Long Distance Caregiving/Regression

This is for my caregivers/regressors that have a long distance caregiver/regressor and may find it difficult to regress or care give!

that was a mouth full =-=;

Things that may help your regression/caregiving

note: none if this is guaranteed to help, but based off of my own long distance regression/caregiving

🌱 Roleplaying

Roleplaying is a good way to act out the things you can't do together due to distance! You don't need experience to roleplay;

ex: " they picked up their little one and gave them a big hug "

ex²: " they giggled and nuzzled their cheek into their cgs arms "

You can also create your own character, make yourself smaller/bigger to fit your age!

🌱 Calls/Facetime

This one may be obvious, but calling or facetiming can usually make you feel closer to the other! A few things you can do on call:

Read your regressor a book/bedtime story!

Tell your CG all about your stuffed animals (names, birthdays, personality), and perhaps show them off too!

Eat a meal/snack together!

Watch a show/movie together!

Color/Draw together!

Make matching bracelets/jewelry!

🌱 Play Games

Play multiplayer video games together! Perhaps on a call too. Non-video games you can play on call:

Charades -

"Use your imagination and choose a person, place, or thing. Let loose a little, act it out without saying any words, and see if your partner can guess what you're acting out!"

Pictionary -

"Choose a person, place, or thing. Grab a piece of paper and something to write with. Then try to draw it without saying a word, and see if your partner can guess what you're drawing!"

Rainbow Race -

"Agree on a color, the first person to find an object of that color gets a point! Whoever reaches seven points first wins."

Source

🌱 Drawing/Coloring

I know I already stated this, but I have a website you can use to draw/color with your regressor/cg for free!

Website: 🌱

Drawing Ideas:

The two of you together/self portraits!

Favorite animals!

Practice your shapes/letters!

Practice your name!

I hope this helps/gives you ideas! I was half asleep making this and a few things may be added/edited TT

I've also been trying to make more original content! So their may be more big/small posts like this in the future~♡

I guess I have to add this but CHILD SAFE INTERACTIONS means no N$FW AT ALL, No N$FW Fanfics, Suggestive GIFS/PICS, and DO NOT interact with me if you allow N$FW interactions!! This post is STRICTLY for sfw non-kink caregivers and STRICTLY for regressors! SFW INTERACTIONS ONLY!!

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I wuv diissssss

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≡;- ꒰ ° caregiver appreciation ! ˎˊ˗

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i don't see very many posts for (sfw) caregivers so i wanted to make one! :3

this post is for non-kink caregivers, DNI if you're K1nk, N$FW, DDŁG or any of its varients.

note: i will be using "kiddo" or "babey (time)" rather than "littl3" and "l1ttlespace"

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you're appreciated!

your attempts to keep your kiddo happy during their babey time are always seen! it may be tiring sometimes but im sure they can't thank you enough for being there during their regression!

a few reassuring things

it's okay to be soft! it's okay to give in when your little one asks for another treat, or find it difficult to set rules
you don't need to be taller or shorter to better fit the role of a cg! you're perfect the way you are (this includes feeling the need to be more masculine/feminine too!)
regressing with your kiddo is totally valid! or just joining them as they play with stuffies, color, eat babey snacks, etc. just make sure you talk with your regressor and ask when it's okay, sometimes they may need a parent/guardian-like figure in times of need.

