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d. member of the ~elderly population of tumblr. coast and ocean hopper. food. feminism. fandom. winning hearts with rainbow kisses and unicorn stickers. here you will find a healthy helping of flail, food-related musings and depictions, beautiful people, and social justice. and cats. can't forget the cats.

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Okay so I just got off the phone with them. I talked to a trans girl named Aurora & she was super helpful! She gave me a few doctors to talk to & encouraged me to seek therapy instead of just rushing to get my pills. She literally found a trans friendly therapist in my town & I would definitely recommend giving them a call!

GUYS COME SEE THIS!!!!!! I didn’t know about this, come look!!!!!!

it literally would not be right to ever not reblog this

For any trans followers I have. Stay safe and know you are loved

Anonymous asked:

Hello! I've been looking for your blog thru a singular post you published last year and that I liked. It was about the book "Red: A Crayon's Story". You introduced that book to me, and I fell for it right away. After so long, I finally got to buy it, and it has me so happy; also I share it with everyone I know so everybody can get to know that wonderfull book. And well, I guess I just wanted to thank you for publishing that post and introducing that book into my life. Thank you so much!

Omgosh, you’re so welcome! I love that book so much, and it’s become my go-to gift for new parents. (And maybe I just read it when I’m feeling a little down

THINGS I LOVED ABOUT SUPERGIRL 205, A DOT-POINTED ESSAY BY ME.

this is so long omfg. let’s go!

GAY

  • ALEX DANVERS, MY DARLING CHILD.
  • okay there was a LOT going on here, let’s start with the fun stuff:
  • “she broke up with you? who would do that?”
  • maggie “drink something a little harder and lose my cool” sawyer, be still my heart.
  • maggie calling alex a nerd. girl, you work for the science police.
  • alex suggesting a pinball bar.
  • that entire scene with alex and winn. alex is like, here is a whole lot of super personal details about maggie. winn: what’s a maggie? isn’t that exactly how it goes though? THIS THING HAS BECOME THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN MY LIFE VERY QUICKLY. everyone else: who da fuck is this thing? and then they worked some kind of wizard spell and managed to make winn’s crush on kara both not the worst thing ever and also a totally pointed reference. good job, show! and then alex’s face murdered me, part 1.
  • ”we’ll go and celebrate singledom,” says the girl who has never enjoyed dating and from the sounds of it has never actually been in a relationship. this entire scene is like a fucking master class in unravelling a plot point around your active story. maggie is well within her rights to be like, hold up what’s going on here? and alex’s response of utter confusion is perfect because it sets up maggie’s “my bad, then.” even if i hadn’t read the interviews with the show runners about this, i’d still have said at this point HALLELU THE SLOW BURN LIVES, because ngl, that very first scene had crushed all my dreams. but then. BUT THEN. (then that scene ended with alex’s poor confused face murdering me, part 2.)
  • BUT THEN.
  • (then alex was about to blurt out her gay awakening, only to be interrupted by kara’s. HEY LET’S TALK ABOUT THAT IN A MOMENT. ALSO ALEX AND KARA. ALSO IN A MINUTE.)
  • “my whole life has been about being perfect–” “OH GOD IT’S HAPPENING.”
  • this was perfect. perfect perfect perfect.
  • chyler smashed it out of the park with this amazing balance between alex’s absolute terror of the unknown and complete wonder that she may have finally solved this puzzle. alex’s face murdered me, part 3.
  • alex walked out of that scene BUZZING, and god, what an amazing thing to see. because it’s always scary, but it’s not always the most terrible thing on earth, and it was just so nice to see that on tv for once.
  • and maggie! this was about alex, not about the ship, and it was played in such a way that made me fall a little in love with her. thankyouforbeingafriend.mp3
  • and so the slow burn is saved! SAVED! because “wow this new girl is really neat and i think i want to kiss her???” isn’t the making of an otp. let them be buds. ALEX COULD DO WITH A FRIEND. A FRIEND SHE WILL EVENTUALLY MAKE OUT WITH, BUT STILL A FRIEND.
  • i’m emotional, don’t touch me.

