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The Ultimate Cock-Destroyer

@dicktopia73

If you’re straight Why?

On Saturday, in New York, a group of friends pulled into a strangers driveway to turn their car around. The homeowner came outside, shot at them, and killed one of the 20 year old women in the car.

Last Thursday, in Kansas City, a 16 year old boy ended up at the wrong address by mistake trying to pick up his younger siblings. He rang the doorbell. The homeowner shot him in the head. He is, miraculously, alive and recovering.

Yesterday, in Texas, a group of high school cheerleaders stopped at a grocery store on their way home. One of them opened the door to the wrong car by mistake, realized her mistake, and quickly retreated and found her friends car nearby. The man in the car followed her and shot at the group. 2 were shot. One remains hospitalized.

In less than a week- 3 people, doing normal, nonmalicious, nonthreatening, everyday things. Turning around in a driveway, ringing the wrong doorbell, going up to the wrong car by mistake. And with no escalation, no warning, it turns to gun fire.

It's a terrible intersection of easy access to firearms and an entitlement to use violence against others. All 3 of these recent incidents were so unprovoked and unjustifiable, and the core thread remains the same.

A man who felt entitled to use violence and had the means to do so with a firearm.

I don't even know what to say.

Hey, so, as I clarified on other reblogs- it....actually isn't. I understand why you would assume that. And since people of color are so often seen as inherently more threatening in our white supremacist culture, they are far more likely to be the victims of these kinds of incidents.

But. The basketball incident was a black shooter and a white victim. The New York incident was a white shooter and a white victim. The Texas incident was a Hispanic shooter and a black victim. The Kansas city incident was a white shooter and a black victim. The ages vary too- the victims are as young as 6. The shooters range from 24 to 84. It's happened all over the country- Upstate New York to central Texas.

So, to me, this recent uptick of "wrong place" shootings is more than just race (though race is absolutely a factor in some of these situations). But rather shows that these systems of inequality and power and paranoia, gun culture and ease with violence, can and do affect a wide range of our society. Too many Americans are too quick to assume malice from strangers, are too quick to turn their fear into violence, and have far too much access to make that violence incredibly deadly.

I keep thinking about how maybe a society that was built on genocide and slavery, and that has been violently opposed to actually reckoning with that history, in uniquely positioned to have the disastrously toxic relationship with guns and intra-community violence.

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I’m sorry I’m still being unhinged about After Life and like…okay it’s the way the undertones of Spike and Dawn’s arc in that episode are slightly different from the scoobies. The scoobies arc is “hooray! We saved Buffy from hell! Is she okay? Why isn’t she happy?? Why isn’t she smiling and thanking us? Is she okay? Buffy are you okay? She’s probably okay.” But Spike and Dawn’s plot is they can pretty clearly tell something is wrong…that she’s not okay. But they still care very much about her and are really protective. And this episode majorly floats the idea of her “coming back wrong,” even baits the audience with it a bit. But the thing is the overwhelming reaction from Spike and Dawn is…they don’t care. Early on in the episode the scoobies suggest maybe Buffy could be crazy and wild and dangerous…and then we immediately cut to Dawn taking her home. BECAUSE DAWN DOEST CARE. Her sister just crawled out of her grave. She’s dirty and bloody and her hair is a mess and she does look ‘wild’ like the scoobies suggest. But Dawn doesn’t care. Then there’s Spike a while later, making it very clear that had they brought her back wrong, he wouldn’t have allowed them to kill whatever came back if there was even a chance it was Buffy. And Dawn has a similar freak out on Willow later when even the suggestion of undoing Buffy’s resurrection comes up, and she’s bothered by it for the rest of the episode. In conclusion, both the scoobies and Dawn and Spike know on some level that something is wrong, but the scoobies convince themselves it’s not and everything is all good news and sunshine. Dawn and Spike don’t really do that, they’re prepared to accept the reality that she did come back wrong…but that doesn’t change anything. They’d fight for her tooth and nail regardless.

reblog if your name isn't Amanda.

2,121,566 people are not Amanda and counting!

We’ll find you Amanda.

this has almost 11 million notes what is this

I’ve never seen this post once in 10 years on this site

I’ve never even heard of this before tho??? Wtf??????????

oh my god, I didn’t think there were any surviving versions of this post left

For those who weren’t around in the Deep Lore times, this is one of the relics of the editable post era. This post has THE SINGLE HIGHEST NOTES of ANY post on this site, bar none, but with more than a dozen variations. Every single post you’ve ever seen with more than 3 million notes has been a different version of this one.

This is the “Dean’s Gym Shorts” post. This is the Flubber post. This is the original “Reblog if you support gay people” post. it was ALL of them. before half the site got nuked, it had even more notes than it has now - at one point, well over 15 million, and that was years ago.

This, with no exaggeration, is the ONE TRUE heritage post

i dont know how many of you guys heard this one yet but theres a big eyedrops recall going on right now.

I didn’t know, so I looked into it for us!

