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My best friend of over 10 years told me I taught he that true love doesn’t keep score.. I am absolutely in tears.

As someone who has been shown love conditionally, this is something that I’ve hoped to display in my relationships, unconditional love.

My friends and lovers are free to be entitled around me. Entitled to a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, $100 to make ends meet if I have it, anything! We love each other, we fight for each other , encourage each other, and call each other on our shit!

The wealth in my community has not yet materialized, but we are eating the fruits of our labors of love for one another, and I don’t believe there will ever be any more ripe than these.

I am eternally grateful, and overflowing with love for my people. God has overblessed me in many ways, and I can’t tell Him thank you enough!

Our recent theme and realization has been that we haven’t been putting the pedal to the medal lmao, we finna turn upppppp. Bye! 🤸🏿‍♀️

your relationship doesn’t have to be toxic to be a bad one. it can be unfulfilling, exhausting, loveless. and someone doesn’t have to be terrible to you for you to leave them. if you aren’t primarily happy in your relationship, you have a valid reason to not be in it. don’t beat yourself up because your situation “could be worse.” if it isn’t what you want, you don’t have to stay in it.

This is great advice for all kinds of relationships.

Mf make you cum 4x over 2 years & think y’all share the same feelings...

Please fuck off & shut the fuck up. I’m frustrated. I love sex but you wouldn’t know that bc you never considered me or my body while fucking me 🥰

Dedicated

To me

To my downfall

To my hurt

To my failure.

But fuck all of y’all, remember thank i am His favorite.

“You cannot live when you are untouchable. Life is vulnerability.”

Édouard Boubat, Édouard Boubat: A Gentle Eye (via wordsnquotes)

Started praying, and started listening, which made me vulnerable, now I cry for everything, I had no clue I’d ever be this sensitive, but I love it! I’m seeing my own true colors and I love them.

I feel hurt more now, which sucks, but I love the woman that I am now!

“To the one who loves her next, She’s terrified of spiders. So when you’re out late with friends and she texts you freaking out because there’s one on her window, please go kill it. She won’t sleep otherwise. She is a total textbook introvert. She won’t reply for hours and sometimes you won’t see her for a week. You will take this personally. Don’t. She’s simply taking care of herself and she’ll tell you how much she missed you while she was away. She’ll get very jealous. My god, she gets so jealous. Those brown eyes will turn a deep green. She hates that about herself, and she doesn’t mean to do it. Remember, she loves you. Reassure her that you love her too. On that topic, she needs constant reassurance. Tell her you love her and mean it. If you can’t do that, leave. She deserves more than that. There will be nights when she goes out and drinks a little too much. She’ll call you to bring her home. When you do, she’ll try to keep you up all night by tickling you and repeating “I love you and I’m sorry I’m annoying.” She’s not annoying. But make sure she has plenty of water and don’t let her pass out until she drinks it, or she will be miserable in the morning. She is the most independent woman I know. But she’s so insecure, it still breaks my heart. So when she starts an argument with “you don’t love me.” Do not get upset. Remind her you do and the reasons why. She’ll come around. The cat comes first. Always. Don’t ever think otherwise. Make her tea and remember the way she takes her coffee. She will notice. When she’s having an anxiety attack, wrap her up in your arms and rub her back. Tell her she’s safe and remind her that she has medication if she needs it. If you cannot treat her like royalty, let someone else. That girl deserves the world. Losing her is a pain you will never shake. Your world will come crashing down on you and those pieces won’t ever fit the way they used to. Don’t let her go. She will love you with all she’s got. Please give her the same. I am begging you to not hurt her. She is golden. Don’t let that shine die out. Give her your all and she’ll return the favor. You will never have to ask the universe for anything ever again.”

— Sincerely, a name you’ll hear in passing. (via girlchoking)