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🐍Scorpio // Slytherin // Horned serpent🐍 somewhere between INFP & INTP

I think the best piece of advice I have got ever was in my third year of CS, in an algorithms and complexity class. I remember when we went up to the blackboard and someone was stuck in some part of a problem, the professor always told us to take a step back. Literally. So I remember people took a step back (even, sometimes some people returned to their seats to see the whole blackboard) and it seemed, they magically got the answer. In those times I questioned that. How someone who has been stuck in the same problem for a long time, take a step back and then see what’s the problem?

Then, one day, I was in the blackboard and was stuck somewhere, the professor gave me that advice. One step back and I saw the blackboard in a different way. I was able to keep on writing a solution for the problem.

After that, I found it doesn’t need to be a literal step back. It can be going for a walk, drink or eat something, whatever. You know that, if you ever feel stressed and you can keep going on, relax, but you seldom do that. At least, I don’t.

So, today, I was programming something, but it didn’t work. I was 100% sure, I understood what I needed to code, but it wasn’t still working. I decided to brush my teeth and drink water; meanwhile I was summing up what I had done. I rethought the whole problem for a moment, and I got it! I was focused in the details, instead of the whole picture.

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A Note About “Witch Face”

So I’m seeing confusion about what is and isn’t offensive, so here it is:

We’re rolling up on October very quickly and I’m getting asked again (and I love it, because you remember from last year, because you care), so I’m bringing this post back again. The pointy hat has origins that are debated, and it may be a reference to old Scottish women, or to Jewish people, but my reasoning is that its so separate in time that it has lost its meaning. The green face does have racist connotations, meant to refer to “olive skinned” people, and specifically Jewish people. I give it a pass, though, because people do not (generally) know this, and they don’t associate it with us, they associate it with the Wicked Witch of the West and the Wizard of Oz. It has been stripped of its meaning. I still stand firm on the nose issue. 

DO NOT USE THE WITCH NOSE THIS HALLOWEEN, ITS ANTISEMITIC. DO NOT DO THAT THING.

Omg I had no idea about the nose??? I feel a little offended by the “ugly evil witch” stereotype since I’m wiccan but the witch costume isn’t exactly offensive. Idk??

Maybe for our little woodland witch town we could all be foster parents and require everyone to always be learning something new. Each family can be in charge of having a farm where they grow a variety of food and livestock. We could have Sabbath and holiday festivals, monthly town meetings, and every townsperson who has a craft would have their own shop. And of course we would need a town museum and gift shop. And Gaia’s Childrens’ headquarters can be there providing even more jobs!

This…..

This would be….my dream! :O

I will let everyone know where I am most likely planning on moving to next to make a more permanent home and hopefully we can make it happen! It will also be a good way to grow and make Gaia’s Children a real big thing with fellow witches around!

Amazing! I didn’t know you were actually planning on doing this!

Maybe when I get older I can move to wherever this will be happening (America, right?) and I can do it. :D

Yes I am! Yes I live in America :)

Wow! It’s at times like these that I wished I live in America :)

Can’t wait to hopefully see it one day! I know it’d be beautiful!

:) I hope we can make it happen and have lots of witchy visitors from all over the world!

This is wonderful.

Omg that would be a dream coming true for me

An actual fight I got into with my father I’m still laughing about

Dad: It’s a choice! You’re making that choice to do that. And I don’t want you, as my daughter, to be like that. I thought I raised you so that you wouldn’t go down that path.
Me: It’s not a “choice.” it’s who I am. It’s a part of me. And I’m not ashamed of it.
Dad: You say “it’s a part of me.” no it’s not. You CHOOSE to do that.
Me: I could choose to not, but that wouldn’t be authentic to me. It’s who I am, how I am when I’m with my friends or alone. I’m not just gonna censor myself around church people or in public because YOU don’t like it. It’s me.
And you go on the computer and will watch things and listen to things with it in them with my little brother and you have no problem with it. But then when I express it, you blow up?
Dad: I know that it’s out there and I’m not going to hide myself from it, but I’m not out there doing that. Cause it’s a choice.
Me: And what’s your problem with it?
Dad: It’s crude! It’s unintelligent.
Me: And yet there are so many people out there who are so intelligent that you look up to and support who are like this.
Dad: Yeah, but they’re famous so I cut them slack.
Me: *pissed* so I have to wait until I’m famous to come out and do this? Do you think all those people seriously waited until they were famous to accept this and express it? NO THEY DIDN’T CAUSE IT’S JUST A PART OF THEM.
Dad: *pissed* Well I don’t want my kid being like this regardless!
Me: Well, I’m not gonna stop. I respect that that is your view, but I’m not gonna change and I’m not gonna stop because I don’t believe it’s wrong.
Dad: *about to lay into me*
Me: *so angry I’m about to cry*
Mom: *had enough of my dad* Honey, please go downstairs and give her some space. You made your case, she’s heard you.
Dad: *leaves*
Me: I don’t understand! He’s such a hypocrite! And to lay into me over this? I’m not hurting anyone! And I’m respectful of other’s views on this.
Mom: Honey, it’s okay. I’m fine with it. I support you. You don’t have to explain yourself to me.
Me: But why blow up at me?
Mom: Think of how hard and strict his father was. You can’t hold it against him. It’s just how he was raised.
Me: I just don’t understand why he’s so against swearing. Like he’s cool with me being gay, but no swearing.

sometimes people don’t understand what i mean when i say “gay culture” and i usually explain it by telling the story of how once i told one of my best friends i liked him and he straight up looked me in the eye and was like “no you don’t. we’re both gay. what you’re feeling is safety with the one guy you know who will never make you uncomfortable.” and i had this holy shit moment where i realized he was right and then he set me up with his beard

Shout out to everyone that’s actually really intelligent but have difficulty articulating what they know especially when they’re being questioned.

wow. this is what i really needed to hear. and also why i hate school because i can write a fire paper but if the prof calls on me i suddenly forget how to speak