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@deathdestiny

Teen lesbian radfem💗
Autistic and gender abolitionist

Im not playing with yall, if you gonna reblog my shit i wont answer

Peace, xoxo🥰🫶💗💋

I'm a simple lesbian, I see a woman's mouth and I want to kiss it, I see a woman's jaw and I want to kiss it, I see a woman's neck and I want to kiss it, I see a woman's shoulders and I want to kiss it, I see a woman's back and I want to kiss it, I see a woman's stomach and I want to kiss it, I see a wom

I don't think it is a coincidence that tons of white people started using some variation of they pronouns after BLM went mainstream in summer 2020. White people had to confront their privilege en masse, and adopting a gender identity was a way for them to avoid blame for their role in white supremacy and act like they face the same oppression as black people. This is especially true when you think about how many white TRAs say that transphobia has roots in racism and reframe every racial justice issue as a trans issue.

PREACH 👏🏾The amount of white they/thems I met during protests was unreal. talking bout “all us oppressed folks gotta stick together”. BRO. A black man was choked to death live on camera by cops. Your mom calls you “he”, our struggles are not the same. You can have empathy without comparing. It’s embarrassing when they do

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There are other women like you. There are other women who think the way you think, who feel the way you feel, who act the way you act. There always have been and there always will be. Womanhood isn’t whatever shallow archetype the world has tried to convince you that it is. It’s going to be okay.

A radical feminist’s reading list-

Classic

  • The Second Sex by Simone de Beauvoir
  • The Feminine Mystique by Betty Friedan
  • Sexual Politics by Kate Millett
  • On Lies, Secrets, and Silence: Selected Prose, 1966-1978 by Adrienne Rich
  • The Beauty Myth by Naomi Wolf

Fiction

  • The Power by Naomi Alderman
  • Salt Slow by Julia Armfield
  • The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood
  • Native Tongue by Suzette Haden Elgin
  • The Vagina Monologues by Eve Ensler
  • Her Body and Other Parties by Carmen Maria Machado
  • The Gate to Woman’s Country by Sheri S. Tepper

History

  • Women’s Work: The First 20,000 Years by Elizabeth Wayland Barber
  • Caliban and the Witch: Women, the Body, and Primitive Accumulation by Silvia Federici
  • The Living Goddesses by Marija Gimbutas
  • The Creation of Patriarchy by Gerda Lerner
  • Who Cooked the Last Supper? The Women’s History of the World by Rosalind Miles
  • Women of Ideas: And What Men Have Done to Them by Dale Spender
  • Headstrong: 52 Women Who Changed Science-and the World by Rachel Swaby

Intersectional

  • Women, Race & Class by Angela Y. Davis
  • Ain’t I a Woman: Black Women and Feminism by bell hooks
  • It’s Not About the Burqa by Mariam Khan (editor)
  • Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches by Audre Lorde
  • This Bridge Called My Back: Writings by Radical Women of Color by Cherríe Moraga (editor) and Gloria Anzaldúa (editor)

Lesbian

  • Unpacking Queer Politics: A Lesbian Feminist Perspective by Sheila Jeffreys
  • The Disappearing L: Erasure of Lesbian Spaces and Culture by Bonnie J. Morris
  • Homophobia: A Weapon of Sexism by Suzanne Pharr
  • Compulsory Heterosexuality and Lesbian Existence by Adrienne Rich

Liberal vs. radical

  • Female Erasure: What You Need to Know about Gender Politics’ War on Women, the Female Sex and Human Rights by Ruth Barrett (editor)
  • End of Equality by Beatrix Campbell
  • Feminisms: A Global History by Lucy Delap
  • Daring to be Bad: Radical Feminism in America, 1967-1975 by Alice Echols
  • Gender Hurts: A Feminist Analysis of the Politics of Transgenderism by Sheila Jeffreys
  • Freedom Fallacy: The Limits of Liberal Feminism by Miranda Kiraly (editor) and Meagan Tyler (editor)
  • The Sexual Liberals and the Attack on Feminism by Dorchen Leidholdt (editor) and Janice G. Raymond (editor)
  • The Transsexual Empire: The Making of the She-Male by Janice G. Raymond
  • We Were Feminists Once: From Riot Grrrl to CoverGirl, the Buying and Selling of a Political Movement by Andi Zeisler