a few caregiving tips

if your kiddo doesn't have an an answer for how old they're regressing to look for signs in the ways they act and what they're interested in! a few good posts for age range mannerisms can be found here and here.
lots and lots of reassurance, especially for any trans and/or disabled kiddos; same goes for you too regressors! make sure you reassure your cg and show your appreciation! a really helpful and reassuring post about this can be found here.
research! if your kiddo happens to be a pet regressor as well, or doesn't understand their mood/personality (wonders why they can't feel a certain way while regressing, why they can't stop, etc), research is the best way to go and it's always great knowing someone cares enough to want the best for you, and does research! as for pet regression research learn about the animals they're regressing to, every little fact helps! always remember to get professional help if you find anything concerning/alarming whether big or small.
listening. listening is very important in any situation or mind set, but specifically now that your kiddo is in a babey space it's very important to listen to what they talk about/babble. even if it may not make much sense to you, always try your best to engage in their interests and conversations even if it's just "oh really kiddo? that's insane!", even small comments like that make us feel heard.
and lastly BOUNDRIES. always talk to your regressor about their boundaries and respect them no matter what, always ask your kiddo before trying something new with them such as a punishment, coping mechanism, reassurance mechanism, etc. always tell your regressor about any trigger warnings when trying new shows, books, games, even if they seem small. this will again make your kiddo feel comfortable and heard with you, maybe even gain more of your trust. same goes for regressors! kiddos should always respect your boundries and make you as comfortable as possible, caregivers deserve these things too!!

wrapping things up/summary

caregivers of all race, size, gender, ethnicity, age, etc, deserve to be appreciated! and you deserve to be respected and have boundaries too! remember that you are someones comfort and safe person during their time of regression and that makes you just as special as any other cg or regressor. you are loved and appreciated caregivers!

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when u scratch a cat’s chin and they lift their head up reblog if u agree

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when u scratch a cat’s cheek and they lean their head into ur hand reblog if u agree

when u put your hand in front of your cat’s face and they gently headbut u reblog if u agree

when ur cat runs just a lil bit faster to get to u reblog if u agree

cats reblog if u agree

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This gets stuck in my head every time I regress and it’s starting to get old ｡ﾟ(ﾟ´Д｀ﾟ)ﾟ｡

OHMYGOSH I AM IN LOVE WITH THIS!!!!!!!!

!!!!

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hi littles and daddys/mommys:

Reblog if your a…

little girl / boy / other

daddy

mommy

kitten

babygirl

sir

little blog

lolita

AB/DL

TB/DL

proud slut

i need more cute blogs to follow

cutelxnamoon

a little girl, a kitten and a babygirl uwu

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Okay, I'm fucking pissed and y'all are gonna listen to me.

First of all, if you’re against cg/l relationships in anyway then you can go ahead and stop reading. I don’t want to hear it.

Now, I really liked the Little community, okay? I thought we were all a big, supportive family with our stuffies and our bubble baths and our mac and cheese. But no. Obviously that’s not what it is.

I’ve been seeing a whole bunch of hate in this community, specifically towards underage littles. That doesn’t make any goddamn sense. You’re all littles, you’re all the same. It doesn’t matter whose parents had sex first. You’re all human, for god’s sake. Let them be little.

“But Dd/lg is a kink and underage teens shouldn’t be involved in sex-related communities!”

No. It is not.

Regressing into your Little Space doesn’t have to be sexual, and actually, most of the time, it isn’t. Lots of people use their Little Space to take a break from the stress of adulthood. Little Space is just coming home from a rough day at work, taking a strawberry-scented bubble bath, playing with stuffed animals, watching Disney past your bedtime with your Daddy/Mommy/Caregiver, and then snuggling up for the night with a bedtime story. It isn’t always some kind of “Choke me, Daddy!” bullshit. Let them be little.

“But underage Littles might become potential targets of older predators! We’re just pushing them away for their own good!!1!”

You’re pushing them away from what might be their only source of safety and comfort.

You’re pushing them away from their community and making them feel unwelcome.

You’re not making them safe at all. You’re putting them in danger. You’re destroying their mental health, and making them feel like the entire cg/l community hates them.

Leave them alone. Let them be little.

You can be little. You can be sexual in your Little Space if you want. You can be a boy, a girl, nonbinary, any race, any sexuality, any age. You’re still a little.

But if you chase away and insult Littles because of their AGE, you better be DAMN sure that I will defend them.

Let them be little.

Bless this post.

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Preach

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