I've said it before and I will say it again, bi lesbians are not a thing. A term for all wlw is sapphic, but lesbian is for women only attracted to women, I'm aware and acknowledge that lesbian used to refer to bi women also, but that has since changed, similar to how gay used to mean happy or fun and now means homosexual or otherwise lgbt. Bi lesbian is contradictory and lesphobic, and I've seen many bisexuals say it is also biphobic, which I honestly agree with but as I am not bisexual my opinion on what is and isnt biphobia is irrelevant. Bi women, please stop using lesbian and use sapphic or WLW instead.
bidykes
bi wlw can reclaim dyke, suck my dick ✨
no we can’t shut the fuck up.
moon-lesbo
broke: being a bi girl and a lesbian are the exact same experiences. everything lesbians go through bi girls go through the exact same. every post about lesbians should include or mention bi girls somehow. bi girls can never be lesbophobic. they have the exact same roles in the wlw community. bi girls can call themselves the d slur. bi girls can use the lesbians exclusive terms, because lesbians and bi girls are the same.
woke: being a lesbian and being a bisexual women are very different experiences, but we have a lot of things in common, that’s why we made the wlw community. wlw posts should be inclusive of all wlw, not just lesbians, but since lesbians and the other wlw are different, we should have spaces to talk about our unique struggles that bi women don’t go through. the same goes for them. we play different roles in the wlw community and in society in general, but we all should ally with each other to make ourselves stronger, but remembering the individuals needs of every group and calling out the lesbophobia/biphobia in our members.
uglysapphics
if you only make sapphic/wlw moodboards with photos of skinny, white, cis, half naked women, unfollow me.
if you think butch and femme are juast aesthetics/harmful, patriarchy-reinforcing synonyms for “masculine” and “feminine” and not identities, unfollow me.
if you think putting “no TERFs” in your bio automatically absolves you of transmisogyny, unfollow me.
if you don’t believe all wlw can call themselves butch/femme, unfollow me.
if you force animalistic labels on nonlesbian wlw who call themselves butch/femme, unfollow me.
if you think lesbians are “narrow minded” or “need to meet the right man,” unfollow me.
if you don’t believe all wlw can reclaim the d slur, especially if they’ve had it hurled at them in the streets, unfollow me.
if you don’t support he/him or they/them lesbians, unfollow me.
if you try to gatekeep nonlesbian wlw from sapphic/wlw spaces because “they should center around women who are exclusively attracted to women,” unfollow me.
if you try to exclude lesbian, bi, pan, ply, trans, ace, aro, nb, or intersex wlw from sapphic history, unfollow me.
there’s a lot to unpack, but lets just throw out the whole suitcase.
reblog if you ARE a trans wlw, if you LOVE and SUPPORT trans wlw, if you’re TIRED of TERFS, or if you ENJOY mint chocolate ICE CREAM
Just saw another celebrity coming out following a trend I noticed recently so I want to say something. When you claim that you’re not gay or bi but a Completely Different Sexual Oreintation because you “care about personality and not gender” or because you like “hearts not parts”, what you’re actually saying is: - gay men, lesbians and bisexuals don’t care about personality - gay men, lesbians and bisexuals only care about gender and bodies and genitals and can’t experience deep love and connection - gay men, lesbians and bisexuals are shallow apolitical sex crazed deviants and implicitly often also: - it’s okay for gay, bi and straight people to be grossed out by trans people because you have to be a Special Trans Inclusive Sexual Orientation to like trans people and everyone else gets a free pass at transphobia. So of course mainstream media loves coming outs like that! They’re the worst LGBT-phobic stereotypes confirmed, but this time they’re not only publicly acceptable but even progressive because they’re coming from a “queer” celebrity.
reminder to anyone who follows me and considers themselves a bisexual lesbian: please take a moment to consider why you want to identify as both bisexual and a lesbian when lesbians do not experience any form of attraction to men. it is possible you are dealing with comphet or internalized biphobia. you cannot be bisexual AND identify as a lesbian because it is harmful to actual lesbians who are ONLY attracted to women or women aligned people.
This post includes trans women as women, because they are, so do not misinterpret this as “calling out” cis lesbians who date trans women. This blog supports trans women whole heartedly.
