If you’re an adult, especially if you’re new to being an adult, you need to start being aware of how your interactions with minors will affect them. It doesn’t matter if you still feel like a teenager and it doesn’t matter if your underage friends are super duper mature in your conversations with them. As an adult, it is up to you to place boundaries and not cross them for the sake of keeping the minors in your life safe. It is up to you to know what is and isn’t appropriate to say and do to them. Please think critically about the way you interact with minors and don’t hassle them, pressure them, or make them feel unsafe for any reason under any circumstances. You’re the adult. You should know better.

This 🙌🏼🙌🏼

hey! bi people’s terms need more recognition!

  • doe: fem bi girl
  • stag: masc bi girl
  • tomcat: androgynous bi girl
  • mage: fem bi boy
  • knight: masc bi boy
  • druid: androgynous bi boy
  • dove: fem nonbinary bi
  • crow: masc nonbinary bi
  • pigeon: androgynous nonbinary bi

I feel like I’ve made this very clear on my blog but fuck the police. Fuck your cop daddy, fuck your cop uncle, fuck your cop sister, and fuck your cop characters. All cops are evil and participate in a system of violence and murder to protect white supremacy and wealth. There are no good cops. 

Ha ha seriously tho.

I needed to hear this right now. <3

My new favorite post.

As someone who finished her undergrad at 40, I feel this later update. Take your time. Progress made at any speed is progress.

Progress at any speed is still progress. Everybody goes through the ringer and everybody deals with it differently. Doesn’t mean you can’t achieve your goals. Much like the hare and the tortoise, slow and steady wins the race. Taking care of your mental health is important no matter what anyone says.

I’m just a miserable fuck, who thinks

Life is just luck & emotion.

And it’s so plain to see 

that you’re so good to me,

your devotion.

So what can I say

to make it different today?

When I still have no sympathy

for whatever it is that you see in me.

Yes I still have no sympathy

for whatever it is you love in me.

but we’re making our dreams come true,

and dreaming is better with you…

Not some miserable fuck, who thinks 

Love is just luck & emotion

So ill stand up today, be brave 

and go face, my commotion.

But  that’s all I can give

is this promise to live.

Cuz I still have no sympathy

for whatever it is you see in me.

Yes i still have no sympathy

for whatever it is you love in me.

And I’m dying to find my sympathy

Cuz whatever this is has been killing me.

And I’m trying to find my sympathy, not just 

waste the belief that you’ve given me.

And I know it’s not fair to you,

But trying is all I can do.

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aromantic bisexuals are perfect

aromanic pansexuals are ethereal

aromantic polysexuals are amazing

aromantic omnisexuals are wonderful

all aromantic mspecs are effervescent

you are not dirty, gross, or perpetuating stereotypes by being mspec and aromantic

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bi women dating a man after dating a woman are not “just straight” or “traitors”

bi women dating a woman after dating a man are not “doing it for the attention” or “lesbians all along” or “less wlw”

bi women who have only dated people of one gender are still bisexual, too, as are bi people who have never dated

someone’s dating history does not define their orientation. stop judging bi women for every decision they make, stop expecting them to not be themselves and instead be more like however you want them to be. start respecting them and their autonomy, start cherishing and supporting them as members of the community.