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She Who Life Can No Longer Surprise

@flavia-draws / flavia-draws.tumblr.com

"the average person makes 5 prog references a day" myth actually statistical error the average person makes 0 prog references a day i am an outlier and should not have been counted

OK, I'm going to finally make a pinned post.

My name is Flavia. I am a prog fan. I am currently obsessed with King Crimson. My pronouns are she/her, they/them, and thon/thons. I, as you know, draw. Drawings can be found on my art blog, @flavias-drawings. My Keith Emerson appreciation blog is @envying-elinor-emerson. My prog sideblogs are @progcomments-3, @prog-fan-culture-is, and @prog-squad-the-sequel. NSFT posts will show up incredibly rarely, and they will be tagged as such.

I don't have a DNI, but expect to get blocked if you're an asshole. (I won't block you for kindly expressing views I personally disagree with, but I will block you for being mean about them.) I'm not going to list all my political views, because I didn't come here for discourse other than about Jon Anderson's sex life or lack thereof (long story), but I will say I'm generally left-wing. All opinions on this blog are those of Past Flavia and may have changed.

If you ask me what my gender is, I will ask you if you want the long version or the short version. The short version is I'm agender. The long version is I'm a demiwoman who also identifies as girlflux, agender, and genderfluid (because of those rare moments of boy). I use both pansexual and bisexual to describe my sexuality, and I'm some sort of arospec. (Asking me about that will result in a rambling rant.)

You know that comic (by @fuckwarlock) about a gay prog band and the drama within, only it's hard to find now (except the last few pages on @jenny-haniver) cause smackjeeves is gone? Yknow, Jenny Haniver? Horribly unknown, but if you want it tell me and I'll send you the zip file! Archive.org, you will save all out souls. (EDIT: OUR. Our souls. But yknow what, "out" sorta works too. Sorta.)

Ruly, stuff i think you'll like is tagged with #for ruly . My art tag is #flavia’s drawings . My original-post tag is #flavia writes .

Art requests are open, but I reserve the right to say no or take literal months till I finish it.

Well, that's all I've got for you today.

If you got that reference, you are officially cool. And it isn't prog, if you were wondering.

So the newest wave of bots seems to have

  • plausible tumblr usernames (words or a phrase, not real names or number)
  • women's photos as profile pictures
  • blank blog title/description
  • no visible likes, follows, or posts

I felt bad about reporting the first one, because I was like "this COULD be a person, possibly..." But by the third one I got over that.

ugh I had the same confusion

They've actually evolved further now. The ones I've been noticing for the last week or so now look like this:

  • A plausible url as described above
  • A (woman's) name as both the blog title and blog description
  • A picture of a woman as the pfp (or sometimes still no pfp, but that's less common.)
  • No header image, and blog is default colors. (No visual customization.)
  • All of their posts are very nsfw videos, typically reblogged from other bots. So if you're going to block them, do it from the top. Do NOT scroll down.
  • Unfortunately if you're on mobile, when you click on their blog, you will be forced to see part of their top post, so either cover the bottom half of your screen or just be prepared to see some very nsfw content. (Aka, literal porn.)

A good addition, thank you!

What I'm seeing is that the completely blank blogs are the ones likely to follow you, while the actual porn-filled ones scurry around liking real people's posts. Unfortunately, this looks like actual strategy (it's harder to detect a bot mixed into your notifications of likes than it is to notice one that just followed you). I hate it.

I (👑🍸) mean this with all the love in my heart but it feels like some of you have forgotten that you can lie to people on the internet.

It is acceptable to lie to people on the internet.

if people at home call you he/him pronouns and you want people online to call you by she/her pronouns you don't owe anybody the knowledge of what they call you at home. You don't have to call yourself trans if you don't want to. You can just call yourself a girl and move on.

You don't owe anybody on the 'net the full veracity of your physical vessel.

I am so, so happy that being transgender has become so much more normal and acceptable but I really feel like it has simultaneously done irreparable damage to the expectation of privacy and the commonality of lying to people on the internet.

Back in my day if you wanted people to see you as a 15 year old girl you just told people you were a 15 year old girl and deleted all your accounts if somebody doxxed you-- and remember that you shouldn't doxx people.

