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“Truth is, you can’t change someone who doesn’t see an issue with their actions.”

— Unknown

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thoughtsandsmiles

1. Leave when he apologizes more and says less of ‘I love you’.

2. Leave when his anger leaves deeper marks on your skin than his kisses.

3. Leave when he makes talking to you or listening about your day feel like a chore.

4. Leave when he bitches about your friends.

5. Leave if your friends are still wary about his behavior.

6. Leave if he aggressively competes with you or tries to discredit your achievements.

7. Leave if he refuses to tell his friends about you.

8. Leave if he isn’t a feminist.

9. Leave if he can’t reveal his conversations with his female friends.

10. Please leave if you are not happy with him.

— Signs you should leave him.

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reinacm

“sometimes you treat me like shit, and i just go with it; but that’s not what love is.”

— love me! || 11.11.17

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wishing-for-deathx

“I am tired of being told I am loved and cared about but never made to feel that way.”

— your actions and words never match

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mywayofhealing

“I no longer have the energy for meaningless relationships. Not everyone is meant to stay.”

— limit [seran.b]

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spilled-thouqhts

I saw your dark side but I still made excuses for you. You saw my vulnerable side and judged me. I see the truth now and now I must let you go.

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ilovetoodeeply

i distracted myself and thought i was healing

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furiousgoldfish

your abuser could have gone thru life without abusing you. this was an option all along. they didn’t have to hurt you, they didn’t have to be cruel, they didn’t have to declare themselves an authority for what is and isn’t good for you and decide that abuse is what you deserve, they didn’t have to manipulate you, they didn’t have to lie to you, they didn’t have to insult, criticize or humiliate you, they didn’t have to control you, they didn’t have to crush your self confidence, they didn’t have to scare or hit or push or torture or gaslight you, they didn’t have to do any of it. they could have gone thru their life without doing it. nobody forced them to do it. it was their own decision to do those things. they are the sole person responsible for doing all of it. they would have lost nothing if they didn’t do those things. it wouldn’t take anything away from their life not to destroy yours. hold. them. responsible.