Pornography, prostitution, surrogacy & rape

  • Against Our Will: Men, Women and Rape by Susan Brownmiller
  • Slavery Inc.: The Untold Story of International Sex Trafficking by Lydia Cacho
  • Pornland: How Porn Has Hijacked Our Sexuality by Gail Dines
  • Being and Being Bought: Prostitution, Surrogacy and the Split Self by Kajsa Ekis Ekman
  • The Industrial Vagina: The Political Economy of the Global Sex Trade by Sheila Jeffreys
  • Only Words by Catharine A. Mackinnon
  • Know My Name by Chanel Miller
  • Not a Choice, Not a Job: Exposing the Myths about Prostitution and the Global Sex Trade by Janice G. Raymond
  • Women as Wombs: Reproductive Technologies and the Battle Over Women’s Freedom by Janice G. Raymond

Psychology & trauma

  • Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft
  • Delusions of Gender: How Our Minds, Society and Neurosexism Create Difference by Cordelia Fine
  • Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence – From Domestic Abuse to Political Terror by Judith Lewis Herman
  • Toward a New Psychology of Women by Jean Baker Miller

Theory

  • Dear Ijeawele, or A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
  • We Should All Be Feminists by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
  • Gyn/Ecology: The Metaethics of Radical Feminism by Mary Daly
  • Last Days at Hot Slit: The Radical Feminism of Andrea Dworkin by Andrea Dworkin, Johanna Fateman (editor) and Amy Scholder (editor
  • The Dialectic of Sex: The Case for a Feminist Revolution by Shulamith Firestone
  • Feminism is for Everybody: Passionate Politics by bell hooks
  • Feminist Theory: From Margin to Center by bell hooks
  • Against Sadomasochism: A Radical Feminist Analysis by Robin Ruth Linden (editor), Darlene R. Pagano (editor), Diana E. H. Russell (editor) and Susan Leigh Star (editor)
  • Toward a Feminist Theory of the State by Catharine A. Mackinnon
  • The Sexual Contract by Carole Pateman

Other

  • Without Apology: The Abortion Struggle Now by Jenny Brown
  • Close to Home: A Materialist Analysis of Women’s Oppression by Christine Delphy
  • Doing Harm: The Truth About How Bad Medicine and Lazy Science Leave Women Dismissed, Misdiagnosed, and Sick by Maya Dusenbery
  • Beauty and Misogyny: Harmful Cultural Practices in the West by Sheila Jeffreys
  • Are Women Human? And Other International Dialogues by Catharine A. Mackinnon
  • Invisible Women: Data Bias in a World Designed for Men by Caroline Criado Perez
  • A Passion for Friends: Toward a Philosophy of Female Affection by Janice G. Raymond
  • How to Suppress Women’s Writing by Joanna Russ
  • Man Made Language by Dale Spender
  • Counting for Nothing: What Men Value and What Women are Worth by Marilyn Waring

“you just haven’t sound the right man yet!” “hate the sin, love the sinner” “it’s unnatural” “it’s just a phase” “queer” “examine your bias” “genital preference” “non men attracted to non men” “same gender attraction”

it's hard being a radfem who gets into fandom spaces cause why does every character y'all deem "too feminine/masculine" to be their gender have to be trans 😭

"Terfs and radfems' ideology is based on hate and white supremacy"

First of all, terf is a term used to label a woman as an acceptable target for violence. Believing you have the right to define when a woman should receive violence is an ideology based on hate and is misogyny.

Second of all, many radfems, myself included, are women of color. Do some research on what lengths of violence women experience in countries such as Mexico, India, Iran, Korea, and others.

Third of all, a white woman being a feminist does not inherently make her a white supremacist.

Fourth of all, women are often labelled terfs because they talk about their sex-based oppression and the need for female-exclusive spaces, such as bathrooms, abuse recovery centers, saunas, where we are already vulnerable and prefer to be in company of other women to mitigate risk.

