the thing that gets me about about barbie is that barbie land wasn’t even purposefully a matriarchy, barbie land came about because of the way little girls were playing with their barbies, it wasn’t created by mattel it was created by the people using the toys, so the fact that the barbies ignored the ken’s and had girls night every night wasn’t because they had some bias against him, it was just an accurate depiction of how kids play with barbies. I had some ken dolls as a child and they were essential to the plot in the sense that of course my barbie has a boyfriend because that represented the world i saw around me, but also he didn’t have any purpose in my dream world because i was only interested in what the girls were doing because they represented me and how i wanted to be, I wanted girls night every night I wanted the girls to be president and austronauts and not because of some inherent feminist idea but because I was a girl and I wasn’t thinking about boys, ken was an accessory. this movie wasn’t made to change the world but it showed a different perspective than what we usually see which I thought was fun. Men don’t have to be the centre of all our stories and its not even because we hate them, sometimes we’re just not thinking about them
Love is not romance. It can be, if you want it to. But oh boy it does not end there. It is limitless. You can love anything and everything.
God grant me the serenity to answer my emails, the courage to answer my emails, and the wisdom to answer my emails.
“how could you have forgotten that” i forget Everything. unless i remember
"how can you remember that" I remember Everything. unless I forget
"this website is free" no it isn't, it comes at the cost of immeasurable amounts of trauma
Big wheel keep on turnin’ Proud Mary keep on burnin’
TINA TURNER (1939-2023)
i am holding my loneliness and she is a teenage girl with puffy eyes, and i love her more than i have ever loved anyone
“This is the year you begin. Slip into the sweet mud. Get dirty. Stay dirty. There is nothing to forgive”
— Jeremy Radin, ‘Pipe Organ Owl Mansion’ (via antigonick)
a movie buff is when you watch a good movie and feel stronger
"why were you so nice to that person who was rude to you" i'm soooooo scared. all the time‼️‼️





