Polyamorous nonbinary people are absolutely brilliant! No doubt about it. You are so good. Keep loving as you do.
Bigender + Ouran High School Host Club for @obsessedwithbaconandcats -Mod Hooper
Fact #592: Non-dysphoric trans people who want to medically transition should 100% be allowed to do so. They should be allowed to do whatever they please with their own bodies.
Nonbinaries who happen to be amab and identify as demiboys are handsome and great and so, so valid. All demigenders are amazing, all demiboys are great, all amab nbs are brilliant.
Nonbinary ren mb for anon~
Just a few of the limitless pronoun options out there :) (my photography and editing. no reposts or removing caption)
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Hello! I have a (more than likely) 2 part question, is it alright if i put [1/2] and [2/2] at the ends of them?
Yes of course!
my brother doesn't believe nonbinary genders exist and the thing about terfs not believing trans people exist in general both combined makes me really anxious about my presence and it's just already so frustrating how hard we have to advocate for ourselves to have a right to live not to mention people are terrifying and I just want everyone to live as they are??? why can't people accept us
I’m really sorry your brother is such a jerk. People reject what they don’t understand, and in a world so cissexist and binary, trans people and enbies are pretty hard to understand for people who don’t experience the same thing as us. It sucks and it’s pretty lonely sometimes.
Not everyone is like that, though. Surround yourself with trans people and/or enbies and/or people who understand you and respect you. You are valid, your gender identity is valid, and you’ll find cool people who will love you for all of who you are. Don’t lose hope
if i'm nb and i like boys and nb people could i be both diamoric and gay? like a mix of both?
Yes, you can be absolutely be both! : )
Hi! So recently I've been feeling like I might be a demiboy or genderflux but I'm really nervous to add another label to myself. Right now I ID as agender but I feel like people don't take my gender seriously because I use lots of other words to describe my gender because it's hard to pin down. So I feel like if I add another descriptor to myself people will take it even less seriously. So could I maybe have some advice?
As a nonbinary genderqueer bigenderflux maverique juxera person, I understand how the amount of terms used to describe your gender can make you feel self-conscious. Yeah, some people might have trouble understanding your gender and be confused, but remember that labels are first and foremost for yourself, for you to know yourself better. You don’t have to share them with everyone all the time - unless you want to. And if you want to, it means that you want to share with them something very personal and if they don’t take you seriously just because of that, then they didn’t deserve it in the first place. I don’t know if this helps you much, but the number of words in your gender label doesn’t make you a joke or anything. Your gender is awesome and so are you
Hi! Do you know what gender I could possibly be if sometimes I feel mostly masculine but other times I don't really feel a connection to any gender? Thank you!
You might be mascflux? Sometimes agender, sometimes more masculine?
hey! I was wondering what the words lunarian and solarian mean? they're pretty words and I tried googling but I have a feeling it doesn't mean trans people who live on the moon
Haha nope I haven’t heard of any lunarians on the moon yet!
Lunarians are enbies whose gender aligns with womanhood/girlhood (like demigirls, juxeras...), solarian are enbies whose gender aligns with boyhood/manhood (demiboys, proxvirs...) and there’s also stellarian, who are enbies whose gender is non-aligned with the binary (maveriques, agender people,...).
It’s possible to be two (agender girls can ID as both lunarian and stellarian, bigender people who are both a man and a woman can be both lunarian and solarian...) or even all three (some trigender or genderfluid people for instance) at once.
I hope that helped!
Hi ~ do you do name/pronoun validations ??
I can try, but I’m not used to it!
Hello I hope you don't mind me coming to you for this. A blog I love recently defended another blog for not supporting non binary people because it's that person's opinion. The person is obviously not educated on trans and non binary matters but is gay and I know that if I defended homophobes for not supporting gay people "because it's there opinion" she would flip. Is my feeling of betrayal justified? What are your opinions? Thank you so much.
Your feeling of betrayal is absolutely justified. Not supporting NB people because of “opinions” is downright enbyphobia and transphobia. Being gay doesn’t make you unable to be transphobic, unfortunately (just like being NB doesn’t mean you can’t be homophobic). You can try explaining them (calmly, it usually works better) that enbyphobia isn’t an opinion, just like homophobia, maybe they would reconsider their opinion, but the best thing is probably just to unfollow and find other blogs that actually are accepting - and there are a bunch out there I’m sure. Anyway be sure that your feelings are valid and that you definitely don’t have to put up with that.
I wish you the best friend
i've tried casually mentioning to my mom that I would prefer they/them pronouns and being referred to in a more masculine/gender neutral name, but she's always dead set against it. how do I try to persuade her it's for the best, or at least feel better about it?
Have you tried telling her that it’s very important to you and would make you feel much better about yourself? Maybe she doesn’t take it seriously if you’ve just said it in passing (which sucks, I know, but sometimes cis people are oblivious about such things). If she still doesn’t accept it, or if you’re too stressed out to push the subject, try asking friends or siblings to use your pronouns, at least you’ll feel more at ease when you’re with them, even if it’s not there yet with your mom. I hope everyting goes well for you
Hey I was wondering if you could help me find a good nb name? I cant find one that fits so maybe you have some suggestions?
Hi! Well fist of all NB people have all kinds of names, so I can’t really give you suggestions just based on that! If what you’re looking for is gender-neutral names, I suggest you try baby name websites, you might find stuff there. Don’t hesitate to try stuff out, like in the pronoun dressing room, or just asking friends to use such or such name for you, first as a nickname for instance.
Best of luck to you finding the one that fits!
Nonbinary moodboard for anon
Nonbinary people who present in a traditionally “masculine” or “feminine” way are super cool! I bet all of you look amazing in whatever you choose to wear! Presentation =/= gender identity, but you can present in any way you choose, including in ways that represent your gender.
If you are in the process of questioning you finally realized that you are not cis, but unsure of what gender you could be, take your time. I cannot stress this enough; there is no rush. You can be maverique, nonbinary, agender, bigender, and etc. You are free to pick the label that fits you the best!
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