We don’t view ourselves as “gay” or “bi” or any other label that society tells us that we have to use but when we are with each other we are “happy” and “motivated” and so many other words that make me want to be a better person because you deserve the best. So yes society makes us label ourselves but I know you feel the same way I do.. We aren’t the stereotypical same sex relationship that a lot of people want to think we are, there is nothing stereotypical about this love. But you know what we actually are?
We are happy. And at the end of the day isn’t that what parents should truly want for their kids.
We live in a society that constantly knocks us down. Constantly compares us with everyone else and tells us we aren’t doing good enough because we are shown how good we could be doing. We live in a time that teenagers have to take medicine for anti-depressants and anti-anxiety because of these pressures that are all around us.
The way I view it, parents should want to push their kids to pursue their heart and happiness. Yes obviously it can’t all be rainbows and butterflies but when it comes to matters that we do have more control over… Shouldn’t we choose happiness over pleasing everyone else around us? At the end of the day, who you do have to answer to? You and God. And only God can judge us.
I do not believe in a God that would make me this incredibly happy just to take it away cause it was a test in my faith. I don’t believe in a God that would play with my heart in that way. I believe in a God that loves, that forgives, that understands. Understands that we are an evolving civilization, that understands that we can’t take every word literally from the Bible but instead take the Word and apply it to our lives today. Not thousands of years ago. And maybe that doesn’t put me in any specific denomination but isn’t that the same issue, having to fall into a specific mold again? The relationship I have with God is between me and Him, how I choose to show Him my faith is my business and no one else.
This isn’t about parents approving or even accepting, this is about them opening their hearts and wanting their daughters happiness
