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Land Of Cats And Fandoms

@dabsplosion

Facebook, Google, and Elon have given your data to everyone you don't want to have all your data.

Trump, Paul Manafort, and Jared Kushner gave all your voting data to Russia in 2016. Cambridge Analytica mined all your social media data in 2016.

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Reblogged emil

Okay Walter White was actually pretty funny as a character bc he was so toxic that seasoned drug lords were like I cannot work w this man I have to put my mental health first

I think that in real life…. Relationships r like . Your partner WILL β€˜trauma dump’ on you. You will have to perform β€˜emotional labor’ for your partner. Your partner will make mistakes. You will also do all of these things. The very nature of love is irrational and problematic and difficult …. To expect a relationship to be free of these things is strange to me…. The point is that your relationship to that person is ultimately worth it, and worth growing with them, helping each other, seeing the worst parts of another person and being able to love them anyway

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autumnthejokerat

SO THAT’S HOW THEY FUCKING DO IT

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verysorrytobother

Reblogging this because my entire life, all of my bows have looked like my shoelaces. Wrapping presents is going to be so much more aesthetically pleasing now

Reblogging to make your dysphoria hoodie A FUCKING TRANS VIBE.

I backed a video game Kickstarter whose organisers can't figure out how their bulk mailing service works and keep accidentally issuing every backer the same Steam key, so whoever redeems it first is the only one who gets to play. They've done this three times and counting.

β€œwell if sexuality isn’t defined by attraction to biological sex then what is it???????”

vibes. this is not a joke. it’s literally vibes.

when you look at someone and find them attractive, you don’t know what genitals they have or what gender they are. you might assume, but you don’t know. you are going off aesthetics and vibes.

another reason it’s all about the vibes is because it’s very common for queer men to mostly be attracted to other queer men, and queer women to be attracted to other queer women, and just queer people in general seeking each other out, based on the aesthetic and cultural tells we’ve curated over decades (centuries even.) we’ve gotten really good at finding each other.

though honestly, and this may be a hot take, i don’t think sexuality is about initial attraction. i don’t think it’s about who you look at on the street and think is hot. otherwise any lesbian who saw a femme twink on the street and accidentally thought he was hot and vise versa would probably be bullied by the internet into identifying as bi.

i think it’s about what kind of person you see yourself with and what kind of dynamic you want to have with that person. are you a femme who absolutely loves the idea of settling down with a nice butch? are you a trans guy who sees yourself connecting mostly with other trans guys? are you a gay guy who loves bears? what do you like to do in your free time and what other demographics tend to be into that? clubbing? roller derby? dnd? what kind of sex do you most enjoy having? do you prefer not to have sex? do you prefer sex without the expectation of romantic attraction?

what kind of life do you want and what kind of person do you want that life with? that’s what it’s about, not what someone has in their pants.

These posts are how I know none of y'all have sex

bro what the fuck are u on about

"it's really not terfy to obsess over and assume the nature of trans peoples' genitalia and base your entire interaction with them through foundations of whether or not you think you'd want to have sex with us" is probably the most definitely normal opinion to have when you're 100% capable of being trusted to not be weird about trans people.

like. do y'all obsess over the physical sex characteristics of people you assume are cis this much? do y'all look at any given person on the street you presume to know the gender of and think "Oh but they might have a sex organ in disguise that I don't like"? no we're obviously not saying people have to be attracted to types of genitalia they're not into, the issue is that you are framing your relationships with trans people under the presumption of their genitals and how it relates to whether or not you wanna bang, as if that's the most important possible thing to know about someone.

literally like who tf is out here holding a gun to ppl’s heads and saying β€œEAT THE PUSSY OR I SHOOT U IN THE HESD MOTHERFUCKER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!”

ironically the answer to this is also TERFs. it turns out when you create a political ideology rooted in terror of an organ roughly 50% of the world has and assign it moral values, liking cock is literally something considered to be ashamed of (and you can see it in how they literally feel like they need to publicly apologize for the shameful behavior of still being attracted to men) versus the pure innocent victim-love of pussy, which has never done anything wrong in its life, ever. like they get so mad when you tell them "Hey your entire online life is dedicated to thinking nonstop about my genitals and you might want to examine how weird that is" and tell you that no, YOU'RE the sex-obsessed pornsick pervert freak for PROJECTING onto MEEEE like okay sweetheart if thinking about that stresses you out so much just go back to reblogging harry potter dramione posts i guess

mmmm you know how in the franking stein novel victor dies so thee monster just kills himself. except. thee monster literally had all of vicky’s notes and shit. theoretically, he knew what theΒ β€˜β€™β€™cure’’’ to death was. wouldn’t it have been so so so sexy conceptually if after victor finally experienced the sweet escape of death, hoping it’ll bring him back to his loved ones, only for thee monster to bring him right back?

Mr Guillermo Del Toro hear my plea