I’ve describe myself as a bisexual lesbian. Since I’m attracted to people of all genders, and i’m attracted to men, but my attraction to men is rare. It’s hard because sometimes I feel like i’m more of an lesbian than bisexual. it’s weird because i’m rarely attracted to men, and originally with the post i was thinking of just strictly going by lesbian, since my attraction to everyone who’s not a man happen’s more, and occurs more. Like out of my list of recent crushes one of them was a cis guy, and my last partner i had was a trans guy. But outside of that all of my crushes have been on non binary people, and woman. so i don’t know, and then there’s the fact of me being asexual that makes all of this more confusing, and make me not want to think about it. I’ve given up all hope of finding someone in my current town since it feels like i’ve met every type of person here, and i’m just fed up with being here, and the people here, and want a person that reminds me of back home. i just miss the south a lot. i don’t know shit is weird
this is harmful to both the bisexual and lesbian communities. you can’t be a “bisexual lesbian.” you’re a bisexual with a preference towards women. that’s perfectly okay and valid! what’s not okay or valid is using harmful labels like “bisexual lesbian.”
“bisexual lesbian” is an oxymoron and invalidates not only bisexuals and lesbians, but everyone who fought for lesbianism and bisexuality to be accepted and validated.
bisexuality is attraction to more than one gender.
lesbians are women who are SOLELY attracted to other women.
lesbians can acknowledge that men are visually attractive but do not want to be in relationships with them. ever. even if your attraction to men is minuscule/you have a preference for women, you are still not a lesbian. you can say you’re a wlw or sapphic, but you’re not a lesbian.
bisexuality is not 50/50. it can be 99/1 or 80/20. it is completely normal and valid.
also women who are attracted to women but are not lesbians cannot use the d slur.
thanks for listening (or reading i guess).
I’ll tolerate he/him lesbians if it means bi lesbians cease
Having a preference for women doesn’t make you a “Bi lesbian” it makes you fucking Bisexual. Y'all realise that 90% of bisexual people have a preference, right? Stop perpetuating biphobia. It’s disgusting.
lycanrc-deactivated20200724
Anonymous asked:
Except that it is. The tag is meant for people to find others like them, for support, for answering questions. If you see no problem with flooding the tags with hateful spam and death threats, then you're beyond my understanding. This doesn't just affect the "evil cithets" either, there are LGBT aces who use the tags for the purposes I mentioned. Included me, including a nb kid who says that the hate in those tags makes them want to kill themselves. You think that kid is pathetic?
LGBT ppl: (some of whom are ace themselves) Cisgender heteroromantic asexuals and cisgender aromantic heterosexuals are straight IN ADDITION TO being asexual or aromantic and thus not queer/LGBT. They shouldn’t use the q slur nor should they take advantage of the resources our community provides.
Asexual/Aromantic people do in fact face stigma/prejudice that is unique to them but the LGBT community was built is a coalition of communities brought together by overlaping oppression that is completely separate from what asexuals/aromantic face and have faced historically. Instead of invading safe spaces that keep LGBT people alive, they should focus their efforts on making their own community and providing resources for themselves.
