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“You need someone that loves your soul more than your body”
— Unknown
“You will be too much for some people. Those aren’t your people.”
— Unknown
Assorted OTP Questions
- What is each member’s love language?
- What would they describe as their perfect date?
- Who made the first move?
- Who is more sentimental?
- Which member calls the other in to kill the spiders?
- Who falls asleep first?
- Who wakes up first?
- Who is more more relaxed/carefree?
- What’s one way their personalities compliment one another? (Is it opposites attract or are they pretty similar?)
- Who is always cold?
- Which member is always trying to bring home stray animals and which member always has to say no?
- Who worries more?
- What are some non-sexual activities they do together?
- Who would be able to talk their way out of a speeding ticket?
- Who is the better cook?
- What are some things they don’t agree on?
- Which member is more physically affectionate?
- Which member is more verbally affectionate?
- How does each member feel about PDA?
- Who’s the safer driver?
- What’s each member flirting style?
- Which member
stealsborrows the other ones clothing? - Who is the cuddle initiator?
- Are they an introverted couple or an extroverted one—AKA would they prefer to go out to a party or event together or would they rather stay in?
- Who is the big/little spoon?
- Who is more likely to make an impulsive decision and who is the voice of reason?
- Who’s more likely to laugh at their own jokes?
- Who takes longer showers?
- Who is “more loved” by the in-laws?
- Who is more likely to get jealous?
- What was the most surprising thing they learned about one another once they started dating?
- Who stays up way too late and who tries to drag them to bed?
- Who’s messier?
- Which member is more likely to accidentally spend $300 at Target?
- Who wanted/would want kids first?
- Who gives piggy back rides to the other?
- Who fell in love first?
❀ Friendly ask-game ❀
❥ feel free to send one or more numbers to my inbox. 1. How has your day been? 2. Do you have any kind of comfort-item? 3. Is there anything you cannot sleep without? 4. What do you need to feel safe and comfortable? 5. How are you doing today? 6. If you have any pets, please share some pictures. (if you feel comfortable) 7. Do you rather prefer warm or cold weather? Why? 8. What would be something that someone could do to make you happy? 9. How many blankets and/or pillows do you need to sleep? 10. If you would be a color, which one would you be and why? 11. If you had the possibility to live anywhere, where would you live? 12. What is your favorite fruit? 13. Would you rather be able to fly whenever you want or become invisible? 14. What is a movie that always makes you feel okay? 15. Do you own any plushies? 16. Please tell me three facts about yourself that you are comfortable sharing. 17. Do you own any fairy-lights? 18. What is your favorite scent on candles? 19. If you had the chance to turn into any animal of your choice whenever you want, what would you turn into and why? 20. If you could change the color of one thing in the world, what thing would it be and which color would you choose? 21. Did you ever make a wish upon a shooting star? 22. I would like you to know that you are wonderful. 23. I wish to give you a hug. 24. What is one thing about you that you like? 25. Is there anything you liked to do as a child and you still do it nowadays? 26. When was the last time you smiled and why? 27. Did you drink enough today? 28. If you had to eat the last food you ate forever, what would it be? 29. When was the last time someone said something kind to you? 30. I think that you are really amazing! 31. What is your favorite flower? 32. Have you ever been to another country, other than the one you live in? 33. What time is it for you and what are you thinking about? 34. What was the last image/gif you saved? If you are comfortable, please share it. 35. Don’t forget how wonderful you are! 36. What color does your favorite mug have? 37. You look very pretty today! 38. What was the last thing you cooked or baked? Did you like it? 39. Are you a long-sleeper or an early bird? 40. What is one of your biggest wishes? 41. Do you have a favorite week day? What is it? 42. When was the last time you had a picnic? 43. What is your favorite hot bevarage and how do you like to drink it? 44. Have you ever baked anything for someone else? 45. If the last food you ate and the color of your shirt would be your name, what would it be? 46. Please never forget how important you and your feelings are! 47. What is something that makes you smile? 48. Would you like to chat with me? 49. Is it okay to ask you random questions or tell you about anything going on in my mind? 50. I love you. ♡ [thyming’s inbox]
P U R E A S K S
- Do you have siblings? How many?
