Abandoned castle in France.
Dolly Parton and Fran Lebovitz
Something that I first applied to working with children, and have applied in a limited form to working with adults: you don't need to tell someone when they read your instructions wrong. Sometimes it's enough to point out what they did right and then whatever they didn't do? You ask them to do it in more precise words, and you make it sound like it's a new request. Remarkable how fast things get done this way.
This is also a habit I built up from emergency response training. If I say "I need you to bring me a first aid kit and an accident report" and you bring me just a first aid kit, it's so much more efficient to say "thanks now can you bring me an accident report" than "I asked you to bring an accident report why didn't you bring me one".
Once you've internalized "a person bleeding out is one of the worst times to start an argument" you start to wonder what other tasks could get accomplished without arguing
feather wings shawl commission! 🪶 🪶 🪶
i have been working on this project on-and-off since May. finally finished, and i’m so proud of how it turned out!
another beautiful pattern by Crafty Intentions!
I don’t trust anyone who is against the existence of female-only spaces.
goodnight strange homosexuals in my device i will see you all tomorrow if the fog doesn’t get me
“Kissing Doesn’t Kill“ (Black and white postcard) from 1980’s ACT UP campaign for HIV/AIDS awareness.
This is the banner that was put up on buses to create awareness! a lot of companies cropped out the bottom so I thought it would be cool to share the full version
there is no unlived life or alternative reality where everything went right…. there is only here and now what are you going to do with it





