[Image ID: A series of tags stating #i will NEVER forget the one time i got a reddit account and went on r/traaaa #and immediately saw a post that was like #'i dont understand why people would want to be trans men. because women are pretty and clean and graceful and men are stereotypically not?' #like this isnt an exact quote but they put it JUST as on the nose as this - this isnt an exaggeration of how they worded it #they were being grilled in the comments but like. the fact i have to see this shit all the time is annoying /End ID]
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Don't even get me started on trans subreddits oh my lord. I was already put off a little bit when I first went on there because there was such an imbalance in how many trans women there were compared to trans men. Which isn't necessarily bad, but I'm not part of that demographic. But the fact they REGULARLY contained posts that either put down, dismissed, or were generally weird towards trans men and mascs was really frustrating to me. I left there a long time ago for that exact reason, so I can't remember a lot of exact stuff (I remember a lot of people being weird as hell in the comments when a trans man DID actually post. Genital swapping, putting down their experience, etc) but I'm sure people who regularly skimmed there when it was still going know what I mean. Unless it changed to be better after I left then maybe you don't.
Tiktok can be pretty bad about it too, but I don't see as much of it on there. Just erasure of transman and masc experiences in favor of transfem. Though I do see a lot more transmen on there in general.
But Tumblr was like the first place I saw transmen posting about the crap we have to deal with. Which was such a breath of fresh air. Even if tumblr as a whole doesn't really seem to care there is a niche that exists and can be seen. Which is much more than there ever was on r/traaaa, or any trans space on tiktok.
It's important to talk about transwomen and transfem experiences, so incredibly important because they're just as much a part of the community as anyone else. But so are transmen and transmasc experiences. It's so annoying. I'm so glad you mentioned reddit specifically though that website was so terrible with that stuff when I was on there.