Ace tumblr (after having a collective conniption fit): LOOK AT THESE ACEPHOBES!!1!1#!1 And then…
- Joke about bringing [guns to pride parades]
- Say [this homophobic crap] related to the orlando shooting
- Claim [it’s a privilege] to even have night clubs
- Compare ace discourse [to a homophobic mass shooting]
- Say they are glad [a few more aphobic gays are dead]
- Claim the shooters actions [weren’t driven by homophobia] on the basis that asexual people MIGHT have been present at the club
- [Make a list] of “aphobes” (LGBT people) the same day as the Orlando shooting
- Say we should [thank aces for donating blood] in light of news that LGBT people can’t donate to help their sibilings
- Say they’re glad that the events of the shooting are [weeding out “aphobes”]
- [“At least you all have nightclubs”]
- [“We’ll see how their gatekeeping stands up after a couple of more massacres”]
- [“Gayer than thou”]
- [Mock] the AIDS crisis
- Say [this] blatant serophobic bull
- Say more [serophobic nonsense]
- Once again say something [disgustingly serophobic]
- Even [more serophobia]
- Insinuate “allosexuals” [get cancer from sex]
- Compare [gay people to Ronald Reagan] for not wanting cishets in the LGBT community
- Demand LGBT people [”help” them make their own community] (because we need to extend our emotional labor to cishets)
- Say [this] ahistoric nonsense
- Say [this] ableist crap
- Outright say they [hate lesbians]
- Say all the shit [in these screenshots]
- Make this [victim blaming post]
- Express desire to [“kill al lallosexuals”]
- Claim “allosexuals” have been [raping them for centuries]
- Claim rape is [less unpleasant for allos]
- Demonise allosexuals and hypersexual people [once again]
- Claim asexuals were [victims of the holocaust]
- Compare “acephobia” [to the holocaust]
- [Deny the inherit antisemitism] with one of the community’s symbols
- Even more [denial and antisemitism]
- Deny that being [disgusted by lesbians is lesbophobic] all while reducing them to sexual beings
- Same person as above, says they want “aphobes” [to shoot themselves], [doesn’t care] that they said they want LGBT people to commit mass suicide and then goes on to insinuate that all LGBT people [deserve the treatment] for hate aro/ace people
- Claim [“ace gays don’t exist while being lesbophobic”]
- Write fanfiction [demeaning LGBT people]
- Say this [homophobic] [revolting] crap
- Want to coin terms [to further alienate LGBT] people and claim we’re oppressing them
- [Make fun of] the societal oppression LGBT people faced
- Say that all [ace people are bi]
- Claim cishet people [aren’t cishet]
- Claim lesbians are [predatory towards asexuals]
- Insinuate cishet aces are [more oppressed than lesbians]
- Say SGA (same/similar gender attraction) is [“compulsory homosexuality”]
- Lowkey say they’re [more deserving] of being in the community than closeted LGBT people
- Claim they’re even [more queer than LGBT people] and use slurs to refer to us
- Fucking [call themselves fags] and then claim that [straight people can reclaim the slur]
- Same person above (who is a ace
non-sga“bi” person in a straight relationship) [justifies ace tumblr sending rape and death threats] to a rape survivor for saying that cishet aces are not queer - Say this [homophobic shit]
- Claim that calling people straight [is homophobic]
- Blatantly say they want to [kill “aphobes”]
- Blatantly say they want to [kill all allosexuals]
- Blatantly say they want LGBT people to [kill ourselves]
- Blatantly say that [gay people suck]
- Compare using the ace pride flag [to cultural appropriation]
- Compare “aphobes” (many of whom are trans) [to fucking TWERFs]
- Compare [lesbians to TWERFS]
- Call LGBT people to [”queer truscum”]
- Call LGBT people [“sex-crazed psychos”]
- Call LGBT people [”trashcan queers”]
- Call LGBT people [“deviants”]
- Call LGBT people [“deviants”] again
- Call LGBT people [“weak”] because we experience sexual attraction
- Call LGBT people “fascists”
- Say thay have no problem with LGBT people [committing suicide]
- Claim we, a bunch of “shitty cocksuckers” are upset that 1% of the population [doesn’t want to fuck us]
- Call the LGBT community [a stupid gay pride club]
- Call the LGBT community a [fandom]
- Call the LGBT community [“full of drugs, STDs and alcoholics”]
- Claim they can reclaim [homophobic and transphobic slurs]
- Claim sex ed is a means to get people to [stop IDing as asexual]
- Claim the ace community is cleaner because they don’t have a [“drug and alcohol problem”]
- Deny [queer is a slur]
- Spew [this vitriol]
- [Misgender] the person who popularised the term allosexual in the first place
- Celebrate [someone’s death] and when called out [deflected] the issue [while calling her “toxic”]
- The above person calls the deceased and her girlfriend [manipulative and violent]
- And then called a lesbian woman a violent slur [only to demonise her] for being rightfully upset
- Call all alloromantic allosexual people straight
- Coin homophobic shit like [”alloculture”]
- Claim that “allosexuals” purposely [stay in abusive relationships]
- Claim that “allosexuals” are [unfaithful in relationships]
- Say that LGBT who are survivors of corrective rape don’t care about rape survivors when they criticise ace people for constantly bringing it up
- Say [it’s a privilege] to be hypervisible in countries where being LGBT is illegal and punishable by death
- And then claiming that if it’s so bad [we should just move]
- Claim they’re [more oppressed than bi people]
- Compare “aphobes” (i.e. people who think that cishets aren’t LGBT) to [the fucking KKK]
- Compare “aphobes” to [the crackers who committed genocide] against America’s Indigenous population with smallpox blankets
- Say this [antiblack nonsense] calling for the ace community (a cesspool of saltines and mayo) to be the “aroace MLK”
- Say that LGBT ppl are [more likely to be rapists]
- Think that [this] is the appropriate way to respond to a poz gay man talking about his experiences
- Put trans women and trans minors [on the same list as TWERFS and radfems]
- And then justify the above by [calling trans minors abusive]
- Show how [antisemtic] they are
- Literally use [someone dying] to further their disgusting rhetoric
- BLATANTLY say they hate LGBT people
- Express desire [to assault] against LGBT ppl
- [Express disdain] with the fact that same-gender marriage is legal throughout the entire U.S.
