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@fairy-court

DID system just trying to vibe and heal or smth. 23 yrs old, mixed irish/mexican/navajo, queer af. endos dni thank u.

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Hey, we are a DID system of 30ish members. 23 years old, mixed, chronically ill and disabled, genderqueer butch lesbian, collectively they/them pronouns are fine.

Our blogs run on a queue. We are anti-endo and do not engage in any syscourse, just DNI if you heavily disagree with that.

I had a list of alters' sideblogs here but i'm temporarily removing them to see if it helps stop all the bot-follows on the sideblogs even a tiny bit.

I've seen this before, but it's been years and it just came across my Twitter in its dying days. The words are from a favorite author of mine, Maggie Stiefvater, and they are the words I most need to hear when it comes to dealing with chronic pain and illness. I didn't need this the first time I saw it, six years ago. I need it now. Maybe you do, too.

the whole squad

Thanks I hate it: sarcastic disdain, you don't enjoy this at all that's insufferable, I love it: prankster solidarity. A compliment for mischief. You gotta try this dude, it sucks: solidarity through communal self-flagellation It's terrible, watch it immediately: Your classic so-bad-it's-good media

Can’t forget, ‘gross, I love it’

Not to forget the iconic

How could people forget Data?

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UNINTELLIGIBLE, that I'm telling you.

It's not easy birthing a child... It's not easy.

What are you going to do with your children? What will you give them?

Where is your husband?

these hyperspecific polls are so funny cause some are like ‘Ive been to europe’ and some are like ‘in may of 2007 I ate ramen in the chernobyl exclusion zone’

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bf admitted he likes being bossed around which is insanely funny considering 1) my mom always told me id never find a partner bc i can be bossy (just comes built in being the oldest sibling also Literally got it from her. also im a virgo not my fault) 2) i was asking him because i was worried i was doing it unconsciously (i try my best not to be) but then he was like no keep doing it i like it

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to be fair he has had the same concerns about him being blunt or getting moody/grumpy over little things (which i just find cute honestly and i like having problems to solve anyway) so i gues sits like. normal. when you love someone to worry that theyll see all your “ugly” traits up close and personal but the thing is love makes those things well. beloved. at the very least theyre endearing and funny.

talkingaboutthingsilove

Tell me you're a brunette and he's ginger and you're literally Hermione Granger and Ron Weasley 😆

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People need to do some goddamn research on how sexual assault accusations are leveraged against marginalized communities, particularly black men and queer people, and how often people are sentenced to detah over crimes they didn't commit.

Grown adults CANNOT be sitting here talking about how a new death penalty policy is good because it's only against people who rape children and those people deserve to die. Like are you hearing yourselves right now? Are you fucking serious? Are you so blinded by your emotional responses and revenge fantasies that you can't comprehend how horrific these sorts of policies really are and how they're used as weapons to kill the people the state doesn't want to exist?

I'm legit seeing people saying that there's no way those sorts of laws would be used against trans people and I just. You cannot be this naive. You CAN'T. You cannot seriously be so ignorant of the realities of the death penalty to serously sit here and defend it while still calling yourself a leftist. I am going to claw my own skin off.

I genuinely feel like I'm pacing in a cage right now, this whole situation has been so absolutely surreal. I am watching self-proclaimed queer radical leftists talk about how any claims of this being leveraged against trans people is fear mongering and I'm just wondering how the fuck we reached this point.

They've all been white btw. Every single one of them. There's a reason for that.

And maybe this post is mean or harsh what the fuck ever but this is the DEATH PENALTY. This is about people's LIVES. So yeah, I'm gonna be fucking mean about it because if we forget to treat this is as something beyond horrific, people will die.

"Oh but it's just about rape, not anything else!" You know that they don't need proof, right? You know that, right? You know that plenty of people have been convicted of rape and sexual assault, particularly against children and white women, with absolutely no proof because of bigoted judges and juries, right? You know that even if someone can't be convicted in court, these trials are often used as a way to form public opinion and create narratives that frame the defendant and people like then as disgusting and evil monsters who are able to escape the law and therefore communities need to take the law into their own hands to protect children, right?

Just because the law doesn't outright say "The real reason we're passing this is so we can lynch us some queer f----t, t----y n-----s and k---s, while making it harder for our own victims and our supporters' victims to come forward and get help," doesn't mean that isn't the exact point of the law. Hello, people, this is Florida we're talking about; Ron DeSantis' stomping grounds. Fascists are all about painting their enemies - marginalized people - as inherent predators that society needs to get rid of by empowering (white) nationalist vigilantism and the (white) nationalist state, and using people's vitriolic emotional reactions against genuine injustices to goad and trick them into being willing dupes for their cause.

Fascists get you thinking people can't be rehabilitated from these kinds of crimes, so they need to be locked up. Locking people up doesn't solve the problem, so they prescribe the death penalty. That won't work, and amid all the fear and death, as well as the persistence of the problem, they'll get people believing this is a problem inherent in certain unchanging people, people who exist only to harm and be burdens to Our Great Society, and so it isn't enough, they say, to kill the rapists - you have to name them. You have to find them. You need to break into their houses in the night, drag them out screaming, and shoot them in the streets, until it is Done, until the Final Solution is achieved - a bloody, illusory lie, that will never come, just gnaw tens, hundreds, thousands, even millions of people to death.

Rein in your intense emotional reactions, and, in spite of that, hold mercy in your hearts. Resist the eternally-punitive nature of the fascists. Down that path lies only destruction, not liberation. By all means, be furious, fight injustice, and reject pacifism. I'm not saying to be pacifist. I'm just echoing OP: mob violence is not the answer.

some of you need to understand that some mentally ill people will be mean or violent or abusive or act irrationally or out of the ordinary. It’s not ableist or anti recovery to acknowledge that some people are like that. If anything, it’s ableist to not acknowledge it considering a large amount of mentally ill people are not the people pleasing, sad and small infantilising idea you have of us. Anxiety and depression is not the default mental illness. It’s not *the* mental illness. Funny posts, memes, jokes and so on about mental illness is *not* mental illness. Mental illness is scary and mean and harsh and competitive and it *can* make you a bad person sometimes. That’s just the horrible, awful reality of it. No amount of funny posts or infographics can change that. There’s still hope for the angry, violent, mean and maybe even abusive people. There’s always hope. But hope begins with acknowledgment

Being Asian on the internet is hard bc someone w a name like...IDK Akihiko or Jungkook interacts w my post and I gotta squint like...are you ACTUALLY Asian or are u white and racist and just totally unaware of the meaning and very specific racism Asian ppl receive abt our names.

9/10 times it's the latter or like a kin thing or smth and it's like...please I am begging u my Asian soul gets a bit shaved off every time I see a selfie of some "Ju-won" and they're snow white.

BTW white ppl can and are encouraged to reblog this!

fucking annoys me when people ask victims why they didnt go to the cops abt their abuse/rape/etc like....how many of us have told the cops and are told it wasn't enough? its so traumatizing telling a stranger your trauma in great detail and then being told it wasn't enough proof or that there isnt any proof, AND even if they do believe you, and the abuser/rapist/etc gets put in jail, you could lose an entire support system, and people/strangers know your story and it’s super invasive. and even if they’re in jail, the real prison is that you have to deal with it forever