping with other people.
Meanwhile me and the other aces are over here like:
Thanks for the submission!
i can’t get in lifts with people because i have a sort of phobia of breathing in people’s breath
and when i got asked what was wrong by my law teacher (she thought i looked ill)
I had to fucking reply “I prefer people when they’re not breathing”
