You know what’s beautiful? Reaching that stage where you no longer feel the constant urge to post selfies, where you cherish your privacy, become more engaged in your own journey, and discover genuine peace in it.
a soft life led by God.
obsessed with the fact that my ability to grow is infinite and my true potential is limitless.
low self esteem can set your entire life back. it’ll cause you to miss opportunities. avoid taking risks. stay in situations longer than you should. seek validation instead of trusting your instincts. etc. you shouldn’t underestimate the power of having confidence or high self esteem with one’s self.
The people who have accomplished the things you want are not better than you. They are not more skilled than you are. Their mindset is simply different. Their mindset inspires new habits and attributes that contribute to a strong sense of self-belief and enables them to overcome obstacles, achieve their goals, and lead fulfilling lives.
Fortunately, this is something you can work on and have complete control over.
If you want to change your life, these are some of the things you should be working on within yourself.
- Self-awareness: Successful people have a clear understanding of their strengths, weaknesses, values, and goals. They are aware of who they are and what they want to achieve.
- Positive mindset: They maintain a positive outlook on life and view challenges as opportunities for growth. They focus on solutions rather than dwelling on problems.
- Resilience: Bouncing back from failures and setbacks quickly. They see failures as temporary and use them as learning experiences to improve and grow.
- Self-motivation: You need to be internally driven and have a strong sense of purpose. Successful people set goals for themselves and work persistently towards achieving them.
- Confidence: They have confidence in their abilities and believe in their potential for success. They trust their judgment and are not easily swayed by others' opinions.
- Adaptability: They are open to change and embrace new experiences. They are willing to step out of their comfort zone and take risks to pursue their goals.
- Discipline and consistency: They practice self-discipline and maintain consistency in their actions. They set routines, establish habits, and follow through on their commitments.
- Emotional intelligence: They possess a high degree of emotional intelligence, understanding their own emotions and the emotions of others. They can manage their emotions effectively and maintain positive relationships.
- Growth mindset: They believe in their ability to learn and develop new skills. They see setbacks as opportunities for improvement and are open to acquiring new knowledge and experiences.
- Self-care: They prioritize self-care and well-being. They recognize the importance of taking care of their physical, mental, and emotional health, which helps them maintain a positive mindset and stay motivated.
May I ask what books are on your booklist currently? Have a blessed day beloved 💞
A Baddie’s Book List
Thank you so much! I hope your day was blessed as well, and cheers to many more (I’m sipping on Stella Rosa)
I can’t read one book at a time, so I’m currently bouncing between a few of these, along with some being on standby.
They’re all available on Z-Library except #1 (google it and it’ll pop up)
- Own your Glow
- I Am That Girl
- Yang Sheng- The Art of Chinese Healing
- $100M Offers
- The Art of Social Climbing
- The Book of Moods
- 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think
- Change- How To Make Big Things Happen
- Year of the Yes
- Men Don’t Love Women Like You
- How To Be A Gentleman
- The Chemistry of Calm
- The Highly Sensitive Person’s Guide to Dealing with Toxic People
- How To Win Friends & Influence People
- Neurowisdom
- Ikigai
- Healing Love Through Tao
- The 5AM Club
- How To Analyze People
- The Wisdom of Psychopaths
what blogs inspire you? If you have any?
@mlnbrlle @expensiveity @nsodguy @cee0z @33sofher @heiressinthecity @diorboii @museofaesthetics @p-nkgod @fortheloveoftee @somorgs @thekaylarenee @yyelena @safeeyiah @bloggin-by-zia @babyphat05 @fyi-iyanni @laurrynnohilll @9710144 @geministing @kanariii @theminimalisto @theambitiouswoman @free-my-mindd @baezillla @haverst @theereina @redrola @zyaatulip @ys19 — these are the blogs off top of my head. Very inspirational. Worth the follow ❣️
if you are seeing this, you are going to prosper. you are experiencing a new part of your life where you will bloom into a better version of yourself and flourish. abundance is coming your way; love is coming your way; peace and clarity are coming your way. you have nothing to fear and even less to worry about. the darkness around you has been the soil and you are now getting ready to sprout. you are going to prosper
siir-poesia
you will always attract people who are a reflection of you. To attract the best, healthiest people for you, focusing on being the best version of yourself.
