I reserve the right as a 4c textured natural to have my hair messy.
Straight haired white girls are allowed to have their messy buns and it’s laid back or it’s fashion. Wavy/curly haired naturals are allowed to have their crazy hair days and it’s cute and it’s appreciated but 4c girls, even when we have our perfect braid outs done we’re still considered nappy/unkempt let alone days where we literally just can’t. Our hair takes time, it’s harder to maintain than any other texture, never mind the backlash we get whether it’s done perfectly or not. So leave me to my naps, idgaf. It’s *my* damn hair.
