Good Toys hydrate
Good Toys lube their horny parts
Good Toys eat to replenish their strength
Good Toys take breaks to take care of their bodies and minds
Self-care in kinks is so important. Take care of yourselves out there, Good Toys!
Umm
So the smartest man i know has been really playing into my misogyny and patriarchy kink and it's like sooo hot that it gets him off 🤤 so he ordered me to spend all day edging and thinking of him as my future husband, and to think of myself as a kinky little bride
And like I never thot of marriage like a kink thing rly but its like totally messing w my head like??? To take a man's name and live in his house and become his property, and then get filled with his cum until im pregnant with his child is like ummm.... 😳
Its like um. im thinkin about it was different now and im dripping wet at the thot of a wedding ring being just another collar. being a man's dumb docile housewife. brainwashed and domesticated into a happy bride owned by her husband
Is this like weird? Is this a weird kink. Idk. I think marriage is inherently kinky.
Marriage can be inherently kinky! I see it this way as well! 🥰
Edging isn’t for you.
Denial isn’t for you.
Pain isn’t for you.
Anal isn’t for you.
Oral isn’t for you.
You’re also not a bad sub if you need to safeword, if your limits are different today, if you have chronic conditions or mental health struggles that limit you more than you’d like.
There’s so many posts that talk about the “ways to be a good sub” and honestly there is no one way and it’s okay to do what’s right for you. You’re not a bad sub at all.
1. Openly (and continuously) communicate with yours partner about your needs, wants, limitations, and moods/spaces. Always. Never stop.
That’s it.
Here’s the thing that some people don’t seem to understand about sex & kink. You have to respect boundaries before you get to push them. You have to show people they’re safe before you get to make them feel scared. You have to respect people before you get to degrade them. You have to be normal with people before you get to be dirty with them. You can’t be skipping steps. Treating them like a person always comes before treating them like a toy.
Dollification is such a uniquely calming experience. You know you're so safe as a part of owners collection, so much so that being unable to move or speak doesn't bother you at all,
man. sometimes it seems like a lot of subs forget that being a dom/playing a dominant role is a lot of work. it's a lot of responsibility and takes a lot of energy, which can all take a mental toll on a dom, but some subs seem to just...glance right over that
anyway. appreciate and thank your local dom today
wait I have more. i think what it is a lot of the time is subs, often inexperienced ones, don't get that the mere act of being submissive isn't an equivalent to all the work a dom does. a sub being receptive and willing is great, but they also have to work with a dom to create a dynamic. there's discussions to be had, plans to be made, scenes to create, etc etc. not to mention that your dom will also need to be cared for. they're not a stone statue that's just there to fuck you, they're a person with wants and needs
there's so much more to the role of a sub than just existing in a dom's life. you actually have to put in some effort yknow
doms also need aftercare too! dom-drop is a very real thing
YES TOTALLY!!!!!!! esp when dealing with harder kinks/scenes, it's super important
As a dom myself, nothing makes me drop a play partner near as fast as when they just expect me to do all the work - they tell me nothing about what they want, what they like, no ideas for scenes, etc. Especially when they expect the foreplay to be about readying them, the scene to center them, and the aftercare to comfort them, leaving me hanging. It's exhausting and not worth my time.
Kink is two way in all regards - consent, communication, control, care, and comfort.
sternly and ineffectively telling my brain that no, it is not puppy time, you do actually have to be a person and get stuff done and not just be dumb and horny all day
You‘re not a main character.
You’re not meant to safe the world.
You’re not meant for complex dialogue.
You‘re not meant to be important.
You’re just a Man‘s silly sidekick <3
You’re there to be cute.
You’re there to be weak and helpless.
You’re there to get fucked.
i'm probably at least somewhat unintentionally guilty of this but we've gotta stop making all the body positivity posts about fat sex appeal pr because Obviously very many people want to fuck us, we're incredibly fuckable and have been objects of desire and art and lustful praise for the entirety of human history, we're not a product that needs selling, it's more about getting people to acknowledge us as human beings after they cum
this isn't to say that those kinds of posts aren't like, re-affirming or anything, it's nice to remember that people think we're hot in spite of what we've been told! but i think we too easily buy into the lie that attraction to fat people is genuinely uncommon or that it simply needs to be promoted. the public fatphobic lie claims that people aren't attracted to us, but the result of that lie isn't a destruction of instinctual attraction so much as the production of fat people (and especially fat women) as a more sexually vulnerable and exploitable class, one towards whom any affection is a benevolent gift and any mistreatment or sexual violence is outright dismissible. if you're attracted to us, that's great! are you public about it? do you take us on dates and introduce your friends to your fat partners? do you listen to us when we're harassed or assaulted? how do you treat us when you're dumped or rejected? do you defend us when we're not in earshot? do you hear us when we say "no"?
They also don’t belong in government positions either.
Nor as public school teachers.
How do u feel about a werewolf chasing a prey!reader. but like the reader wants it and it's a game they play often and when he gets her he breeds her over and over apdkwnjdn
Your breath comes in heaving breaths as you tear through the forest. The setting sun casts the path in shadow, you have to take turns looking at the forest ahead of you and down on the underbrush so you don't stumble over a tree root or a loose stone. You can still hear the wolf behind you. You don't dare to look back and see him as he approaches. You can hear him growl behind you, and you know he's gaining.
