Hard pill to swallow: not everyone is replaceable and it’s okay to miss or yearn for a type of relationship you had that you haven’t been able to find a substitute for. Different relationships trigger different parts of yourself and wanting those parts to be stimulated again, excited even, isn’t a crime or a symptom of unhealthy attachments. Considering there are few people on this Earth that we genuinely connect with on visceral levels, treating them post-relationship as if their impact on you was worthless and not one of a kind will only disappoint you. It doesn’t allow you to savor or treasure the connection in ways we probably should, nor does it promote healthy attachment or detachment going forward.

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I miss you, 2019

Cheers Angels!

Niggas like the idea of having you, but lack the maturity to handle you with care.

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Discussion Post: “When you are not fed love on a silver spoon you learn to lick it off knives." And it made me think how most women, black women in particular, are taught to expect the kind of love you lick off a knife. A love that's always associated with struggle.

Do you resonate with this? If so, how?

source: @annhkay on twitter.

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