- What was you favourite toy as a child?
- Last thing that made you laugh
- Last thing that made you cry
- What traits do you like about yourself
- What’s your last text that you sent (do not give any context)
- Dream place to live?
- Favourite quote from a tv show
- Favourite quote from a movie
- Last person you called
- First app you check when you wake up?
- Is there anything in your drafts/queue
- Favourite school subject
- What high school stereotype were/are you
- Do you think your teachers liked you in school?
- Favourite article of clothing?
- Fashion fears
- What is one skill you want to learn
- Have you learnt anything in self isolation
- Have you fulfilled any goals you had for 2020
- Any goals for 2021
- How much do you think you fit into the description of your star sign
- What would you say your aesthetic is?
- You can change one physical trait about yourself what would it be?
- You can change one of your personality traits, what would it be?
- Finish the sentence : “My favourite thing about tumblr is...”
- What is the last assumption you made?
- The last mistake you made?
- Would you rather live in the Sahara or Antarctic
- Favourite animal
- What is ‘your’ emoji
- Last thing you bought that was so bad that it was good
- Something you bought but were never able to wear because of covid
- What is the best piece of advice you received
- Is love something that scares you?
- Do you believe in love at first sight?
- What would a romantic partner say is your best quality?
- What does the person that is physically the closest to you right at this moment mean to you?
- Favourite place to be kissed
- Last person you had a dream about?
- Kinda stupid but... cupcakes or donuts?
100 good questions to ask your friends at 4:02 am when you can’t sleep (can also function as an asks list)
- Are you bothered by your cosmic insignificance?
- Do you mourn for a place or person you’ve never known?
- Do you really think there is somebody for everybody?
- Do you place any value in gender roles?
- Do you have to be related to be family?
- Are your platonic relationships just as valuable as romantic or family ones?
- Are you in love? Do you want to be?
- Do you think you can put love into categories (family, platonic, romantic, etc.) or is it just one general sensation?
- Would you be happy with a life without romance?
- Are you always going to be a little in love with somebody?
- Would you change your appearance if you could?
- Do you have the feeling you’ve lost something you might have had in another life - whether it be a person, a place, a world, a language, etc.?
- Do you believe in reincarnation?
- Would you want to be reincarnated?
- Do you think you’re special, or just another person amongst billions? Can you be both?
- Do theoretical ethical debates have any value? Is it important people discuss ethical dilemmas, e.g. the trolley problem?
- Did you have imaginary friends? Do you still have them?
- Are you religious? Do you think your religion is ‘correct’?
- If you aren’t religious, do you wish you were? Why?
- Do you want a grand adventure?
- Do you have somebody, whether it be a friend or stranger, who you think you could have loved if the circumstances were different?
- How long does it take you to fall in love with somebody?Is the sensation of ‘falling in love’ or ‘being in love’ better?
- Is love about convenience or something more? Can it be about both?
- Do you think you really understand your gender and sexuality?
- How fluid is your concept of gender and sexuality?
- What’s the most life-changing choice you’ve made so far?
- Are you afraid of growing old?
- Would you want to live forever? How about for a billion years, a million, a millennium, a century?
- Do you believe in some form of god/s?
- Are your choices fated or of your own free will?
- Do you have a hunch about how you’re going to die?
- Do you believe in star signs?
- How old do you have to be to be considered an adult?
- Was your childhood happy?
- What are you missing from your life?
- Have you ever met someone who had a very similar personality to your own? Did you get along?
- Do opposites attract?
- Is your life what you expected it would be five years ago?
- Do you know what you want out of life?
