May our parents not be absent when we start to win in life amen.
اللهم، ألهمني بتوجيهي، واحميني من شر روحي
O Allah, inspire me with my guidance, and protect me from the evil of my soul
The way you describe your world becomes your experience of it. if you describe your world with hostile (aggressive) language that’s what you’ll experience. Life becomes a nightmare if that’s how you dream it.
Everything you do one day comes back to you. Choose to do good, plant good deeds, cultivate and awaken in others good feelings, and reap wonderful fruits in your life.
Healing doesn't mean the damage never existed. it means the damage no longer controls your life
That if your Death is written in the depth of the ocean, you'll Rent even a submarine to reach there on time.
شفاء
Why is the Qur'ān called شفاء and not دواء?
Becausethe word دواء means a cure for the body, while شفاء means cure for the body and heart
How can we take advantage of these blessed days of Dhul-Hijjah?
1. Fasting on the ninth day of Dhul-Hijjah (day of Arafah).
2. Recite the Takbir ("Allahu akbar"), Tahmid ("Al-hamdu Lillah"), Tahlil ('La ilaha ill-Allah") and Tasbih ("Subhan Allah").
3. Doing more acts of worship, reciting the Qur’ān, remembering Allāh swt, honoring our parents and so forth.
4. Sincere repentance.
5. Performing Hajj and 'Umrah. One of the best deeds that one can do during these ten days is to perform Hajj.
6. Sacrifice. One of the good deeds that will bring a person closer to Allāh swt during these ten days is offering a sacrifice. Also known as Udhiyya or Qurbani.
May Allāh swt accept it from us all, ameen.
Nobody can marry the wrong person, it’s decree of Allāh
Either the spouse the trial or punishment if one considers “wrong person”
Regarding your post
بارك الله فيك
You cant just go on the top of the roof and jump from there and say it was allah's qadr thats in your hands. I cannot sit there and ignore every proposal out there which allah has sent for me and not get married for the rest of my life and say it was allah's qadr. Allah says in the quran dont let your own hands be the destruction of your life likewise allah gave us humans choices whether to choose good or evil. The goodness is "you getting married before your 20's" thats the message nobodys denying allah's qadr
sometimes i sit at the end of my prayer mat and i ask Allah how you are, but i know that i will never know so i leave asking Him to protect you, i don't know what else to say except that He looks after you while i am unable to
My parents told me "the problem with putting others first is you've taught them you come last."
one day you just realize that you're no longer upset. You're no longer mad, hurt, or bothered by the things that took so much of your energy and thoughts. You will find yourself in a peaceful place and enjoy that feeling.
Don't ever save anything for a special occasion. Being alive is the special occasion