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Will

@fear-the-electric-pea

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Yeah you're right. It WOULD be pretty fucked up if you were a swan but you were raised by ducks and you grew up never seeing another swan or even knowing that such a thing as a swan even existed so you just thought you were a duck with something super wrong with it.

just an fyi for people who've let their social skills atrophy by spending too much time on tumblr:

this is generally not a good thing to say to a stranger on a nonsexual post

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Tags of people who hit the nail on the head better than I ever could

"The trannies should be able to piss in whatever toilet they want and change their bodies however they want. Why is it my business if some chick has a dick or a guy has a pie? I'm not a trannie or a fag so I don't care, just give 'em the medicine they need."

"This is an LGBT safe space. Of COURSE I fully support individuals who identify as transgender and their right to self-determination! I just think that transitioning is a very serious choice and should be heavily regulated. And there could be a lot of harm in exposing cis children to such topics, so we should be really careful about when it is appropriate to mention trans issues or have too much trans visibility."

One of the above statements is Problematic and the other is slightly annoying. If we disagree on which is which then working together for a better future is going to get really fucking difficult.

I think this is something young people in particular are confused about. My dad has always had a slightly off color sense of humor, he always feels the need to privately ask me “boy turned girl or girl turned boy?” if I mention a friend and stress said friend’s pronouns, and yet when we had repair work done in the house and the worker was listening to a podcast discussing the evils of transgender people and how to cleanse society, he went out of his way to contact the owner of the business to discuss his disappointment with that worker’s conduct and stress the negative effect that could have had if there had been trans kids in our home.

Our allies will never be perfect. They will never use the perfect language or have the perfect politics. But we have to appreciate those allies and meet them where they are, especially if they are willing to learn.

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one thing about orpheus and eurydice is you guys are all like “i’m different i wouldnt turn to look at her” because you are all familiar with the story of orpheus and eurydice. but orpheus wasnt familiar with the story because he was in it lol.

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“i wouldn’t look back bc logically if she’s not there it wouldnt help to look and if she is there looking back would cause me to lose her” cool so has love never made you stupid and insane

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another thing thats interesting is i think most people assume its a walk of reasonably short length that you have to resist looking back. but we dont know how long that walk was. its out of the underworld, time could work very differently. could be days. could be months. could you walk for months without looking back to see if your love is okay? i dont think you could

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exactly. like oh you’re not going to look back? have you never lost a love? there is so much looking back.

whenever I tell someone “I’m tired” and they say “go to sleep” and I say “I’m not that type of tired” and they say “there’s only one type of tired” I always feel amazed. Astounded. How do they not know the different versions of tired.

  1. Physical exhaustion from the chronic illness. Not drowsy, but needs to lay down. Maybe my Hashimoto’s or bad knees or plantar fasciitis is acting up, but either way, I need to relax with an ice pack and a tens unit.
  2. emotional exhaustion. The type of “tired” people mean when they say “I’m sick and tired of x.” I’m so numb and usually I’d be about one minor inconvenience away from snapping but the exhaustion of being alive has gotten so heavy that I don’t even notice inconveniences anymore.
  3. drowsiness. If I’m trying to tell someone I need to sleep, I’ll say “I’m sleepy” or “I want to go to bed.”
  4. unable to process what’s going on but the closest word I can use to describe how I’m feeling is “tired.”

5. The kind of tired that comes with severe brain fog. You don't mean to be struggling so much just to answer a simple question, but you are. And the effort makes it worse.

6. Sometimes, just my eyes are tired. I need to close them but my brain and my body are still able to go. Idk

Stop fighting the train! Embrace the train! The train is the ultimate evolution of transit efficiency! Be one with the train!

Only fools and cowards fight the train, it is the perfection in carnate, the perfect form of transit impossible to surpass

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You should be angry, you should demand change, you are completely correct to be angry about how you are denied access to a livable and cheaper life because your representatives, local government and Senators sold you out to the automobile lobby. We need to fight to change our cities for the better and you can't fight without any anger.

It’s because if we build trains like those commies in Europe (or invest in any public transportation infrastructure) it means The Poors might be able to get around easily and save money and shit commuting to their three jobs. Next thing you know, they’ll be invading your gated community and fucking up your golf course, and we can’t have that! 😱

I know where your coming from, but the US does have a rail network that connects one end to the other, you can get from LA to Boston, it as just not fast and requires transfers, just like a Lisbon to Moscow trip would. But yeah that's proof that the "America is too big for trains" argument is complete bullshit.also yeah building a rail network that is large and accessible would help the poorest members of society, so we should do it, now

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im super curious abt this so feel free to rb ! i wanted to also see if queerness/neurodivergence had any correlation but maybe in another poll

Controversial opinion. People are misguided to criticise Bethesda for shipping unfinished games. There is no world in which Skyrim could have been shipped in a completed state. The scope of the game and the limitations of the engine were too large for the era. No other game engine was suitable and creation engine would have taken 5 years to upgrade, and another 5 years to finish Skyrim to the extent that modders have today.

The reach of the game and the number of mechanics which interplay are so vast that given the resources of the era it wouldn’t have been feasible to ship a finished game.

We have far more modern games with highly detailed and complex world like RDR2, but these games are objectively easier to make. They lack the same same level of openness and details as a game like Skyrim. The game mechanics are fixed. The fine details of the world are mostly superficial and have no affect on gameplay or the things the player can do.

Other developers have had over a decade to make their own Skyrims. But nobody has. Nobody has even come close to attempting to replicate the scope of the game. That isn’t due to lack of demand or lack of resources - it’s because it’s too difficult. Other developers aren’t willing to ship unfinished games. To develop anything even close to Skyrim would take too long to be financially viable if you intended to release it in a finished state.

Starfield will be unfinished. This is taking Skyrim’s production problems to the extreme. Even with all the modern resources and money at their disposal the game won’t be finished. And that’s okay. It doesn’t have to be.