I was trying to explain to my sister-in-law that I simply cannot turn on my car headlights if anyone is looking at me and she thought I was crazy.
Literally nothing more embarrassing than tying your shoes in public like oh look at me I'm a 5 year old because I couldn't tie my shoes tight enough to last a walk through the kroger
are y’all okay
In a scale from Taron Egerton looking at Hugh Jackman
to Ezra Miller being touched by Colling Farrell
how good are you to hide your obviously gay desires?
Horrible! I’m a Dylan O’Brien at best
I’m more of a Tom Daley shooting “pls rerrange my colon” sniper glances
I’m more like Zachary Quinto practice rimming Chris Pine
I’m no better than Chris Evans not even trying anymore.
THERE’S MORE 😂😂
On point & hot!
I feel sorry for the old man, but it was stealing. There is no apparently about it. Water is not free, it’s not a right to have it, and people pay must pay for it. If a government gives a thing to you like utilities, its still not free because they take it from somewhere else, like in taxes.
my friend visiting my house: hey i’m thirsty can i get a glass of water
me:
Nestle isn’t gonna fuck you
Also water IS a human right, it’s classified as one by the UN the only country that really disagrees with this is the United States
still amazed at how someone read “i let my neighbor use some of our water” and they said “that is theft actually”….. i pray y’all don’t reproduce
i wish all trans girls a very kissed on the face by someone they love
i wish all trans boys a very kissed on the face by someone they love
i wish all nonbinary people a very kissed on the face by someone they love
how the hades did it become a connection between gay kids and Greek mythology?? LIKE WHY DO EVERY KID EVER THAT HAD OR STILL HAVE A GREEK MYTHOLOGY PHASE ALSO BECOME LGBTQ?? HOW COME WE ALL COLLECTIVELY DECIDED TO BECOME OBSESSED WITH GREEK MYTHOLOGY??
real people being partially closeted or ambiguous about their own sexuality while making Gay Art is not queerbaiting
Real people figuring out they’re queer through the process of making gay art is not queerbaiting either
The Grad Student Shuffle- Christ Fleming
it just occurred to me that perfectionists are often procrastinators, as they tend to think “i don’t have the right skills or resources to do this perfectly now, so i won’t do it at all.”
train yourself out of the mindset of “i can’t be homophobic, i’m gay” and accept the fact that you were brought up in a heteronormative and homophobic society and take the time to consider how your words impact other people. also sit and analyze your own unconscious bias. why am i making fun of this person for public gender nonconformity? am i comfortable enough in my own skin to ever put my queerness on display like that? am i jealous of this person for being more confident in their identity than i am? or am i simply making fun of them because they’re different from me?
my biggest pet peeve wiht the english language is that you don’t have sin/sina
in swedish if u have two people who use the same pronoun u can always tell whos doing what bc its like ‘han tog sin väska’ (he took his[own] bag) and ‘han tog hans väska’ would be that he took the other persons bag
but in english its like if u have 2 ppl w/ the same pronoun:
“she took her bag” whose bag????WHose BAG was it her OWN bag or the other her’s bag??????????????
“he ate his donuts” were the donuts his own???? did he fucking eat someone elses donuts??? YIU DONT KNOW bc english is a bullshit language
its funny that people are calling this the gay fanfiction dilemma bc thats literally why i made this post. i was writing a gay fanfic.
what they don't understand is that being gay in a homophobic world is, in and of itself, a traumatic experience. no matter how accepting your family is or how progressive your friends/city/country are. we still live in a world that constantly reminds us that we are other. that we are perverse, abnormal, shameful. that we can only ever be tolerated and never normalised. so when they tell us that the time for pride parades is passed, that homophobia was eradicated with marriage equality, that there is no reason for us to be so vocal about our gayness, they simply do not understand. you should be happy, you have the same rights as us. why are you complaining? things are so much worse in other countries. stop making being gay your entire personality, you're the reason people can't relate to you. what you don't get is that i didn't choose to make being gay the most prominent part of my identity, you did. you did, when you only put gay characters on screen so they could suffer and have stories centered around coming out. you did, when you made gay an insult, when you told me i was going to hell, when you prayed for me. you did, when you made lesbians acceptable only in porn meant to be watched by men. you did, when you were so afraid of saying the word gay you asked me if i was... you know... . you did, when you told my little sister's friend she was too young to know she was gay, or to even consider the possibility, because you automatically assumed being gay meant having sex. you did, when you made every romance available in movies, books, and reality media between a cis man and a cis woman. you did that, and you made my relationship to the world the warped, one-sided affair that it is.
i did not choose for my gayness to influence every aspect of my life, but it does. even if you "accept it". even if everyone around me is gay-friendly. that doesn't change the messages i'm constantly being fed by the rest of the world. that doesn't change my otherness.
so no, i will not stop speaking up. not until you stop trying to silence me.
The great Herondale flower card post. Courtesy of the wonderfully talented Cassandra Jean.
Sorry for leaving out the ladies!! I’ll post them separately