- Deny that they are [invading LGBT safe spaces irl]
- Outright say they find LGBP expressing affection publicly (e.g holding hands) disgusting and repulsive
- And so much more…
LGBT ppl: Wow fuck these people -spam tags with easily blockable posts-
You: This makes me suicidal!!!
If being told to stay in your fucking lane makes you suicidal, then you have a grandiose sense of entitlement that you need to work on. Instead of sending guilt-tripping, manipulative asks about killing yourself to someone, why not LISTEN to what LGBT people are saying. LGBT aces are still LGBT and thus have a place in the community. It’s cishet aces and aros that don’t.
But you and others like you are so hellbent on defending straight people that you completely ignore this. Lmk how kissing the asses of my oppressors works out for you. Actually, don’t. The next time you want to send an ask like this to a suicidal person, fuck off instead you gross creepy s.o.b.
your-homophobia-is-showing
This post still genuinely ends the discourse
This is the Ultimate Receipt to end all receipts
bisexuellcat-deactivated2020022
THIS IS SUCH CLOWNERY LMAOOOOOO
Shdhsb what the fuck
gonna go out on a limb and say it's a troll (hopefully)
SPIDERMAN?? HATING BI PEOPLE?? HE CREATED THE BI COMMUNITY
Was it a tough decision to go back to the original pronunciation of Hasan?
Patriot Act with Hasan Minhaj: Deep Cuts
i just,, there’s no way this is real ???? it’s stated in the fucking bisexual manifesto that bisexuality includes attraction to people outside of the gender binary. imagine being so fucking dense and trying to push pansexuality so hard that you just straight up lie about history. things like this are proof that the label pansexual is harmful to bi people.
ace-force
Allos: *let’s put tits on robots*
Allos: *responsible for furry culture*
Allos: humm aces are oversexualizing our identities :_(
Me, a simple ace: WOW AMAZING o_O
pyonkotchi
RESPONSIBLE FOR FURRY CULTURE
creap
i personally created furry culture myself. Me
dykes-course
im the robot titties
yiffscourse
“Aces are not inherently lgbt” and “aces have a real sexuality that should be respected” are not incompatible statements.
Not being lgbt doesn’t make you not valid. It just makes you not lgbt. That’s it.
If you are l, g, b, or t (or label as pan or nb with fall under b and t) then you are lgbt.
If you are none of these specific things, you are not lgbt but you are still valid.
panvsbi
Pan vs Bi/Bi vs Pan??
Can people put in the notes or message me with their opinion of Pan vs Bi?? I’m currently in the middle with my opinion and want to hear others thoughts. I’m quite new to the community sooo yeah! Feel free to say what you will about the subject
Please someone just tell me if there is a diffenrce even in nuance I’m just getting people saying that people can ID how like they like without telling me anything to letting me form my own conclusions
I don’t mean anything and by the vs I just want to know the difference.
there is no difference, pan is inherently biphobic and is used as a label by people who just wanna feel like they’re being woke bc pan “includes trans people” despite the fact that bi has and always will include trans people.
Ace people “coming out” as ace to their coworkers, their boss, or anyone they dont have a personal relationship with is not revolutionary or brave in any way, in fact it is mostly just weird that you think you need to tell these people about how much or how little you feel sexual attraction. It is never going to be the same as a gay person’s employer finding out about their relationships and it is never going to carry the same consequences, you guys just really wanna feel special.