If your progressive and woke ideology consists of erasing women and hating us even more for expressing concerns over the very real sex-based oppresion we face every day, you are the one whose ideology is a) easily manipulated by people with louder voices even when they're incorrect and b) basing your ideology on hate and misogyny.

Something for all you to think about. Women are not inherently your enemy, you're labelling us as your enemy because you want to invade our rights and our spaces and we are, very rightfully so, not letting you.

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being on radblr is like unfollows someone, keep seeing the person on your dash via mutual in laws, decides i over reacted, refollows, no i was right, unfollows, idk, refollows, um, unfoll

they’ll call radical feminism ”white feminism“, while not realizing that liberal feminism is a western concept.

most women in developing countries are radical feminists, since they experience sex based oppression every day.

the talibans are not banning "whoever identifies as a woman“ from going to school, the clergy in iran is not oppressing women because of their gender identity, girls in africa are not getting their genitals mutilated because they identify as women.

wherever you’re the oppressor or the opressed one in a patriarchal society is not assigned at birth it is observed.

Recommendation!!

Okay so I read this book and I recommend to do the same if you are radfem/gender critical/gender abolitionist. Basically it’s about Autism and gender identity. As autistic folk, while reading this book I felt that I’m not alone, I felt finally seen. It also focus on other disorders that autistics can have while still the main topic is gender identity and struggles to find yourself in gender obsessed society. I genuinely recommend to read it even autistic trans people as it can help with understanding yourself more. It’s sad to see other people having the same problem/s as you not so long ago. Wish you all better future and capability to understand yourself more

TransgenderTreand is a religious based anti-trans hate group.

There’s tons more out there too.

And they’re founder is a radicalized zealot of a transphobe holy shit look her up.

Linking being trans to autism is a common fascist talking point. The reality is no more complicated than us autistic folks being far less comfortable about lying to ourselves about ourselves. We are trans because that's who we are, and we're unwilling to pretend to be cis, least of all for the shallow comfort of wretched transphobes.

Very much.

TERFs are right wing, just as bad in their own fucking flavors but Ableism is hard built in.

it's the ableism talking there. terfs and other flavours of bigot like to use us to show the trans community is brainwashing your kids because many of them have this idea of autistic people being helpless little babies but multiple studies show autistic folks are more resistant to the kind of brain washing the trans community gets accused of doing. we're more critical thinkers, requiring more evidence to maintain or let go of a belief (hence why many autistics are atheist, for example.)

if an autistic person is telling you're they're trans, they came to that conclusion on their own and insuating otherwise is ableist as fuck.

1. Im autistic 2. You have slur in your username, im not talking with you more

So another autistic person utterly owned you and you’re running because you can’t deal and Queer isn’t a slur to a huge amount of the community.

Trans links to Autism are terf/transphobe community fiction and not the least bit clinically correct.

Skill issue, deal with it, touch some grass, you are adult, please just stop, queer literally means abnormal, weird, people still use it in degregatory way, leave your delusional world peace 🥰🫶💗💋

Queer has been used in LGBT+ liberation in actual protests to the positive for fucking decades.

JFC.

It originated as slur, people started using queer more recently while still it was being used as slur

Transphobes like yourself cling to trying to divide the community.

Queer is a community blank tour for most of us.

Again you go off on Queer us our position vs you in this is proven by content.

You’re a whole bigot.

It’s the biggest most reliably noted thing about you.

By your own choice.

Girl, just stop 💀💀

Xoxo🥰🫶💗

Recommendation!!

Okay so I read this book and I recommend to do the same if you are radfem/gender critical/gender abolitionist. Basically it’s about Autism and gender identity. As autistic folk, while reading this book I felt that I’m not alone, I felt finally seen. It also focus on other disorders that autistics can have while still the main topic is gender identity and struggles to find yourself in gender obsessed society. I genuinely recommend to read it even autistic trans people as it can help with understanding yourself more. It’s sad to see other people having the same problem/s as you not so long ago. Wish you all better future and capability to understand yourself more

TransgenderTreand is a religious based anti-trans hate group.

