B-b-b-Bennie in the bath @puffinandbennie (at Indian Lake)

“How to relax.”

Hey

You deserve friends who care about you.

You deserve friends who make you feel good about yourself.

You deserve friends who will listen to you whenever you need them.

You may have people in your life right now who treat you poorly, even if it is unintentional. This is not your fault. You do not deserve their poor treatment. You do not deserve your circumstances. You are allowed to seek other friends who will treat you better, and you are allowed to demand that your current friends treat you better too.

You deserve to be treated well.

Promise yourself that you will not become someone who ends up with a life that doesn’t match all they know it could be, that doesn’t match who they themselves are. Please, do not wait for a better mood or a better day to change your life, to start living it the way you always intended to, to start fighting for the person you have always wanted to be. There is no better day. There is no greater time than now to start acting on your own behalf, to start living like you’re interested in others and invested in falling in love with yourself. Enjoy this process. It’s an dynamic and daring adventure. Be sure you treasure your smallest of wins and make sure to celebrate yourself. Make sure to create a life you are proud of, a life you want to wake up to every single morning.

(Source: thoughtcatalog.com)

You need to live for yourself not for other people. Life is too short to please others. You need to live without thinking if people will like or hate what you do. You need to make decisions because it makes you happy not because it makes ‘em happy.

Instead of looking at amazing photos of people doing surreal things, I’m going to go out and do those things myself. 

Are you alive? Or do you just exist?

Vintage seduction. Once you come here, you never turn back

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