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Call Me Sketchie :3

@deadthinggofollowmynewblog-blog

I'm just an awkward person that posts random doodles on Tumblr

HEY. I’m gonna be deleting this tumblr along with my other one. Don’t ask. Technical difficulties. I shall be back.

Bro I'm going to funeral tomorrow with a bunch of extended family members who I haven't come out to... and I'm wearing a suit...

huh, sounds like that will be fun....

I'll keep ya updated on how many times I'll get deadnamed. Also side note: They're introducing me as Chris when I make my speech and read my bible verse... to over 100 people...

Also all my family members are hardcore christians sooooo

oof, that’s gonna be hard! if you need someone to talk to after that, and especially after how many times you get deadnamed, you can talk to me if ya want.

i hope, though, that in the end, everything will end up okay for you

Bro yeah I'll message you, thank you! I'm hoping I can get out of there if it becomes too much, but the current plan is to correct them with "Hey actually my name is Chris now" because who's gonna start a fight at a funeral?

I’m here for you my guuuuyyyy!

telling ppl attracted to men that there are no good men out there or that men can’t love only normalizes poor treatment from men & doesn’t do anything helpful

#the idea that all men are naturally garbage is super unhelpful#because it absolves awful men of the responsibility to be better
  • #it also discourages men who do want to improve their behaviour but don’t know how
  • #by convincing them that they’ll be reviled no matter what they do
  • #learning how to change involves leaving confort zones
  • #and making yourself vulnerable by approaching other people’s spaces for advice

Also also it perpetuates internalized hatred and low self-esteem in men who are genuinely good and it leads to poor mental health and the sense that as a result of being the gender they are they are automatically to be reviled.

It can also make trans men feel bad or guilty about being men.

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It can make people who are attracted to men feel guilt and shame about their sexuality

It also normalizes TERF rhetoric because they know they can get people on board if they just say “men” instead of “trans women”

Also. Yknow. It’s just false and sexist and you shouldn’t do it in general, cause if you do, you’re a sexist asshole. None of the eother factors should have to be explained to you for you to understand that you can’t be discriminatory towards a whole group of people for how they’re born.

emotional self-harm exists and is fucking horrible

going back to an ex you KNOW will hurt you? consuming media you KNOW that triggers you? isolating yourself when you KNOW you need help? that’s a form of self-harm and needs to be acknowledged first to get help.

to be clear; this isn’t a callout. this is recognizing that emotional self-harm is a form of harm.

take this as a gentle reminder that your pain is real, that you are heard, and, most of all, to reach out for help.

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Can I just add? Specifically denying yourself fun or pleasure?

Yeah that too

heres a TOTALLY BLANK image!! there is DEFINITELY NO REASON for u to click it!!!!!!!!! NOT AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!

@sunshinyfrog-43 thank you girl you're amazing!

@cri080799 click!

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Bud is this your way as finally coming out as a furry?

SHHHHHHHH-

Maybe…you may not know ;)

Dope. Knew that was a fursuit in your backpack that one time.

UQHDGEJEJ-

I DON’T HAVE A FURSUIT IN MY BACKPACK

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAAHAAHHHAHASHHAHAHAHHAHA

IT’S JUST SCHOOL JUNK IN THERE-

Sure *pats* it’s ok

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Bud is this your way as finally coming out as a furry?

SHHHHHHHH-

Maybe…you may not know ;)

Dope. Knew that was a fursuit in your backpack that one time.

UQHDGEJEJ-

I DON’T HAVE A FURSUIT IN MY BACKPACK

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAAHAAHHHAHASHHAHAHAHHAHA

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I despise having lucid dreams when I’m in the throes of hyperfixation. I just fell asleep and had a dream where I was talking to Beelzebub in a really casual way and I asked “oh so was Crowley the first demon to defy Hell and go native?” and Beez said “No, someone else did before him, here he is now” and it was Gordon fucking Ramsay