Reminder to fandom babies that wr do not ask actors/writers/directors/etc about fictional ships/pairings.
Keep fandom separate.
Stealing your tags, @ternaryflower53 because THIS!
#we also! do not! ask PERMISSION#to write rpf!#DON'T DO IT#we let them pretend it does not exist!#god ffs#i see people asking influencers for their boundaries abt rpf#and it makes me lose my fucking marbles#because first off#you don't need their permission#this is about your relationship to them and their content#not about them#and second of all#they really really#do not want to be thinking about ppl writing about them#you really want them to make individual decisions about if you can write fic?#make them queer and trans and project your mental illness#or write smut#or literally anything#they don't want to make decisions about that#just keep it away from them
Would you like total strangers to come up to you and ask you that kind of questions? No. It would be gross and inappropriate.*
Writers, artists, actors, and any one in the public eye, deserves the same respect for their personal integrity and boundaries as everyone else. They are doing their job, and dealing with fans who have zero sense of what is appropriate is not in their contract, good gods!
yes! and, to be clear, this is not "rpf is gross and people shouldn't write it", because that's also not something i agree with - it's specifically Don't Involve Them In This
you are allowed to fantasize about that hot coworker you have! similarly, you are allowed to fantasize about that hot celebrity in your blorbo's show!
you are allowed to gossip about your teachers or your classmates relationships, or to complain about your boss! similarly, you are allowed to gossip about those two youtubers who are cute together!
that doesn't mean you should tell said person about those conversations without their consent!
Yes this. I'm sorry if I sounded like I was judging or condemning it. I really meant it in a 'you do you babe, but don't tell them about it'.













