I don't think fans expect to get to pick Taylor's partner or have a say in her dating life but when somebody has put a lot of effort into saying I want to stand for something greater and use my cause for good and also wants to be considered an outspoken feminist and ally to liberal causes (which Taylor does) and then turns around and dates a man who jokes about jerking off to black women being brutally abused there's a conflict there 🤷🏼‍♀️ and I think it's fair for fans to say this isn't who I thought this person was I'm upset and disappointed. I also think people are becoming increasingly disillusioned as more and more bad bigoted shit Matty has done comes out and Taylor is still very publicly being associated with this man. There's simply NO way her team didn't see the buzzfeed article detailing every horrible thing he's done and an hour later Tree drops an article about Matty and Scott (presumably to help bury the buzzfeed article) to people and a few days later Taylor's on his arm. It's gross and fans are allowed to say it's fucking gross

if you are a lesbian who used to identify as bisexual...

if you are a bisexual woman who used to identify as a lesbian...

i am so proud of you, and even more happy for you that you have discovered something new about yourself.

there is no shame in going from one label to another if you find the new one reflects you better, and you are not betraying anyone for doing so. changing labels does not make you any less worthy of love.

you are not a stereotype. you are human, a human who is constantly evolving and always on the journey of self discovery. ignore anyone who says otherwise. you owe them nothing. your sexuality is your own.

this is a beautiful next step. i am endlessly proud of you for getting to this point, and i wish you all the luck and magic as you go on forward 💕💐

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I think this might be a masterpiece

you don’t need to race through life, checking off milestones as you go - no matter how much you think you’re “supposed to”. there is time for everything you want to do, and there is time to relax. you don’t have to finish everything as soon as you can. take your time. there will always be time. we are not here to check points off of a list!! we are here to smile at babies, and help someone cross the street, and to create art, and to eat dessert, to hug a friend, and to feel the warmth of the sun. you are more than what you achieve & you will be okay if these things take a while.

Everyone should watch OUAT btw... it builds character

i know this whole m/tty thing will soon be mostly forgotten by the fandom but i personally will be unable to forget, to me this is one of the sketchiest things she’s done and it makes me question if she meant anything she’s ever said about feminism & racism. and i hate that some of u were in my inbox last night asking me why i’m still here and reblogging edits when.. this is not an easy thing to feel, i HATE that my perception of her has changed. but i literally can’t sweep this under the rug and at least im not staying silent like some people are 🤷‍♀️

...actually now that i think about it. did you have religion class in school? also was it mandatory??

extra points reblog and tell me where youre from in the tags because for us religion* is a non-mandatory class where in high school you don't get grades but extra points that might help you in other classes**

*and with that i mean Christianity Class because wow i love being in the same region where the pope is /s ** which is the only reason i kept attending

yes and it was mandatory until we chose subjects for gcse then it wasn't mandatory but fir some reason i chose it anyway. it was a kind of religion, ethics and values class.

oh btw parasocial relationships are weird as hell and a bit creepy tbh but a fan/ex-fan criticizing taylor swift and being upset with her for dating ratty helium is not what a parasocial relationship is. <3 being disappointed in taylor swift and saying that you expected better. is not a parasocial relationship. not dating a bigoted guy who has targeted almost every marginalized community and hasn't apologized is 100% not too big of an ask for one of the biggest women in the music industry to do. you're allowed to be upset with her. you're allowed to stop liking her. you're allowed to be disappointed that she hasn't made any statement about matty. what you're not allowed to do is tell people (ESPECIALLY PEOPLE IN THE MARGINALIZED GROUPS THAT MATTY IS INCITING HATE AGAINST) how to feel.

I love you swifties who hate Matty Healy, I love you swifties who are disappointed in Taylor for dating a bigot, I love you swifties who don’t put Taylor on a pedestal and refuse to acknowledge her problematic choices, I love you swifties who recognise that liking Taylor’s music is not grounds for defending who she associates herself with, I love you marginalised swifties who are feeling particularly hurt by all of this, I love you ❤️

british people call boypussy blokehole btw

We need to go back to using sailing ships full time like immediately. Yes it would take longer to get places but the Aesthetic is unmatched

Like there is nothing sexier hthan this

Pay heed to Klaudia Amenábar's words! Don't let the executives weaponize fandoms. WGA Strong.

My guys it is starting to work, I've seen some people I know complaining about the writer's strike and turning against them because their favorite shows and/or movie got put on hold. Please do not be fooled like this, this is exactly what the corporations want. It can wait, I promise you will find other things to focus, but writers need this.

when people talk about cop propaganda and other people are like “no! the characters in my favorite cop show are diverse and sympathetic and not racist at all!” great observation that’s why it’s cop propaganda