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meg/mochi

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miguelo-hara

hello this is my favorite video ever please please

el muchacho monday

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extreme-faggotry
What can you do as someone without DID/OSDD when a switch occurs:

Tip: If a system memeber doesn't talk to you/is masking around you, they're just uncomfortable or don't want to talk at the moment. It doesn’t necessarily mean they have anything against you.

Remember to respect any boundaries they place.

  • Be patient with them. Switches can be disorienting for anyone involved. It doesn't matter the role within the system or who it is. If they need a moment, give them a moment.
  • Help them acclimate to their surroundings, if you can. If they need any reminders on where they are, or basic information such as when the last time they drank, eaten, or slept. Do your best to help them figure it out. If someone just pops up, they might not be able to piece information right away. If you can help, do so, but be sure to ask if they’d like the help in the first place.
  • Make them feel welcomed. Be sure to ask/use the correct pronouns and names once you find out who is fronted. Having them feel welcomed into the conversation could be a nice way to help any alters who fronted unexpectedly.
  • Set up boundaries of your own. If the system members have placed boundaries with you, then it would be a wise decision to place boundaries if you have any. This avoids conflict in the future, if you just out right communicate it to them when you meet. Communication is key.
  • Ask them what they are comfortable talking about. If you are to ask them questions about why they're fronted, or anything relating to their disorder, make sure you have their permission to talk about it first. Don't pry too much unless they're fine with it. Even then, don't be disrespectful in the process.
  • Keep in mind. System members are individuals with thoughts, emotions, and have every right to deny a conversation with you. They are in obligation to help the host with their endeavors, because they are a system together. However, they are not obligated to do anything for you. Just because you are friends with one system member does not mean you are friends with all of them.
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intersexfairy

i wish people were kinder to people who speak slowly or stutter. and to people who need time to process what others are saying, or to translate their thoughts and feelings to words. i function at a slower pace than some people have the patience for and im not doing anything wrong. they are by being rude.

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thefabelmans2022

genuinely from the bottom of my heart i wish every single one of you peace love joy and happiness for not only 2022 but for the rest of your lives.

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iridessence

Hello, world! I’m fat. I look good. That’s all, thank you.

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iridessence

Greetings, friends. If you are fat, you also look good. Okay, good bye.

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iridessence

Thin people, you are welcome to reblog this to let your fat friends know they are phenomenal

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yardsards

and this includes yall that don’t have big boobs/butts/hips! absolutely lovely, the whole lot of ya!

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and-down-we-go

My Mom just accidentally prematurely sent an email to an accounting firm… It was supposed to say ‘I am afraid that we will have to postpone our meeting”

but she hit send when all it said was

Hi Jeffrey,       I am afraid

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These are fucking amazing

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mizjesbelle

The figure swinging the earth –  The Force Of Nature by Lorenzo Quinn

The guy being dragged by a bird – part of an installation titled Hacienda Paradise – Utopia Experiment by Fredrik Raddum.

The balancing elephant – Balancing Elephant by Daniel Firman.

The tea splashes kissing – Kiss of Eternity by Johnson Tsang.

The figure emerging from the wall – Break Through From Your Mold by Zenos Frudakis

The meditating figure splitting apart – Expansion by Paige Bradley.

The horses running through water – Mustangs at Las Colinas by Robert Glen.

The giant peeking from under the lawn – Popped Up by Ervin Loránth Hervé

The man under the raining umbrella –  L’uomo della Pioggia (The Rain Man) by Jean-Michel Folon.

The huge bearded guy – The Appennnine Colossus by Giambologna.

The impossibly balanced stones on a beach – Untitled by Adrian Gray

The dragons with an egg – The Dragons in Love or The Varna Dragons by  Darin Lazarov.

The stairway to nowhere –  Diminish And Ascend by David McCracken

The underwater circle – Vicissitudes by Jason deCaires Taylor.

The epic warrior guy – General Guan Yu by Han Meilin

The sinking library –  Sinking Building Outside State Library, Melbourne, Australia.  I couldn’t find an artist’s name.

The giant hand holding a tree – The Caring Hand by Eva Oertli and Beat Huber

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