the Drake tag is full of pornbots now because that’s what happens when people in the tag start using the phrases “sex abuse,” “grooming,” and “underage.” those are apparently mainstream enough porn categories for bots to register them as keywords :))))))) just a reminder that this is a hell culture and we need to dismantle it
where are my fellow hysterical women who would have either been a) an oracle in ancient greece or b) burned at the stake in medieval times…..make some noise ladies
i am so Tired of ”””progressive””” men in liberal academic circles ‘embracing’ gender non conformity through the medium of flower crown filters, nail polish and blue eyeliner while being very much gender conforming when it comes to keeping the faculty kitchen clean, taking a turn organising birthday/retirement/congratulation cards and cakes for colleagues, respectfully listening to women in seminars, refusing to participate in all-male panels/workshops, and all the other ways they could refuse to conform to masculinity that are less pleasant than posting a pastel selfie and getting validation for being So Gosh Darn Woke
contrary to popular belief, self-satisfaction is not actually the key to liberation and your personal ‘empowerment’ under a repressive system is absolutely useless without an altruistic and collectivistic motive
beardedrebutterofafkar
Wait… masturbation should be a group endeavor?
I always thought it was a solo act.
your life is forfeit.
contrary to popular belief, self-satisfaction is not actually the key to liberation and your personal ‘empowerment’ under a repressive system is absolutely useless without an altruistic and collectivistic motive
Anonymous asked:
I had a similar situation with a guy I used to talk to, he wanted to have sex(I’m gay btw) and would constantly bring it up and say shit like ‘how do you know you don’t like it if you don’t try it?’ And just 😤🙄🙄 don’t listen to assholes like that don’t let them make you feel like you have to do anything, it’s Your choice
^^^^^^^^ your boundaries come before anyone else’s gratification!
Anonymous asked:
What’s your opinion on using slut in a positive (idk if that’s the right word) way like “yes be a slut get that booty” or something in that way of speaking
i think that it’s not generally a super big deal bc reclamation or whatever, but it does bring up some unconscious associations between women (who i’m assuming is most likely to be saying something like that or having it said to her) attempting to pursue sexual satisfaction and filing them under that category. like regardless of whether the person individually finds that word empowering it’s still been used to marginalize and justify violence against women (esp woc and trans women bc they’re automatically ascribed that label by virtue of their race or transness) and shouldn’t be applied to anyone unless they’re personally 100% okay with it
Anonymous asked:
You're just a man trying to tell women what to think. Nice try, sir, you're just as abusive and evil as other guys.
oh shit you found me out!!!!!!!
Anonymous asked:
I'm a bisexual in a straight relationship and I love him, like, a lot, but I feel scared about sex. I'm up to trying a lot of things, and we're into a lot of the same things, but I feel a lot of pressure regarding his desire for anal. I've had girlfriends who preferred anal but were okay with my discomfort for it. He doesn't try to force it or anything, but it's brought into conversation (jokes, comments, etc) a lot. I'm tired of sounding like a spoilsport but I mentally cannot do that.
You are under no obligation to alter, adjust, or otherwise change any of your sexual boundaries and if he can’t understand that or doesn’t respect it then kick his ass to the curb. You deserve to feel safe and respected sexually and in all other ways.
if i found out that any of my friends liked calling women sluts or slaves or pigs or some shit in the bedroom i'd drop them so fast they’d hit terminal velocity in less than a second
u ever think about how most porn and kink shit wouldn’t exist if men experienced like…basic empathy and compassion towards women
spawnofsay10
Look up “femdom” and get back to me
u ever think about how most femdom fetishes arise out of a desire to belittle and sexualize women’s anger in order to dismiss it more easily and most of its iterations wouldn’t exist if men experienced like...basic empathy and compassion towards women
given the facts that 81% of 10 yr-old girls are afraid of becoming fat and young girls report being more afraid of becoming fat than of getting cancer or experiencing nuclear war, i think we can abandon the idea that public anti-obesity campaigns are actually about promoting health
“vaccines contain blood of unborn children, calf’s boil, eye of sheep, pig’s brain”
anti-vax parents talk about vaccines like they’re witches brews jfc
navyasarchive-deactivated201905
Always suppressing your anger just to achieve a performative level of “niceness”, merely so that other people think you’re palatable and likable, is incredibly unhealthy for women. Men can get away with being violent and aggressive in everything they do but women have to maintain an appearance of being balanced and sweet so that they don’t threaten anyone, especially men. This is one of the many ways women are taught to drain themselves. I prefer being hated by manipulative and judgmental people to forcing myself to be something I’m not just for validation.
I’m pretty sure girls friend-zone us dudes so they can test us, have us prove we are worthy & if we pass… have someone to fall back on once they’re done “having fun”
actually they do it because they don’t want to date you and want you to leave them alone
u ever think about how most porn and kink shit wouldn’t exist if men experienced like...basic empathy and compassion towards women
so i know there’s a stereotype around lesbians living alone with their cat and hundreds of houseplants and while i live with 3 amazing women and don’t have my cat with me i did add another 4 plants to my collection yesterday
Anonymous asked:
Did you recently change your username? If so, what was it before? I'm always confused when that happens haha
No i’ve always been at this url. I have a brand to protect.
Anonymous asked:
what’s your thoughts on men who like to be dominated by women and women who enjoy abusing them sexually? I feel like it still fetishizes the woman
Oh it absolutely does. Men still use that dynamic to exploit women bc then women’s assertiveness outside of the bedroom becomes something to sexualize. Eroticizing anger, frustration, disapproval, and annoyance is just a way of dismissing those things. Men who like to be dominated also have similar issues with respecting boundaries except they feel good about it bc they’re on the ‘receiving end.’
But it’s also worth noting that anyone who fantasizes about sexually abusing anyone is like. a walking red flag in my book.