Privacy is good, people! you don't owe everyone online the naked truth of your soul at all times.

It to sound like a broken record here, but I do blame tiktok discourse for this bs

On tiktok you don't *have* privacy, I'm not sure if this is a thing on other platforms, but other then the obligatory face sharing to get any kind of "audience", there is the costant expectation of denouncing what "qualifications" you have when discussing a subject

Often you'll see people start a video with "I am *insert extremly private minority laundry list* so I cna say that (...)"

There is also just a general push to have 0 fucking boundaries on it, which is ironic considering the whole app is 10x less actual communication then tumblr.

I have learned people's most personal traumas discussed as qualification to talk in discourse. And if you're not perosnally affected and ya talk ab it, you're gonna get doggpiled

When I was younger and more abled, I was so fucking on board with the fantasy genre’s subversion of traditional femininity. We weren’t just fainting maidens locked up in towers; we could do anything men could do, be as strong or as physical or as violent. I got into western martial arts and learned to fight with a rapier, fell in love with the longsword.

But since I’ve gotten too disabled to fight anymore, I… find myself coming back to that maiden in a tower. It’s that funny thing, where subverting femininity is powerful for the people who have always been forced into it… but for the people who have always been excluded, the powerful thing can be embracing it.

As I’m disabled, as I say to groups of friends, “I can’t walk that far,” as I’m in too much pain to keep partying, I find myself worrying: I’m boring, too quiet, too stationary, irrelevant. The message sent to the disabled is: You’re out of the narrative, you’re secondary, you’re a burden.

The remarkable thing about the maiden in her tower is not her immobility; it’s common for disabled people to be abandoned, set adrift, waiting at bus stops or watching out the windows, forgotten in institutions or stranded in our houses. The remarkable thing is that she’s like a beacon, turning her tower into a lighthouse; people want to come to her, she’s important, she inspires through her appearance and words and craftwork.  In medieval romances she gives gifts, write letters, sends messengers, and summons lovers; she plays chess, commissions ballads, composes music, commands knights. She is her household’s moral centre in a castle under siege. She is a castle unto herself, and the integrity of her body matters.

That can be so revolutionary to those of us stuck in our towers who fall prey to thinking: Nobody would want to visit; nobody would want to listen; nobody would want to stay.

It’s been half a decade and I still haven’t found an articulation of the complexity of “representation” as concisely and precisely mindblowing as @hungrylikethewolfie’s here.

I was watching the sea devils with a friend a bit ago and we got to the part where the master requests another tv in his prison cell and like yeah, it shows off that the master has a lot of control of his situation if he can get amenities like that in a prison cell

but then we thought about it a little more and realized

this episode aired in the early 70s, for viewers back then, the fact he requested a second tv for his cell, let alone a color tv, which was still pretty new for britain, must have been as the most smug thing possible

like the audacity of that man

Jack: *gasps*
Daniel: "What?"
Jack: "What if soy milk is just milk introducing itself in Spanish?"
Daniel: *inhales*
Sam, in another room with Teal'c: "Do you hear screeching?"

Jack: “What if soy milk

is just milk introducing

itself in Spanish?”

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

Help Trans Alabamians now!

HB401, or a "drag ban" for Alabama, has been proposed-- and we aren't going to take it. a lot of ground work has been done, but we need all the help we can get.

there's local events for any residents, but for non-residents, the most help you can give is signing the petition to say NO to HB401.

Queer people belong here, because Y'all means All.

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symbol        meaning

=                   equals

=/=                not equals

<                   left

>                   right

!                    LOUD NUMBER

~                   worm

π                  stonehenge

√                   right answer

x                   wrong answer

⋯                  soon…

                   what Exacrly the fuck

∝                   fish

∞                   fish with 2 heads

↯                    lightning

:⇔                 he Scream

∈ e (weird font)

∃ e (wrong fucking wqay round)

∄ yeah cross it out. its not right

∆ scary spike

∇ scary spike (ceiling)

∬ snakes

∭ snakes!?

⨌ SNAAAAAAAAAAKES!

⩨ railroad track

⩊ peter griffin’s chin

≈ approximately equals

≊ hey wait what are you doing

⩰ stop that

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≟ confused equals sign

⨚ this snake has given up

⨂ tensor product

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