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The Blog With The Dragons

@fireandwonder / fireandwonder.tumblr.com

Grad student and future librarian. Queer nerd. I run too many blogs and tend to cycle through special interests. I like giving book recs but I don't like receiving them because my to-read list is already too long

ireland sending aid to native americans affected by the corona virus in return for their help during the famine that is truly iconic, big brain activity

after some more research i should clarify that it’s actually individual irish people donating to a gofund me to help members of the navajo nation in remembrance of the generosity of the choctaw tribe during the famine, which is very cool here’s an article

"from Irish donor, Pat Hayes, sent from Ireland across the ocean: “From Ireland, 170 years later, the favour is returned! To our Native American brothers and sisters in your moment of hardship.”

i cannot explain how quickly i started crying 

y’all really recommend books like: title, there are gay characters, enemies to lovers, young adult, written by poc

not once do i ever see a summary

What more info do you need?

A SUMMARY

WHAT DO U MENA SUMMARY WHAT ELSE MATTERS ITS GAY POC AND ENEMIES TO LOVERS HOW OFTEN DO U CONE ACROSS THAT

i want to know what its about mainly. is it a romance? is there plot besides the romance? is it realistic fiction? sci fi? fantasy? historical? future? alternate history? whats the tone? what are the themes? what are the main characters’ NAMES?

I- it’s gay the gay

i value queer characters too. but i also want to know WHAT THE BOOK I’M READING IS ABOUT.

“GAY AND/OR RACIALLY DIVERSE” IS NOT A GENRE. nor is it an indicator of quality

do you know how many times I’ve been recommended a book solely because “it’s queer fantasy!”

do you know how many times those books have been so poorly written that I couldn’t finish them

Mostly, I want to know the tone. A 19th century war story isn’t gonna do it for me when I’m in the mood for a lighthearted austenesque romance - and those are both historical. A star warsy space romp isn’t gonna do it if I want to read about interplanetary political negotiations - and those are both sci fi. A fun gratuitious don’t-think-about-it-too-hard action story is not the same as a dark and complicated mob drama. A suspenseful thriller will bore me if I’m looking for a fast paced spy novel.

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I spent several months last winter looking for mysteries with queer content. Not queer- happen-to-be-mysteries, good MYSTERIES that were queer. I think I tried a dozen authors before I found one where I was able to get beyond two books. (It was Michael Nava. Holy crap he’s good. Excellent sense of place, smart prose, good character detail, smart enough mystery, real growth for the protagonist, and something to say. )

The “these people write queer mysteries, read them!” lists were not much help. The lists written by mystery readers and writers, which concentrated on plot, character, tone were the ones that helped.

this is the weirdest complaint because book summaries are pretty widely available from publishers/authors/retailers/libraries? like just google the book title + author if it sounds interesting? or follow different bookbloggers? people on this blue hellsite are going to scream about their feels, not write you a fourth grade book report. 

“POC f/f enemies-to-lovers” is a starting point and is honestly more interesting to me than something like “Two girls on rival soccer teams learn that winning is not the most important thing.” The second one is not going to make me notice the book and look up more information that would lead me to finding out it’s a queer romance starring poc. The first one does make me want to look up a plot summary.

or maybe it’s a generation thing bc “LGBT” as a marketing category is pretty new, it used to be that unless it was Literature about Sad Gays, it wouldn’t be marketed as LGBT and if you wanted, say, queer sci fi, you’d have to go by word of mouth or random people on the internet being like “guys this book is gay!!”

and if you’re looking for something like books about qpoc, the pickings are incredibly slim and you want to know that sort of thing up front.

plus tropes do communicate plot and tone? it’s just an easier shorthand? 

or maybe someone has made a dozen posts about a book they like and don’t feel the need to include a summary in each one? Writing summaries is HARD, people, I had to do 200+ per quarterly newsletter at my old job and it was absolutely grueling. 

describing books in terms of official summaries and describing books by AO3 tags serve different purposes/appeal to different audiences and are both valid. 

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I am one of those gays who craves more m/f friendships and would like for interactions between men and women in Media to not have forced romance inserted awkwardly but I have noticed people go the absolute hardest about a man and a woman remaining platonic besties when they’re of different races. And it’s just weird cuz I’ve talked about this before but this is already like the one circumstance where writers will often go out of their way to not turn a m/f dynamic into a romance

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To be clear, this is about how potential interracial relationships in fiction are very often not afforded consideration or respect either by creators or by fans of a work. I enjoy m/f friendships as much as the next person but I’m unnerved by the number of people who consistently and most adamantly go out of their way to shoot down romance when it’s interracial

Headcannon: Hardison is an ex-theater kid, but on the tech side, and that's where he got so good at the physical forgery, costumes, and special effect stuff he uses.

