I don't have a problem with feminine male characters, I enjoy quite a few, but I absolutely fucking despise people in Fandom who make masculine/serious/dangerous characters into soft, sweet, and dumb little boys who like pastel and let you put makeup on them and wear skirts.
Again Im not against such characters existing. I just wish people would stop doing it to characters that very much aren't like that.
Alright he is not your prince charming
He is my rugged old man in a fishing shack in the middle of nowhere with a cellar full of various homemade wine and moonshine and a little "play" corner for the two of us
He's not gonna hug you sweetly while you making dinner and call you "baby girl". He's not gonna comfort you for spilling the salt. He's not gonna carresss your face that has tiny cringy tears in your eyes and call you a "good girl"
He's gonna walk in, slap my ass and call me a whore. And I'm gonna move my dinner preparations out of the way because I know he's gonna lift my body over the counter and fuck me from behind without a care as to how I feel. Then I'm gonna make his dinner with his seed dripping from me and take a quick shower before it's done because I better not dare sit for dinner dirty or dare serve him late.
Say what you want but I like him because of his character and do not need people trying to "fix" him or make him more "palatable"
The appeal is there and just because it doesn't appeal to you and your teenage rotted brain of what men are "meant" to be like doesn't mean it's wrong.
There are characters like what you want them to be. Stop trying to change, or "purify" the ones that aren't for the love of fuck.