When it comes to speed, you've got him beat every time... but you're just a sprinter, he's a marathoner, a persistence predator. As the chase goes on you start to lose steam and he's just getting started.
A clawed hand catches you around the middle and a scream leaves your throat as he brings you down to the forest floor, pinning you down, sharp teeth at your throat. For a moment, you both just lay there, catching your breath.
"You're lucky this wasn't a real hunt, little deer," he growls, spreading your clothes off of you in one slash of his massive paws. You knew he was right. If there had been a pack of hungry wolves after you instead of just him you wouldn't have made it half as far.
"I'll escape next time," you tell him, playfully struggling against his hold. His hands clamp down on you and he sinks his teeth into your neck with a warning growl.
"Next time? oh, don't be silly little deer. Now that I've caught you I'm never letting you go, you're mine now," he runs his hands down your body and forces your legs open, growling at the sight of your pussy.
"there it is... my prize," he says quietly, almost to himself, He kisses and bites his way down your body, before pressing his mouth to your pretty 'prize'. He's a wolf, after all, of course, he's going to eat his prey.
He's true to his word, he doesn't plan on letting you up off the ground let alone out of his arms until you're round with his cum, and marked as his mate.
imagine being made to admit that you were overpowered while getting fucked?
“I’m weak.”
“I’m helpless.”
“I can’t stop you.”
“You can do whatever you want to me.”
“You decide when you want to use my body.”
“I’m powerless.”
“You can easily force yourself into my holes.”
“You’ll always win, no matter how hard I fight.”
Now that I am more used to being in a poly relationship I am desprately horny for my partners to swap photos and videos of me being a horny slut with each other.
"Check out how I got her hole gaping. Isn't it hot?"
"Isn't she cute with her mouth full of my drenched boxers?"
"Well check out this facial she begged, begged!, me for."
Just appreciated in absentia. Objectified for my partners' pleasure. Treated like the slut I enjoy being even when I'm not around. That's when I know I've made it. When I'm not just acknowledged a slut to my face but people know it's a core part of my character.
Bonus points if my media is used to get them off with each other!
yeah you call yourself a punk but are you normal about addicts
you're "punk" but are you normal about homeless people
you say you're a punk but do you laugh when strangers talk to themselves in public. do you film and take pictures of people on the bus. do you listen when disabled people tell you you're being ableist. do you sacrifice human life in the name of "efficiency". do you think its weird when people talk about their hallucinations and delusions. do you make fun of a friend asking you for a reality check. do you fake disorders. are you normal about aromantic people. asexual people. all areas of the spectrums. are you normal about "low-functioning" autistic people. are you normal about people of all religions. are you normal about indigenous people. do you keep yourself educated and understanding of cultures and peoples you haven't experienced or met before. do you understand what antifascism means. are you a punk or do you wear it as a costume. how does the boot taste.
Maybe you call yourself a slut. Maybe you call yourself a fuckoy, or a doll, or living porn. Maybe you are owned. Maybe you are public property.
What matters is: you are an object, a pretty thing useful to make others cum. You don't belong to you.
THEREFORE it's YOUR duty to maintain the object of pleasure you are.
Hydrate. Get plenty of sleep. Don't let negative self talk spiral you into bad places. Work out if you can and enjoy it. Need meds? Take them! Need therapy? Do it! Do things you enjoy to relax and unwind! Reach out to friends and have fun! Eat food!
Hey! Hey. Yes, you with the whole "not extending to yourself the kindness you extend to others" thing: did I fucking say you were allowed to be so hard on yourself? Didn't fucking think so. So I'll tolerate it no longer.
And YOU. Work is not more important than your mental and emotional health! Don't define yourself as an individual by professional achievements or so help me God I'll unleash a torrent of punishment on your ass. Got it?
You have one body to expose, one mind to break and fuck, one life to be a fucking depraved cumslut. So you better take self care seriously because you are looking after one of our most precious objects!
yeah you like your girls thick but do you like not judging her when she eats? do you like standing up to your friends when they’re fatphobic even when she’s not around? do you like holding her when she’s hurt by the things people say and do around her? do you like her? or do you just prefer her when she’s a picture on your phone?
the response to this post has been rly nice to see so here’s my favorites
I’m a product of the smart overachieving model child to stupid airhead fucktoy adult pipeline.
Oh to be a whiny little puppy with an intense training regimen. Learn all of my idiosyncrasies just to point them out and teach me how to “fix” them.
Tell me how perfect I am for always rolling over and bowing to give you my cunt, softly remarking that it was what I was meant to do, how a good pup knows to give in before the question is even asked. After all I am a good pup aren’t I?
Teach me to whine instead of beg, slowly take more and more of my vocabulary until all I can do is yip and moan. Shush me like a scared animal that can’t possibly know what it’s doing.
Make sure I always remember who owns me, how to obey, and most of all, that mutts don’t speak😵💫
I GOT A FUCKING RAISE THE POTATO WORKED WTF
This potato works. Every. Fucking. Time.
Then bring me luck
the day after I posted this last time I was notified that I was selected for a really cool mentorship gig and got an unrelated glowing review at work
These are the BEST kinks
Me giving @depressedpastel23 kinks that she didn't even know she'd like (or even some she still doesn't like). Only because I have the power to corrupt her however I want 🤷🏾♂️😘
It's heckin meannnnn>///< @thesouthernincubus
