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felis corvus

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a denizen of the wild lands between taxonomies
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Waiting for “The Theory of Everything” - My top 20 Ayreon songs -

~ [8/20] Sail Away to Avalon (The Final Experiment).

Lyrics

TO ENTERTAIN THE COURT, AYREON MAKES UP A SONG ABOUT THE BRAVE KNIGHTS OF THE ROUND TABLE AND THEIR JOURNEY TO THE ISLE OF AVALON IN SEARCH OF THE HOLY GRAIL.
[AYREON:] Noble men in shining armour knights of the table-round go out and ride like thunder cross the sky at the speed of
sound the horn, ‘n blow the trumpets upon the castle wall now the quest has started listen to the prophet’s call
Sail away sail away to Avalon the journey has begun sail away through the night sail away, never die the gods are at your side sail away through the night
Ride on the road to glory find the holy grail and learn the ancient story ’s more than just a fairy-
tale about the key to life and all its mysteries you’ll find the grail within you slay the dragon in your dreams

Music I am totally obsessed with lately 😻😻😻

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I reckon I am still gunna get ID’d for stuff at 42 

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35.  Got carded for cider at a convenience store tonight.

I still get carded for things you only have to be 18 for. Like lighters. I’m 36.

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Some states have laws that you have to card up to, like, if someone looks under 26 (which is what I think New York’s is).  Still, though.

Yeah, I don't know if it's a law, but a lot of stores here in CA have signs saying they will card you if you look under 35-36.

They don't all do it consistently, though; like if you're a regular at a certain grocery store, the clerks will start to recognize you and won't card you every time.

Oh, and some will card basically everyone even for stuff with no age restrictions. I got carded at World Market for ginger beer, which doesn't even contain any alcohol. o_O (to be fair, it has "beer" in the name, but still..).

I think the issue w a lot of people invested in like “SJ” sorts of things is that they conceptualize ethics as *only* being abt these structural oppressions, so as long as you are acting in accordance w those precepts you literally cannot do anything unethical.

But like, you can be completely Right Politically in a situation and still be acting in a cruel, greedy, careless, vicious, or harmful way. And that doesn’t give that complete absolution.

We need to like, not mistake structural analysis w ethical formation, tho they are obviously connected

I think that’s a part of what’s been so like, volatile about SJ spaces for the last couple of years: people think that if you sublimate your individual ethics into some kinda framework that you’re good and that you can act like an incredibly petty asshole

YES ALL THIS

Tuaf when you have a meltdown because someone is wearing Your Clothes or is sitting on Your Bed and they don’t understand how upsetting it is when they do that

The heck? Is wearing other people's clothes without permission, like, a Thing People Do? Because that seems incredibly rude.

"Stomach flu" is not the flu

Seriously, folks, if you're sick and your *primary* symptomology is that you're throwing up and/or having stuff coming out both ends - THAT IS NOT THE FLU. As an emetophobe, as well as someone who has (as all of us do) a vested interest in helping curb the spread of nasty, contagious, potentially deadly diseases, I would appreciate it if you would please get this through your head. I can't even count the number of people I've heard this season saying "well, the flu shot doesn't work, because I got sick anyway and couldn't keep anything down". The flu shot is REALLY REALLY important - even though it's not 100%, it's better than nothing, and anyone who CAN be vaccinated should be, for the sake of protecting people with compromised immune systems, older people, and babies too young to be vaccinated. Contracting norovirus (which is the most common "stomach bug") has nothing to do with whether or not you got a flu shot. I dearly wish there WERE a norovirus vaccine, given my own mortal dread of puking, but there isn't, and so if you've been barfing lately, I actually really do specifically want to know this so I can avoid contact for a while (and make sure to wash my hands more frequently, etc.). But please just don't say you have the flu if what you mean is barf. And please keep getting flu shots even if you get a stomach bug, because that is in no way proof that flu shots don't work.

How many prrrrrrrs in a kittlekins?

What I ask Igor (my lovable doofus eccentric bottomlessly-curious Ravenclaw black-furred large-but-still-growing boy-kitten) about a million times a day.  (See also: “How many mews…?” “How many wrrrrrowws…?” etc.)  

Usually when he is doing something like this:

[Image description: Big black kitten (Igor) sitting on my chest and shoulder leaning so hard my head is tilted sideways.]