There’s tons more out there too.

And they’re founder is a radicalized zealot of a transphobe holy shit look her up.

Linking being trans to autism is a common fascist talking point. The reality is no more complicated than us autistic folks being far less comfortable about lying to ourselves about ourselves. We are trans because that's who we are, and we're unwilling to pretend to be cis, least of all for the shallow comfort of wretched transphobes.

Very much.

TERFs are right wing, just as bad in their own fucking flavors but Ableism is hard built in.

Being anti porn, anti sw, anti capitalism, anti  patriarchy… yeah, very much right wing

LAWL holy shit you realize the largest listed legit radfem organization on Earth works with The Heritage Foundation, and the Alliance Defending Freedom, Focus on The Family, Family Research Council and worse.

Or that the internationally gathered “Stand for Women.” tour had 3 different fascist groups as speakers and security. Proud Boys, 3%ers, The Texas Guard... on videos, on camera. The ADF is now in the UK as well and partnered to TT and Fairplay and WPUK.

You’ve been on Tucker Carlson and Fox countless times.

You’re shit like.

I hope you do understand that people like me nothing to do with organisations like this. We are not a part of it. People like that have nothing to do with radical feminism as the only thing they are doing is hating on tra people and we are more than that.

You’re literally pandering to them and shilling for this side as your post and link.

It has everything to do with what anti-trans obsessives are doing to second wave.

You’re provably like that in your own blog content.

Have you ever fucking read your blog?

Just because I agree with one thing it doesn’t mean that I’m with them, use basic thinking skills 💀

Like fuck it doesn’t.

You’re literally simping for the right wing as your OP.

TT is UK right wing based you can actually google it.

Hell it’s in my first links even.

Just because I like a book it doesn’t mean I’m simping for organisation that made it, use some basic thinking skills

Yes, literally yes, that’s how this fucking works.

And again it goes with the rest of your transphobic douchery on your blog.

What the fuck about content can’t you understand.

Im done, touch some grass and leave your fantasy world, just an advice xoxo💋💗🥰

have this thing where I get older, but just never wiser

Midnights become my afternoons

When my depression works the graveyard shift, all of the people

I've ghosted stand there in the room

[Pre-Chorus]

I should not be left to my own devices

They come with prices and vices

I end up in crisis

(Tale as old as time)

I wake up screaming from dreaming

One day, I'll watch as you're leaving

'Cause you got tired of my scheming

(For the last time)

t's me, hi

I'm the problem, it's me

At teatime, everybody agrees

I'll stare directly at the sun, but never in the mirror

It must be exhausting always rooting for the anti-hero

[Verse 2]

Sometimes, I feel like everybody is a sexy baby

And I'm a monster on the hill

Too big to hang out, slowly lurching toward your favorite city

Pierced through the heart, but never killed

[Pre-Chorus]

Did you hear my covert narcissism I disguise as altruism

Like some kind of congressman?

(A tale as old as time)

I wake up screaming from dreaming

One day, I'll watch as you're leaving

And life will lose all its meaning

(For the last time)

[Chorus]

It's me, hi

I'm the problem, it's me (I'm the problem, it's me)

At teatime, everybody agrees

I'll stare directly at the sun, but never in the mirror

It must be exhausting always rooting for the anti-hero

I have this dream my daughter-in-law kills me for the money

She thinks I left them in the will

The family gathers 'round and reads it and then someone screams out

"She's laughing up at us from Hell"

[Breakdown]

It's me, hi

I'm the problem, it's me

It's me, hi

I'm the problem, it's me

It's me, hi

Everybody agrees, everybody agrees

[Chorus]

It's me, hi (Hi)

I'm the problem, it's me (I'm the problem, it's me)

At teatime (Teatime), everybody agrees (Everybody agrees)

I'll stare directly at the sun, but never in the mirror

It must be exhausting always rooting for the anti-hero

It’s fucking January you stunned fucker.

You’re trash and got caught dealing it and when pressed your blog matched the obsessed trans hatred of this Simp for bigots post.

Take some good Taylor Swift lyrics and stop complaining 🥰🫶💗💋