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ruthless feminine rules:

1. you must be willing to walk away at all times. doesn’t matter what you feel, how well they meant, how good they are, as soon as you feel icky, you take yourself and leave.

2. you must be disciplined enough yourself to discipline men. that means: no yelling, no paragraphs, no over explaining. actions.

3. stay far away from people who try to humble you (especially men).

4. you must reward inconsistency with unavailability.

5. a man is worth nothing unless and until he has provided you enough financial resources and consistent respectful communication.

6. you must dress well, eat well, take care of your health,looks, finances regardless of how you feel.

7. same rules for everybody in this world. your sense of self does not give people discounts.

Be selfish sometimes, you deserve to put yourself first.

Yo quería que fueras tú,

tú no querías que fuera yo.

Healing.

Growing.

Accepting.

Learning.

Evolving.

I’m still learning day by day how to become a better me

i’m trying to heal without disturbing anyone.

that situation took enough away from you. let it go.

let people miss out on you

Please do not allow anyone to weaponize your softness against you.

keeping a lot to yourself can be so overwhelming…

that was my part of the deal, honest

I won’t accept anyone who makes me feel bad in my life anymore.