If your absence doesn't affect them, your presence never mattered.
lowkey wanna disappear for a little
Lowkey wish it was permanent
20 pieces of advice for my newly married brother
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1. Call her using beautiful names
2. Treat her kindly
3. Set high standards from the start:
- display good manners
- good hygiene
- don't be on your phone 24/7
- continue to offer congregational prayers in the masjid (especially Fajr - as you may stay awake throughout the night)
- set a suitable timetable for mealtimes
- occasional reminders/duroos
4. Buy her gifts occasionally (it doesn't have to be expensive - it's the thought that counts, even if it's something as trivial as a lollipop). Good Islamic books should be a priority in terms of gifts.
5. Don't rush into intercourse. Take it nice and easy. Let things happen naturally. Remember that you will be rewarded if you have the right intention. Don't forget your du'as! Make sure to satisfy her needs.
6. Help her around the house.
7. Honor her parents.
8. Let her know how much she means to you, how much you love her and how lucky you are to have her.
9. Praise her and show your appreciation when she does things for you...جزاكِ الله خيرا goes a long way.
10. Don't rush to criticise her if she makes a mistake, and never shame her in front of others.
11. Make yourself look attractive for her as you'd like her to make herself look attractive for you
12. Chat with her when you are together.
13. Phone her when you are outside to tell her how much you miss her.
14. Make the most of your time together during these early stages before kids come in the way.
15. Study the Deen together, even if it's exchanging just 1 benefit a day.
16. Avoid aggression.
17. Encourage her to avoid bad habits and bad friends.
18. Avoid talking to her about a second wife.
19. Remember her in your du'as
20. Thank Allah for blessing you with a wife. How many would wish to be in your shoes.
بارك اللــه لـك وبارك علـيك وجمـع بـينـكـما في خير
But you‘ve always had that strange feeling whenever you looked at the stars, don’t you? You couldn’t figure out whether it was the mere feeling of longing itself or homesickness, but you’ve always felt that you don’t belong here, that there are other worlds reaching out for your hand, that there are other dimensions secretly whispering your name.
i hate being touched but i wouldn't mind a never ending hug from you
Thank you for seeing me as good and whole when the world made me feel like I was bad and broken.
Such a big sin is so normalized in our society these days it is a sin which is even bigger than adultry itself and people justify this sin by saying that its the truth or we are saying what is truth, RasoolAllahﷺ explained it beautifully:
Abu Huraira r.a. reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, "Do you know what backbiting is?" They said, "Allah and His Messenger know best." The Prophet ﷺ said, "To mention your brother in a way he dislikes." It was said, "What if it is true about him?" The Prophet ﷺ said, "If what you say about him is true, it is backbiting. If it is not true, it is slander." (Source: Sahih Muslim 2589)
And yet at another point, there is a mentioning of great sorrow or distress for the backbiters, the Quran goes on saying,
“Woe to every (kind of) scandal-monger and-backbiter.” (Surah Al-Humaza, 1)
Anonymous asked:
I’d like to request you one thing regarding da’wah. Since you’ve got a larger follower base, please post about Tāwhid and Aqeedah. I wouldn’t have told you to post but you seem to be from Ahlus Sunnah. And the first and MOST IMPORTANT topics are Tāwhid and Aqeedah. I hope you already know that. The root of real ilm’ starts from these.
People lack in these subjects, which results in making them fall into shirk and other kufr.
Your posts might reach more people compared to other small Salafi pages. And most importantly posting these would help others to be aware of the deviant sects and misguided beliefs!
جزاك اللهُ خيرً
I think you are a new follower on my page seems like. What you have said is the core message of my page. Been doing that for ages now. Maybe i am lacking posting on those topics past 1-2yr. But its the same dawah as before when i used to post more about Tawheed/Aqeedah. Check my highlights to see more of those. Its all there. I even made a separate highlight for Aqeedah/Tawheed look it up. Hope this clears out what i am trying to say.
وَأَنْتُمْ فَجَزَاكُمُ اللَّهُ خَيْرًا
