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Everybody needs that one friend who's better at piracy than you so you can ask for links to tv shows or perhaps movies and they just Have them. They're like genies. This is a priceless gift when unfamiliar links scare you when you try to google Watch free online yourself. Very literally it does not have a price. You aren't paying for it

trans friends— this has been circulating a lot on the internet already but PLEASE stop ordering from gc2b. their quality has massively declined, they send the wrong size binders correctly marked, the stitching is extremely poor and rips often times when first putting it on. do not waste your money on them!

the sheer amount of ppl in the notes feeling validated because they thought they were going crazy… im so sorry yall i empathize with how hard this was especially for my poor trans siblings.

Ordered GC2B for the first time last year.

I had several issues with them - first and foremost, I mistakenly put my real name instead of my deadname when I ordered (was in a dysphoric episode, wasn't really thinking) which, admittedly was my own fault. However, you cannot cancel or change orders. You have to message them to change orders. I frantically emailed, several times, and by the time they got back to me the order had been shipped and was on the way to my house. So shitty communication system, okay. I was ready to believe it was my own fault.

And then I got my binder - it was way too small. PAINFULLY small, despite the online measurements saying it should have been the correct size. They also had just stopped allowing people to return binders that didn't fit correctly, and instead were offering a coupon. A week later they changed the measurement system and so the binder that I had ordered large was actually now considered a small or medium - no notice or warning that this change was coming when I ordered, no ability to return it.

I didn't order again, but one of my best friends sent me some of his GC2B binders in my size he hadn't ever worn (doesn't bind anymore.) They fit correctly - but they bind horribly. I have a large chest. Nothing makes me flat, or close to it, even under many layers - my underworks and spectrum binders at least minimize my chest though, whereas the GC2B does very little.

So beyond poor communication that could potentially harm someone (really? One of the most well known binder companies requires you to MESSAGE them to cancel or change an order, and doesn't have a fast or competent system - because no other trans person has had to abruptly change or cancel an order for safety reasons?), they have an inconsistent and dishonest measurement system, and the quality of the binders is absolute shit.

I've had a lot of other small issues, but seriously, unless you've got a smaller chest/want a binder for swimming, GC2B isn't worth it - especially when it's promised to be some miracle binder company. If they work for you, that's great! But if you're looking for a binder for the first time, I strongly recommend other companies like spectrum and underworks.

I used to really dislike Forzen but I now understand he’s an absolute masterpiece of a person.

He’s the only enemy (non-companion) with sentient AI. Who’s gonna be giving him orders? The pre-recorded radio dialog? His only stated motivation is “I just want to graduate”. How old is this guy? Is he just Benrey fucking with everyone? Is he a naïve college student who got poached by army recruiters in the high school cafeteria? Why’s a US Marine speaking Quebecois. He somehow stole an immortal dog that was supposed to be at Tommy’s house. Every character forgets his name immediately after first meeting him.

Anonymous asked:

I want to live by myself when I move out of my parent's place but I'm really afraid of money problems? I'm afraid that the only place I can afford will be in the ghetto and it'll all be torn apart and I'll only be allowed to eat one granola bar a week. I'm really stressing out about this. I don't know anything about after school life. I don't know anything about paying bills or how to buy an apartment and it's really scaring me. is there anything you know that can help me?

HI darling,

I’ve actually got a super wonderful masterpost for you to check out:

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Asks I’ll Probably Need to Refer People to Later

Adult Cheat Sheet:

Once you’ve looked over all those cool links, I have some general advice for you on how you can have some sort of support system going for you:

Reasons to move out of home

You may decide to leave home for many different reasons, including:

  • wishing to live independently
  • location difficulties – for example, the need to move closer to university
  • conflict with your parents
  • being asked to leave by your parents.

Issues to consider when moving out of home

It’s common to be a little unsure when you make a decision like leaving home. You may choose to move, but find that you face problems you didn’t anticipate, such as:

  • Unreadiness – you may find you are not quite ready to handle all the responsibilities.
  • Money worries – bills including rent, utilities like gas and electricity and the cost of groceries may catch you by surprise, especially if you are used to your parents providing for everything. Debt may become an issue.
  • Flatmate problems – issues such as paying bills on time, sharing housework equally, friends who never pay board, but stay anyway, and lifestyle incompatibilities (such as a non-drug-user flatting with a drug user) may result in hostilities and arguments.

Your parents may be worried

Think about how your parents may be feeling and talk with them if they are worried about you. Most parents want their children to be happy and independent, but they might be concerned about a lot of different things. For example:

  • They may worry that you are not ready.
  • They may be sad because they will miss you.
  • They may think you shouldn’t leave home until you are married or have bought a house.
  • They may be concerned about the people you have chosen to live with.

Reassure your parents that you will keep in touch and visit regularly. Try to leave on a positive note. Hopefully, they are happy about your plans and support your decision.

Tips for a successful move

Tips include:

  • Don’t make a rash decision – consider the situation carefully. Are you ready to live independently? Do you make enough money to support yourself? Are you moving out for the right reasons?
  • Draw up a realistic budget – don’t forget to include ‘hidden’ expenses such as the property’s security deposit or bond (usually four weeks’ rent), connection fees for utilities, and home and contents insurance.
  • Communicate – avoid misunderstandings, hostilities and arguments by talking openly and respectfully about your concerns with flatmates and parents. Make sure you’re open to their point of view too – getting along is a two-way street.
  • Keep in touch – talk to your parents about regular home visits: for example, having Sunday night dinner together every week.
  • Work out acceptable behaviour – if your parents don’t like your flatmate(s), find out why. It is usually the behaviour rather than the person that causes offence (for example, swearing or smoking). Out of respect for your parents, ask your flatmate(s) to be on their best behaviour when your parents visit and do the same for them.
  • Ask for help – if things are becoming difficult, don’t be too proud to ask your parents for help. They have a lot of life experience.

If your family home does not provide support

Not everyone who leaves home can return home or ask their parents for help in times of trouble. If you have been thrown out of home or left home to escape abuse or conflict, you may be too young or unprepared to cope.

If you are a fostered child, you will have to leave the state-care system when you turn 18, but you may not be ready to make the sudden transition to independence.

If you need support, help is available from a range of community and government organisations. Assistance includes emergency accommodation and food vouchers. If you can’t call your parents or foster parents, call one of the associations below for information, advice and assistance.

Where to get help

  • Your doctor
  • Kids Helpline Tel. 1800 55 1800
  • Lifeline Tel. 13 11 44
  • Home Ground Services Tel. 1800 048 325
  • Relationships Australia Tel. 1300 364 277
  • Centrelink Crisis or Special Help Tel. 13 28 50
  • Tenants Union of Victoria Tel. (03) 9416 2577

Things to remember

  • Try to solve any problems before you leave home. Don’t leave because of a fight or other family difficulty if you can possibly avoid it.
  • Draw up a realistic budget that includes ‘hidden’ expenses, such as bond, connection fees for utilities, and home and contents insurance.
  • Remember that you can get help from a range of community and government organizations. 

Keep me updated? xx

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its 2021 if youre still doing discourse on peoples gender identities or sexual/romantic orientation you’re pathetic

we’re having a global resurgence of fascism and unparalleled regression into bigotry in places like the US and UK and you still want to bitch and moan about how “uwu pansexual people are biphobic” or whatever other goddamn nitpick you have about asexual, mspec, or nonbinary folks? get a goddamn hold of yourself and focus on the shit that actually matters jesus christ. tearing down other LGBTA+ people bc you have a goddamn superiority complex and wanna play oppression olympics isn’t fuckin helping.