schools have stairs so you can throw yourselves down them

things I’ve learned to say to boys: -you’re not funny -don’t talk to me like I’m dumb -I probably know more about this than you do -don’t fucking talk about her like that -I’m not comfortable with this -I don’t owe you anything -you just repeated exactly what I said -no

Still learning but getting there

Tess Holliday and Penningtons are reminding the world that plus-size women #WontCompromise

Canadian-based retailer Penningtons collaborated with model Tess Holliday for a new plus-size line, mblm by Tess Holliday, released on Sunday. Holliday’s new collaboration is just one piece of Penningtons #IWontCompromise campaign, launched in December 2015 with a series of YouTube videos.

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 Bob Dylan, “Shelter From the Storm” (via feellng)

If you suffer from depression …

1. Instead of attacking yourself for how you feel, and demanding that you change, and “improve” who you are, be compassionate and caring and kind towards yourself. 2. Remind yourself this struggle is NOT something you chose. It’s something that’s unwanted, and is hard to fight against. 3. Don’t look to other people to help, and bolster, you. They also have their struggles, so their help is limited. 4. Our feelings are affected by a lot of different things – and that affects our thinking – so our thinking’s often wrong! 5. Feelings often hit us for no apparent reason – so if we’ll just be patient, we may find they’ll change again. 6. Remember you are loveable and truly valuable. Don’t listen to your feelings, and the lies you hear them speak. 7. Do something that distracts you – like some work or exercise – but don’t add too much pressure while you’re feeling low and weak.

I want to meet someone who makes me feel the way music does

Jac Vanek (via thegoodvybe)