SISTERS

  • alex and kara! science fairs! scary movies! punk rock music! this little glimpse into the tiny danvers sisters, post-alex’s broken arm! god, alex really did take her job of looking after kara and teaching her so seriously, you can just see all the steps from there to 2 years ago and alex’s spiral once she lost that part of her life as they both went off to college.
  • KARA DANVERS: NSYNC IS NOT WEIRD AND THEY ARE AMAZING. MY PATRONUS.
  • (and again, magical storytelling: let mon-el find his thing… ALEX FIND YOUR THING.)
  • but also, i adore that alex genuinely was going to tell kara, even if it did get interrupted. HEY NOW LET’S TALK ABOUT WHY.

ALSO GAY

  • LENA LUTHOR, YOUR THIRST FOR KARA CAN BE SEEN FROM KRYPTON’S FORMER LOCATION IN SPACE.
  • lena showing up at kara’s work to ask her out on a date!
  • KARA IS LITERALLY LENA’S ONLY FRIEND
  • lena showing up at kara’s home to ask supergirl out also on a date!
  • OH HEY YOUR SISTER SAVED MY LIFE, COOL, GLAD SHE’S YOUR SISTER AND NOT…????? giiiiiiiirl.
  • HEY KARA REMEMBER THAT TIME I DID YOU A FAVOUR LIKE A WHOLE WEEK AGO, I NEED TO CASH THAT IN. CONVENIENTLY YOU PUBLICLY REVEALED A CONNECTION TO SUPERGIRL LAST WEEK.
  • (i paused this scene to type some words and i looked back up to see i had paused on lena staring at kara’s mouth and just started LAUGHING HYSTERICALLY LIKE OH MY GOD WHERE IS THIS EVEN GOING BESIDES GAYTOWN???)
  • kara showing up on lena’s balcony was clearly an homage to supergirl’s love for other wealthy CEOs made me cackle like a lunatic, i think this is the point where my brain started leaking out of my ears
  • “kara and i will see you tomorrow night”
  • i’m just loving every damn thing they’re doing with lena at this point
  • so doctor cadmus is mrs luthor. this very explicitly gives us context for where lena was coming from with her little alien detector, far more than the vaguely defined lex. they’ve set it out: she’s the daughter (and probably sister) of a alien bigot, and she was raised to be one, too. she is one, even if she wraps it up in empowering humans to protect themselves.
  • but she’s also secretly trying to sabotage the crime gangs her mother in funding.
  • and she’s actively fraternizing with aliens in public.
  • and there’s the whole blah blah i just want to do good blah, which in the context of being a capitalist libertarian is so much whatever BUUUUUUUUUT.
  • “you can’t live in fear. you more than anyone must understand that. time and again you risk everything to see justice done, is it so hard to believe that i feel the same way?” AND THEN, “are you one of those people who thinks there’s no such thing as a good luthor?”
  • WHAT DOES SHE KNOW ABOUT HER MOTHER’S INVOLVEMENT WITH CADMUS? because i’m pretty sure it’s something.
  • so is she trying to bring her mother down, or is she about to get a rude awakening that will drive her into the arm of team supergirl. i honestly can’t tell at this point, and i love iiiiiiiiiiiiit.
  • PLUS SHE’S A GIANT SCIENCE NERD, ALL MY DREEEEEEEAMS WERE NEVER THIS WILD.
  • i ship them so much oh my god.

KARA AND HER ALIEN CHILD

  • mon-el’s first day of school work! kara you nerd, i’m surprised you didn’t buy him a lunchbox. tbh, i’m still loving the hell out of their entire storyline and the way it’s being used to forward kara over and above everything else, like god this show how you do me so right.
  • that mon-el is as bad a liar as kara, but also less manipulative (bribery coffee!) is interesting, especially in light of the whole kryptonians are snobs vs daxamites are party boys.
  • once again kara’s grossed out by humans and aliens doing the sex thing, my sweet little prude.
  • no strip clubs for you, little daxamite!

OTHER THINGS

  • “that was close.” “yeah, for their car.”
  • they finally put some of the cgi budget into showing kara carrying someone for real!
  • everything about winn and james, including and most especially winn poking james in the bruised ribs
  • twooooo mentions of cat, bless their socks
  • OPERATION DOUBTFIRE, YOU FUCKING NERDS.
  • science saved them!
  • kara/potstickers otp
  • “soon you’ll learn your fico score!”