He jumps up onto me and always makes little vocalizations when he jumps and lands.  Which he just did right now as I typed this.  Igor is the only kitten I know who always comes when called.  He’s not all that obedient.  He’s so much of a curious Ravenclaw kitty that he’s actually afraid that if I call him, and he doesn’t come, he might miss out on something exciting or interesting.  So unless he’s terrified to come out of wherever he’s holed up, calling him… you can’t hear him coming, so I’ll call his name over and over and suddenly realize he’s next to me or on top of me, or just sitting on the floor in front of me staring up like “What’s going on?  Is it interesting?  Can I study it?”

Cat is ok now

Because I don't know how time stamps work on here and someone messaged me about it - Shadow had a partial urinary blockage a few weeks ago, and had to be hospitalized for 2 days, and it was terrifying and awful, but he is OK now! He is now on a strict wet-food-only diet to keep crystals from forming, but he has absolutely no problem with this and with any luck, the situation will be a one-off. I'm just glad we caught it early and he didn't end up with kidney damage or worse.

Reblog if you have used dude as a non gender specific term.

where I grew up in California not only is “dude” generally non-gender-specific, half of the time it doesn’t even refer to a person at all.

I said it to a faucet today. 

i called my phone a dude and a bro in the same sentence

Yes, having lived in California for more than half my life now, this is normal for me. Also, have used "dude!" as a general exclamation.

Good writers have two things in common; they prefer to be understood rather than admired; and they do not write for knowing and over-acute readers.

Friedriche Nietzsche

Okay – I get the first half of this, and agree with it.  But I can’t figure out the meaning of the second half, nor can I find it explained anywhere.  It seems to have appeared in a book of short sayings of approximately this length, that he did not elaborate on.  And I’m far from a Nietzsche scholar, so I can’t call forth tons of knowledge of his other writing to support whatever he’s saying.

So the confusing part for me is:

…they do not write for knowing and over-acute readers.

That’s the overall confusing sentence.

Two confusing parts of the sentence:

knowing readers

and

over-acute readers

or possibly

knowing and over-acute readers

(In that last one: Where “knowing and over-acute” may have to be taken together, , instead of just being two entirely separate groups of people that “good writers” don’t write for.)

For the record, I do know what a reader is.  I sometimes know what ‘knowing’ means, but not in this context.  And I have no idea what over-acute means in this context or most others.  Nor do I know what “knowing and over-acute” taken together would mean.

This is the sort of thing, by the way, that I was rarely able to ask about growing up, due to communication problems.  This would lead to me either putting my foot in my mouth.  Sometime literally, with the foot in mouth thing– I’m flexible and had a physical-pun sense of humor that could kick in even when I didn’t understand the pun**(1) **in question, or part of it.

Anyway, knowing what any of this means would be really nice.  I don’t even know if I agree or disagree (or both or neither) with it, because the second half of the sentence has me too confused.  But please don’t answer just to make yourself feel helpful – if you don’t know, you don’t know.  And I actually respect “I don’t know” (or silence) more than I respect “I don’t know, but I’m going to give you pages pos random ideas on the topic.

Thanks in advance to anyone who does have a clue what these things mean.  Thanks in advance also to people who don’t have a clue and know it, and don’t respond with random wild guesses.

Footnotes

(1) For instance punning about “avoiding the middle-man” for years during a card game where someone had to be in the middle of two other players.  To this day, I don’t know what “avoiding the middle-man” actually means.  Nor do I know what it means today.  

The difference being I now have far more tools at my disposal to recognize when I don’t understand something and everyone else does.  I also have more tools to then figure out – whether publicly or with tons and tons of terrified, embarrassment-induced(2) privacy – what the thing actually meant.

Which is why I’m asking, in this post, instead of pretending to understand, or at least pretending not to not understand, which are my usual go-to options from lifelong habit.

But growing up without a constantly reliable means of asking questions and getting them answered accurately in a way I could understand, has resulted in a lot of holes that have never been filled in  Huge holes.

(2) If I were a cat, this stuff would have me composure-grooming constantly.