- What makes a person ‘good’? Are you a ‘good person’?
- What fundamentally matters do you?
- Is freewill an illusion?
- Do you create art? How do you define art?
- How often do you lie? Is all lying inherently bad? Are you generally truthful?
- Do you want to be remembered after your death? What for?
- Is true world peace ever possible?
- Do you have to suffer to truly understand the human condition? What is the human condition? How can you really experience it?
- Are you free? Will you ever be? Can anyone be truly free?
- Do you hold yourself to higher standards than you hold others?
- What do you expect from a friend or partner?
- What question could you ask to find out the most about a person?
- Do you justify all your beliefs or have you just inherited/absorbed some?
- Which beliefs do you have that is most likely to be wrong?
- Can human really understand the complete nature of the universe, space and time?
- Is a conscious what makes someone a person?
- What do you think about artificial intelligence?
- Do you thinks humans are obsessed with escapism (books, video games, movies, etc.)? Are you looking for an escape? Do you think that’s a bad thing?
- Are we eventually going to ‘run out’ of new combinations for music, art, language, etc.? Is there a limit to human creativity?
- What do you think the next era of music will be like?
- What do you think the next era of fashion will be like?
- Do we live in tumultuous times, or do they just seem so strange because we’re living in them?
- Would you want to meet a clone of yourself? Would you like them?
- How confident are you, really?
- How consistent is your perception of time?
- What age should people be allowed to vote? Should children and teenagers be allowed to vote?
- How do you feel about the idea ‘an eye for an eye’?
- What’s the worse thing a person can be?
- How do you feel about monogamy?
- Can you be in love with someone and still fall in love with someone else?
- What’s the tragedy of your life?
- Would your life make a good play?
- Should people be prosecuted for crimes that weren’t considered crimes at the time?
- Would you fight for your country? Do you feel a sense of loyalty to your nation?
- Do you believe in gender equality in every aspect?
- Do we have a moral obligation to care for others? To what extent?
- Do you crave approval and/or praise?
- Is there comedy in all tragedy and tragedy in all comedy?
- Are you ever going to be satisfied?
- When you are sad, do you listen to music that conveys your emotions or music that makes you happy?
- Is your music organised by mood or sensation or do you just listen to everything at any time?
- Would you marry a friend if they needed you to (e.g. for citizenship)?
- Are you a deep person?
- Given the chance to live your life on Mars, with no hope of returning to Earth but with the promise of scientific discovery and glory, would you take it?
- Are you who people think you are?
- Do you think you would be happier if you had been born a different gender, sexuality, race, ethnicity, nationality or religion?
- What’s your toxic trait? Are you trying to improve yourself and fix it?
- Do you anger easily?
- Are you a jealous person?
- If you lost all your memories, would you have the same personality?
- Given the chance to reset your life (with none of the knowledge you currently have), would you take it?
- Is hate as strong as love? Who do you hate?
- Do you speak multiple languages? Which do you dream in? What language would you want to learn?
- Do you draw meaning from your dreams, or do you disregard them?
- How would you describe yourself when you love? Do you love forcefully, unconditionally, gently, quietly, desperately?
- Is unrequited love real love?
- Is your perception of yourself similar or the same to how others perceive you?
- Are you overly analytical?
- Do you ever feel that you are really a terrible person, and only act good out of societal or some other obligation?
- Do you believe in magic? Are you superstitious?
- What belief do you have that isn’t logically grounded, but you still firmly believe in?
💐 Mental Health Asks💐
Just to annoy the anons I got a little while ago ❣ This does get a little personal so do feel free to ignore if that upsets you.
🐵 What sort of music do you like to listen to on your low days?
🐶 How often do you have low days?
🐺 If you feel comfortable sharing, how is your mental health doing right now?
🦁 Once again, if you feel comfortable sharing, what are you currently battling with? (Depression, anxiety, etc.)
🐱 Who or what helps you when things are tough?