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okay you’re right and you should say it

hardison learning more about audio tech and mics through interacting with theatre tech? yes

hardison making costumes on his weekends with some musical soundtracks playing in the background because it reminds him of stage crew? yes

hardison forging the diary in the king george job? just like that one time they were putting on macbeth and their props were stolen and they had to make them from scratch a week before opening night? just like that, just with higher stakes and even more of a time crunch

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I think like, while Lil Nas X is tearing apart a lot of troll responses he’s getting on twitter for laughs on purpose, I also definitely think we should be careful about how we frame that, how we repost that, and whether that’s the thing we focus on here, because the sheer volume and maliciousness of the harassment (from the likes of Fox News and establishments such as that) he’s receiving isn’t without emotional consequences. he even stated that much:

[ID: tweet by Lil Nas X stating: “i’ll be honest all this backlash is putting an emotional toll on me. i try to cover it with humour but it’s getting hard. my anxiety is higher than ever and stream call me by your name on all platforms now!” /end ID]

like we should def appreciate his creativity & his incredible sense of humour in the face of all this, but I think we shouldn’t forget the extreme severity of the backlash and hatred in response to a bold and groundbreaking piece of black gay art, that showcases black gay sexuality in a way that is almost never seen, certainly by not such a famous musician, and not erase the fact that the amount of hate he’s getting here is both unjust, racially-motivated, and almost definitely tremendously painful and upsetting? or else we risk reducing black performers and artists to mere objects of entertainment and fail to see black performers & artists as people, human beings.

The Assistant Pig-Keeper.

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If you’re wondering, this is Taran, from the Chronicles of Prydain series by Lloyd Alexander. One of the great classics of fantasy for young readers, strongly based in Welsh history and mythology. A fabulous read, and I recommend it to anyone young or old. 

Taran Wanderer, in particular, remains in my memory as one of the greatest depictions of real life in a fantasy world, of trying to find your place in the world and the realities of war and poverty, that I have ever read. 

a set of somewhat related things I’ve been thinking a lot about:

  • As often as people say “google is free” on the internet, it seems like more people would have written about the experience of actually trying to learn about social issues by googling them and how much it fucking sucks.
  • like i very much did grow up in the Bible Belt in an EXTREMELY conservative community. Like, the bland, “centrist” moderate liberal type of person people on here say is basically indistinguishable from a Republican? people i was around as a young teenager would consider them dangerously close to being a communist. Both of my parents have had significant portions of their social circles completely ostracize them for not being trump supporters. Not even for having “liberal” views, for QUESTIONING the idea that Donald trump is God’s gift to man
  • what I’m saying is, I very much did have to learn about things by aimless googling and it is. not like people say it is
  • When you google things like “how do I help fight against racism,” you get a combination of resources. many of which are rather jargony for people who aren’t culturally familiar with “The Left” or whatever. And yet. they’re mostly the same set of very basic suggestions, many of which have unclear concrete application
  • I’m losing my patience with how much “activism” is expected to center around social media presence. like so much of what supposedly answers “how do I help fight against racism” or whatever basic question revolves around things you do online instead of in real life. In particular, “listen to minority voices” is basically just “follow people on social media.” It’s so internet-centered. A lot of the advice is suited more to a “people freely interacting in an open plaza where we talk about bigotry and inequality” kind of thing rather than the kind of interactions you have in real life with people.
  • at the same time, a lot of the guidelines about handling these conversations are so badly suited to the internet.
  • Like. On the internet, people’s identity isn’t always public or easy to find out, nor should it be, but no one seems to want to...admit...???...that this makes putting into practice “centering” and listening to certain voices kind of hard. Online, people have no idea who you are unless you tell them. You very much can lie if you want. It has always seemed to me like social issues conversations are better to have in real life with people you actually have a relationship with. Not that we can’t have them online (obviously) but we are limited.
  • Furthermore, though I agree with, and try to put into practice, the idea that basically people know more about the bigotry and discrimination they face than I do, and therefore I should listen to minority voices and let my viewpoints be guided by them...being a semi-popular blogger who interacts with and gets messages from loads of people means that it’s basically impossible for me to practice that online because this is the internet, where if you can think of an opinion, it exists and someone is telling you that you should die over it. I have been called a bigot over the most batshit fucking bonkers cuckoo for coco puffs things under the fucking sun.
  • like i have been called a racist and colonialist for believing that ADHD, as a label, corresponds to a real thing in my brain. I still have the screenshots. I know I’m not SUPPOSED to be like “yeah, I don’t think that’s correct,” but what can you do.
  • (Do any of you remember that big post a while back where someone was claiming that a Van Gogh painting was blackface, and it turned out that they were arguing that literally all art by non-black people was blackface? I still have no idea if they were a troll or what but it was a Thing, and a real demonstration of how someone who is a malicious troll or just bonkers can just say shit. I don’t think anyone took that one seriously, but still.)
  • basically real interactions in the real world are so much different than the internet and way more important and productive in my opinion but our ideas of how “activism” is supposed to work and how to be an ally is so internet-ified while at the same time not really working all that well online. both in terms of learning about things and about interacting with people. can we just admit that the internet is a REALLY socially weird place and by no means the baseline for How Human Interactions Work.

what does it say about us as a culture that most of our microwaves have a dedicated popcorn button

i dont know but whatever it says, its magnified by literally every bag of popcorn saying “don’t use the popcorn button”

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Funnily enough, there’s an answer for that.