An explanation of composure grooming from The Book of Night with Moon by Diane Duane (italics are already in the book, bold is mine for emphasis):

They made fairly good time, only once having to pause when an under-sidewalk freight elevator started clanging away while Saash was walking directly over its metal doors. She jumped nearly out of her skin at the sudden sound and the lurch of the opening doors, and skittered curbward—straight into a houff on the leash. 
There was no danger: the houff was one of those tiny ones, a bundle of silky golden fur and yap and not much else. Saash, however, still panicked by the dreadful clanging of the elevator alarm and the racket of the rising machinery, hauled off and smacked the houff hard in the face, as much from embarrassment as from fright at jostling into it, and galloped off down the street, bristling all over. The houff, having been hit claws-out and hard by something invisible, plunged off down the sidewalk in a panic, half-choking on its collar and shrieking about murder and ghosts, while its bewildered ehhif was towed along behind. 
Rhiow was half-choked herself, holding in her merriment. She went after Saash as fast as she could, and didn’t catch up with her until she ran out of steam just before the corner of Fifty-fourth. There Saash sat down close to the corner of the building and began furiously washing her fluffed-up back fur. Rhiow knew better than to say anything, for this was not Saash’s eternal itch: this was he’ihh, composure-grooming, and except under extraordinary circumstances, one didn’t comment on it. Rhiow sat down back to back, keeping watch in the other direction, and waited. 
To Saash’s credit, she cut the he’ihh short, then breathed out one annoyed breath and got up.

Suffice to say, if you’ve spent enough time around cats, you’ve seen composure-grooming.  Also, houff = dog, and ehhif = human, if you couldn’t get that from context.

Re. The "Knowing and over-acute" bit - I've never read that quote before, and I could be wrong here, but it kind of sounds like he is describing something like - how in his estimation, good writers don't deliberately write in ways that pander to the tastes of people who like feeling smart. And who like having the stuff they read reinforce that self-perceived smartness.

Eg, this is a large part of why I thought "Harry Potter and the Methods of Rationality" was actually very bad writing. If that makes any sense. That intellectual circle-jerky quality.

2016 is fired

Ok, having to hospitalize my cat for a partial urinary blockage is NOT a welcome distraction from politics and the state of the country. :(

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I haven’t done the work to be able to quantify this.  But it seems like most of The Discourse, currently, when we talk about the urban progressive/rural conservative divide in political choices, is assuming that urban progressives are far more affluent than rural conservatives, and I think we need to realize that is often profoundly not the case.

Like, most of the “working class?”  They make more than me.  Some of them make a lot more than me.

There’s also a huge difference between income and affluence. Two people could earn the exact same actual income, and the one who lives in the rural area with the lower cost of living will be, in real terms, richer. They’ll have a bigger house, and they’ll have more disposable income. The urban dweller is more likely to be living week to week and worrying about covering their rent, because their rent may be five times as much. And that’s no because they choose to live somewhere expensive. Remember, they’re far more likely to be living in tiny, overcrowded housing. It’s because they have to live where the jobs in their sector are, so does everyone else.

This is possibly one of the factors that really isn’t being considered in all those “income vs votes” graphs. It probably needs to be done in terms of county by county cost of living, and standard deviations above or below that. And of course, basically none of those graphs show anything like a significant difference between groups. It’s not even a 60/40% split for most groups. 

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This is super true.

But also, even in terms of pure numbers, the average, what we call a “working class” salary, is much more than many urban progressives make.  Even before you factor in things like higher housing cost and other unique issues of urban poverty.

What I was talking about when I said I hadn’t done the math, is actually tallying up “proportion of currently circulating think-piece articles about the urban/rural political divide that presume a priori that rural people voting for Trump are poorer and that that factor forms a large part of their motivation.”

I don’t have to run the numbers on working class income; other people have done that (though if this turns into a real blog post I’ll put in the citations, but here’s one:  https://hbr.org/2016/11/what-so-many-people-dont-get-about-the-u-s-working-class).  It is true that the average working class income is far more than what many urban progressive voters actually make.  It might not be more than the average urban progressive’s income (that I actually don’t know), but it is a lot more than some of our incomes.

Yeah - I mean there are sometimes things to consider like, say, what you can actually get for your salary in your location, and what kind of mobility is offered by your job, but still. I live in California and make significantly less than the state average. Heck, I make significantly less than the average Trump voter (which, I read, was around $72k). There may be economic/infrastructure factors playing into all this, but it is far from true that Trump was voted into office by poor people.

Also -

I'm scared for Trump's youngest son. He's like 10. Whatever happens, whatever crap his father is or will be responsible for is NOT his fault. He is a child and I really don't want him to end up torn to shreds by media or speculation or internet memes or whatnot.

Fellow old people of the internet...

Is it just me or does it feel kind of like the 80s right now? Like - I am not basing this on any conscious political analysis. Just kind of a vibe. But it's a very familiar one, one that is making me feel strangely as if my early childhood is connecting in an immediate and tangible way to my present adult life.