F O L A

@vaxbc

I have one rule, tell me before I find out

they should make it easier

what?

Everything. All of it

There is so much power in your authenticity 🫶🏿

Don't allow others to consume you. If they don't call, go to sleep. If they don't message you, put away your phone & have a good day. If they are distant and refuse to tell you what's wrong, go home and do something fun. You live for yourself first. They are secondary.

Bessel van der Kolk

I just want to remind you that sometimes your life really doesn't begin until you are 26+... Romanticizing and obsessing over our youth is harmful. Growing up is beautiful. Discovering who you are and how you interact with the world is a gift. Maturing and learning what you truly want out of life and living in that purpose brings fulfillment and peace. Your life is not over in your early 20's because you haven't figured it out yet, it's just beginning.

I had this little mindshift the other day and decided to write this poem.

if someone doesn’t see the value that is pinned and blooming within you, it doesn’t matter what you do. it doesn’t matter how hard you fight for someone who isn’t fighting for you. it doesn’t matter how hard you show up for someone who isn’t showing up for you.

because those human beings don’t actually see you. don’t ever forget that the right people will choose you, they will see you, they will dive into the depth of you, and you will never have to force those connections.

— Mandy Hale

faithfully