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Dancing in LA

@dancinginlosangeles

Stripper. Escort. Sugar baby. Tampa.
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Share my madness, and I will share yours.

Jean-Paul Sartre, from ‘The Condemned of Altona’, tr. Sylvia & George Leeson

I seriously dislike that we as girls have been conditioned to seek relationships, and feel so fucking bad when things don’t work out. I wish we could adopt the boy’s approach of just living in the moment more often. I don’t think it’s anyone’s fault if someone thinks this way, like we were practically raised on romance and true love and shit like that. But the older you grow, and the more disappointed you are by people, the more psychic damage this thinking inflicts

I made over 30k in the last 9 days thanks to a whale I found earlier this month.

There’s no tactic for turning a trick into a whale. A client either has that kind of money to spend or he doesn’t. That being said, the more clients you take, the more you will increase your odds of finding a whale. Overall though, it’s about being at the right place at the right time.

I was on a 5 day tour which would have barely made me 6k, there was 4 cancellations. Even with deposits, it was turning out to be a pretty crappy tour.

Thankfully, in the last few days this guy came and dropped $24k in cash on me. Don’t get me wrong, it was work. He’s rich af and is not used to hearing the word no. He’s surrounded by yes men, yes women, and yes family.

I doubt anyone will read this far, but if you do, i want to just vent. He tipped the bar staff 5k over the days I was with him. He told me he recently had given a bartender 13k because he had a good day. His last sugar baby he’s still paying a monthly allowance of 20k even though he hasn’t seen her in 7 months.

Although I am grateful for the money I made, it was hard to watch how much money this guy just gives away to people for nothing. I watched him hand 5k to some girl…just because. Like it was nothing. And for me, over the course of 3 days I hung out with him for about 15 hours and made $24k. I can’t lie, I was jealous of the girls he was handing thousands of dollars to for just existing.

Of that time, I spent probably 3 hours “working” so it’s still more than twice my hourly, and like I said, I am very grateful. All of this really just to say, rich people don’t make sense. There is no rhyme or reason to what they do or how they spend their money. Don’t try to turn a trick into a whale, if they don’t have the money they don’t have it. But definitely turn your whales into a trick.

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“When you are washing the dishes, washing the dishes must be the most important thing in your life. Just as when you are drinking tea, drinking tea must be the most important thing in your life. Drink your tea slowly and reverently, as if it is the axis on which the whole world revolves—slowly, evenly, without rushing toward the future. Live the actual moment. Only this actual moment is life.”

— Thich Nhat Hanh  (via aspiritualwarrior)