Ten different brands of ophthalmic drugs were involved in these cases, the CDC said. But the most common was Ezri Care Artificial Tears, [from parent company named Global Pharma Healthcare] which the Food and Drug Administration warned consumers to stop purchasing last month. … The same was true of another of the company’s products, Delsam Pharma Artificial Eye Ointment”

- 22 March 2023 from NPR

“At this time, CDC and FDA recommend clinicians and patients stop using EzriCare or Delsam Pharma’s Artificial Tears products pending additional guidance from CDC and FDA. … If patients were advised to use EzriCare or Delsam Pharma’s Artificial Tears by their healthcare provider, they should follow up with their healthcare provider for recommendations about alternative treatment options.”

- 21 March 2023 from CDC

The CDC also recommends that you seek medical attention if you used eye drops and show symptoms listed below:

Eye infection symptoms may include:

  • Yellow, green, or clear discharge from the eye
  • Eye pain or discomfort
  • Redness of the eye or eyelid
  • Feeling of something in your eye (foreign body sensation)
  • Increased sensitivity to light
  • Blurry vision

Men! Get your ears pierced! That’s an order

Men! Don’t get it done at Claire’s or anywhere that uses a piercing gun! Go to a professional tattoo and piercing parlor! That’s an order!

Y'all're free to get your ears pierced if you like, but I have long maintained the secret to a long life is to avoid having pieces of steel driven through your body.

You are absolutely incorrect. The secret to a long life is being penetrated as many times as possible

Julius Cesar disagrees

He’s just built different

Phineas Gage is that u

Hang on I have to look something up

Yeah this is funny

SOMETIME IN THE LAST WEEK MY SCHOOL PUT UP A LARGE BANNER DEDICATED TO THE :-) EMOTICON

[id: a banner with a huge image of the :-) (smiley face with nose) emoticon captioned “smiley / first emoted here / 19 september 1982 / computer science department / www.cs.cmu.edu/smiley / carnegie mellon.” end id]

happy birthday :-) face

it’s that time of the year again everyone say happy 40th birthday :-)

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This is apparently what was contained in the original message that invented the :-) and I'm obsessed with Fahlman's diction here

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Thinking about how Dawn goes to sacrifice herself and Buffy doesn’t let her. She is not at fault for her existence. Thinking about how Buffy chooses to stop her sister from being eaten by the same world that foretold her own death when she was only a year older. A meaningless death she walked into because she didn’t have all of the information. And the tragedy of The Gift is that Buffy dies, but the triumph of The Gift is that Buffy decides to die and have her death mean something - both the world and her sister are saved. She has all the knowledge, for once, and she wins.

And the horror of Buffy the Vampire Slayer is that it is a world in which one teenage girl, plucked from innocence and ignorance, is sacrificed for the rest of us. Whether it’s Dawn or Buffy or one of the many slayers that came before. The tragedy of Buffy the Vampire Slayer for me is the dehumanization of these girls. Dawn selflessly acting to sacrifice herself is an act of heroism; Buffy stopping her is the moment the show tells us that Dawn *is* a person, actual and whole. And Dawn’s life is worth the world because all of our lives are.

Dawn in The Gift is the through-line for me to Buffy in Chosen - the choice to break the cycle of forced sacrifice. The choice that looks at all those girls and makes the world recognize they are more than cannon fodder. More than objects to be used and abused and discarded. The potentials become slayers who have the ability and the free will to be heroic, to choose to fight - to have the knowledge and the power to decide what to do with it.

The same way Buffy does on that tower, staring at her brave sister. The sister who doesn’t know there is another way, and who is willing and ready to walk to her death.

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Look, everyone's all about Spuffy in Touched and yeah, it's the second most romantic episode on TV BUT may I introduce you to After Life?

Spike has been pining for dead!Buffy for almost as long as he's been in love with her. But this time, he knows there's no hope, as he's not privy to The Scoobies' plan. He always had hope when Buffy was alive, but now she's not. And he actually sees her alive again (THAT MOMENT IS PERFECT) but he's still holding onto the guilt from the events that led to Buffy's death. This is a vampire who is somehow purging his non-existant soul in front of the woman he loves (!) to distraction. He shouldn't even be capable of loving her, but he does and in this moment, his love for her becomes pure. Becomes 100% real simply because he says "every night I save you." Also, he counted the days she was gone. That's so romantic, holy fuck.

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Sometimes the BTVS narrative gets on its moral high horse and goes very much into the “humans only good monsters only bad” ideology and “no killing humans. Nobody is allowed to kill humans. Slayers cant kill humans” but then there’s Spiral…

Like this guy. I don’t personally think this guy’s gonna make it 🤣

Buffy definitely killed some people here and made it VERY clear she’d kill more in defense of Dawn. (Also it was mainly self defense.) And I support her. She’s so right for that. She gets to do some Killing. As a treat. She’s so entitled to it

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The digital remastered versions' greatest sin is that the new aspect ratio cuts off the shot of their hands halfway and you can’t fully see him literally CRADLING her injured hands. So here you go. Brb going to stare at this forever.

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Sick and twisted!