In brief, the “popcorn” button was initially introduced by fancy high-end microwaves that used an integrated humidity sensor to tell when your popcorn was done; microwaveable popcorn vents steam as it cooks, so by monitoring the amount of steam in the cooking chamber, you can get pretty close to perfectly popped popcorn every time (though it’s generally only pretty close, since different brands of microwaveable popcorn have different moisture content).

As the feature became popular, manufacturers of cheap microwaves started adding a button labelled “popcorn” as well, in order to imply that they offer this feature. These “popcorn” buttons simply run the microwave for a fixed amount of time that the manufacturer figures is close enough to the printed cooking time of most commercial brands.

In practice, of course, the fixed-time “popcorn” button usually just sets your popcorn on fire. To make matters worse, owing to America’s permissive advertising laws, microwave manufacturers are allowed to make all sorts of misleading-but-technically-true statements in their packaging and instruction manuals, rendering it nearly impossible to tell whether a given model of microwave has a real humidity-sensing “popcorn” button or a fake fixed-time “popcorn” button before buying it.

In summary: the “popcorn” button that your microwave popcorn instructs you not to use exists because American microwave manufacturers are using a misleadingly labelled button in order to imply that their product has a feature that it does not in fact have, in a way that can potentially trick people into burning their houses down, for advertising purposes. This is perfectly legal.

So: what does that say about our culture?

shipment officers, gently nudging Ever Given with their 8 tugboats: Ever Given move out of the way please so you don’t block the entire global trade

Ever Given, her lamplights enormous: you SHOVE ever given? you shove her hull like the big boulder? oh! oh! no commerce for human! no commerce for human for One Thousand Years!!!

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Ted Raimi in the DVD interviews for “Been There, Done That”

Gabrielle: /Does something unbearably sexy

Xena: Joxer. This is very important. I need you to run 3 miles east and find a bald man named Harry. When you do, tell him ‘white, not green’ and come back.

Gabrielle: Why does he need to do that?

Xena: So he feels like he’s doing something productive while I make you forget your own name.

:D

SOMEONE DRAW FANART OF THIS

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Joxer: They value me so much, I always get to go on important missions for them!

Joxer: SUCH GOOD GAL PALS

you might not agree but part of activism is knowing to choose your battles, because what do i care if my eighty year old grandma doesn't know the exact correct terms to refer to lgbtq+ identities as long as she supports and respects everyone, what do i care about the old man in the almacén that isn't online so he doesn't know every aspect of feminism who told me happy women's day when he understands the issues women are put through and supports the fight, I'd rather be met with truly kind and concerned ppl who care and have been in this fight far more time than us than all these articulate young people who at the end of the day don't truly give a shit

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One of my coworkers is in his fifties, has a reputation as the resident “grumpy old man,” and is definitely not always politically correct.

But one time at a work party he said something that I don’t even remember what it is, but it bugged him so much that THREE DAYS LATER (it was a long weekend) he pulled me aside to apologize. He said he was afraid he’d made me uncomfortable, and he felt really bad about it. He explicitly said he wanted to make sure I had a comfortable work environment. He assured me that if he ever said something that did make me uncomfortable, I could just tell him to knock it off and he’d stop. Or, he added, if that was scary, I could tell one of our coworkers and THEY could tell him to knock it off. He was terribly humble and earnest through the whole of it, and I was completely taken aback because, like I said, I couldn’t even remember what he’d done wrong. This coworker also, despite having at least twenty+ years of experience on me and being an expert in the field, has always taken the time to listen to my ideas and engage with me on solving technical issues like I also am an expert in the field. 

And I would MUCH rather work with him than any guy who knows all the right feminist lingo but doesn’t listen to a thing I say. The goal has ALWAYS been to treat everyone with kindness and respect, and once a person’s activism gets removed from that, they’re sidetracking progress. The right words aren’t nearly as important as the heart behind it.

Hey did you know I keep a google drive folder with linguistics and language books  that I try to update regularly 

**UPDATE**

I have restructured the folders to make them easier to use and managed to add almost all languages requested and then some

Please let me know any further suggestions

….holy shit. You found the holy grail.

….. is this a DIFFERENT person keeping gigabytes worth of language books on google drive? Holy crap.