🐯 Is there something you want to do that you haven't been able to because of your mental health?
🦒 Are you safe to talk to about mental health/can I DM you to talk about it?
🐹 What things should I avoid when talking to you about personal issues?
🦊 Are you on any medication for your mental health?
🐻 I just want to tell you that I hope you're okay and I really appreciate you.
🐰 What is something that you find really hard to do on your low days?
🐗 May I vent in a separate ask about something?
🐭 What is your favourite/least favourite coping mechanism? (Can be something someone else suggested or something you found yourself)
🐷 Do you have a game, movie, etc. that you play or watch to distract you when things get difficult?
🐮 Have you ever gone to therapy? Would you recommend it to others?
🦝 Do you like playing with stress balls, Rubik's cubes, fidget spinners, etc. as a distraction?
How to make a pumpkin head
Since I defs didn’t want to carve a real pumpkin to put on my head and get nasts pumpkin insides all over my hair I decided to paper mache one. Unfortunately there was no good tutorials anywhere so I will share my trial and error knowledge.
First I got some supplies: 1 Punch balloon (they’re rounder and larger they regular balloons), some paper mache stuff in a bag, cardboard, a glue gun, paint, sculpey clay, tape, some news paper and some water and flour mixed together.
I then put at least three - five paper mache layers of newspaper with flour water on the balloon. I also measured my head and left an opening at the bottom. (NOTE: Don’t put tape on the balloon and try to peel it off after you’re done paper macheing, RIP)
After that’s all dry I put glue gunned some cardboard onto it to give it some pumpkin like ridges.
Then I filled the gaps between the cardboard and the newspaper with the paper mache in a bag stuff. Wait for it to dry. (Note: Don’t pop balloon until the paper mache in a bag stuff is dry cause it holds a LOT of water and your paper mache project will sink, RIP) After that I popped the balloon and lightly dampened the top with a sponge and water until it was wet enough to slowly press down into more of a pumpkin shape.
After it’s all dry I taped a stem I made out of card board on the top and put another layer or two of newspaper mache over top.
More drying wait time (you can use your oven on the lowest setting to make it dry faster) then I sanded it down and cut out a face with an exacto blade.
I added a little bit of backing behind the face on the inside with the paper mache in a bag to give it more of a 3D look which wasn’t that noticeable but oh well, it kidna worked… After all that stuffs done I painted it all white otherwise the newsprint would bleed through and make my colours not as bright, I also added some sculpey clay to the brow area to give it some more emotion in which I used an iron to dry it with cause it was too late to put it in the oven with paint all over it (Note: Put clay on before painting).
I sprayed it with a sealer before painting colours on it cause I find acrylics do weird things sometimes. After it was all dry I begin to paint.
I also painted the inside a red and added a kinda head rest thing on the inside since when I pushed the top down it made an uncomfortable point at the top when putting it on your head. Then once it was all dry I sprayed it with some more sealer, added some cool stuff like stitches with some ribbon and blood which I used nail polish for a shiny effect and put in some lights which weren’t very effective when my head was in the pumpkin but that’s okay, it still looked cool.
And that’s that!
Hope this helps some people, Enjoy!
Yes!! Now heads will be rolling!
Starter Rope Curriculum
so you just bought rope and you wanna know where to start? here’s a suggested curriculum of free tutorial videos.
these are all self-tie friendly.
1. karada (aka diamond harness, aka body harness)
6. rope corset
8. futomono
12. hishi body tie
Sparking Her Own Flame
Lover will make time for you. It will guide the hands of every clock and find the space for you. Busy people cannot make time for others. Loving busy people cannot make them make time for others. A contradiction, you may say, but so are the words ‘i love you” and “I am too busy for.” They are like two of the same ends of magnets coming togther.
Her
Women like her are both salt and sugar; how her love tastes truthfully depends on what you bring to the table, and how you serve it.





