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Fruity Little Happiness

@cupofchangeling

Just some stuff that bring this lil’ lemon joy. Some goofy, some heartmushy, some vengeful, some cringe. They/he/fae. Over 18.

I want the writer’s strike to last until they get everything they demand and more. I want the SAG strike to last until AI is entirely forbidden across the board in the entire industry. I want CGI artists to unionize and strike. I want animators to strike. I want composers and directors and designers and VAs and techies and producers and stage hands and game devs and programmers and recording artists to strike.

I want every aspect of the entertainment industry brought to a grinding halt for months or even years to take it from the corps and put it back in the hands of the artists.

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catmask

okay do yoh guys ever think about the fact that “high quality” is an actual descriptor like theres high quality tea leaves high quality fabrics high quality espresso beans etc but because of advertising everything that is said to be “high quality” on the package is just because it supposedly sells better. but not everything is high quality so it is a lie. a descriptor becomes meaningless because it sounds good. what if we were just honest. why cant you say this coffee beans arent the best but they will do the job. i would be happy with okay if it didnt lie

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catmask

my autism diagnosis has nothing to do with this

“blueberry milk nails” so y’all never went to kroger with your older cousins one july in 2008 to get green beans for family dinner and your cousins used the change from the money your aunt gave you to buy one bottle of essie nail polish in the shade “bikini so teeny” and then you went back to your aunts house and while she finished cooking dinner your cousins painted your toenails and also crimped your hair and then you sat on patio chairs on their blacktop driveway and drank a coke out of a plastic cup with faded a faded hercules design on it like ok i get it

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armoralor

Let characters and their actors have wrinkles. Let them age and show signs of all the smiles they’ve shared, the laughs they’ve laughed, and the years they’ve survived. There is no shame in getting older, it should be celebrated.

everyone is always acting like there is some crisis of human interaction with one another because everyone is overly sensitive to how strangers approach them and like. no actually its because nobody has any fucking manners. social etiquette has legitimately vanished. it makes interacting with strangers miserable because people don’t know how to fucking behave in public.

like it is rude to stare. it is rude to point. it is rude to have a loud phone conversation in a quiet place. it’s rude to listen to music or videos or whatever on your device with no headphones on a loud volume, or at any volume in an enclosed or quiet space. these are rude things to do. like i’m sorry while some etiquette is silly, an acceptable level of decorum is necessary to make existing in public bearable for everybody…….it is LITERALLY common courtesy

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ralkana

Also, do not fucking photograph or film people without their consent!

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voidsicle

I'd say the most basic ones I've seen apply basically everywhere are these:

1. Don't take pictures or recordings of people without their consent.

2. Wear headphones if listening to music in public.

3. If you need to take a call on a train, make sure you don't take it on the designated quiet carriage.

1. Don’t take pictures

or recordings of people

without their consent.

Beep boop! I look for accidental haiku posts. Sometimes I mess up.

DO NOT USE TUMBLR LIVE

So I've been warning people to not use the tumblr live feature and i had this discussion in the notes of one of the people i warned

said person already used live themselves and was not aware of what all TumblrLive's partner MEETME collects with its feature and i wanted to take the time to make a post going over the privacy policy for anyone who is interested

for the first part here MEETME talks about how creating an account (downloading) (or having a tumblr account that auto updated to include the tumblr live feature (which is a vast majority of the tumblr mobile population in the US rn)) automatically makes any information they collect visible to any of the partners they have

the three partners mentioned there Skout Flurv and Boy Ahoy are all dating sites that promote primarily their location tracking fuck all knows what they want with your live data most likely they want to advertise singles near you??? but MEETME's other current partners are apps like PlentyfFish Zoosk Chispa and Badoo which is Match.com and Bumble

the main important parts to notice from section ii of the privacy policy is the location information limit mobile ad tracking and do not track signals the rest of the section mainly puts the onus of revealing private information that can be used maliciously on the user ie. don't share your password say your full name in a live video where you live etc.

as far as the location information goes what its saying here is that they collect the location information when you first register for tumblr live when you first log in and whenever your phone is on even if youre not using tumblr live

what does it use this information for??? well advertising purposes of course!!!

now they try to get around saying they dont track your location or share it with other users by using this word precise several times now what that means is they have a rough geotag of your location

(your ip address they dont say here its your ip address but in later parts of the document they do in fact say they collect your ip address and if you want an idea how close an ip address can get to your exact location enter your ip address in google maps sometime)

theyre being intentionally vague about that so when you see on the live tab something that says near you you could probably not follow that exactly to said persons house but you can damn well be you will at the very least find their city

heres a reminder to all of you who havent most phones now bury in the settings an option to disable adID do it now!!! but remember that TumblrLive can still use all other information they gather they do not at all process do not track signals so you arent safe there and what data would that be that they can collect other than your location and adID??? glad you asked!!!

this is a non exhaustive list which means there is DEFINITELY other data they collect about and from you

so they collect:

your email and phone number

any info in your tumblr bio

any metadata connected to any photo youve ever uploaded

adID

ip address

cookies and beacon

which devices you use

which features you use

which pages you visit

which chats you use

anything in your private chats or posts

anything from any connected social media accounts

how well ads are doing

what youre interested in

and in some cases even your biometric information

and what do they do with this information???

ads of course

and to give anything they want to cops :)

i dont make this post in order to like ruin peoples fun when it comes to this new feature or to try to talk down to anyone or make anyone feel stupid or anything im not here to make fun of people or belittle anyone but i think its real fucking important people know what privacy rights they are forfeiting by having their phone on right now with this new feature

also everyone please feel free to give a kind fuck you to tumblrs current ceo @photomatt

TLDR: DONT USE TUMBLR LIVE

This is a lot of text just to tell you the main thing you can do is DONT use Live.

BUT YOU CAN DO MORE. YOU CAN BLOCK ITS CONNECTIONS FROM YOUR PHONE ENTIRELY.

Step 1) Install a DNS-based adblocker if you don't have one. The best one available on Android and iOS is Blokada. It's free to use and straightforward to set up.

Step 2) Block any domains that look related to Tumblr Live. So far I've blocked:

  • api.gateway.tumblr-live.com
  • auth.gateway.tumblr-live.com
  • tmg-stream.gateway.tumblr-live.com
  • video-api.gateway.tumblr-live.com
  • video-live.gateway.tumblr-live.com
  • assets.video.tumblr-live.com

But if you see any others that look suspicious, block them too!

Now you'll no longer see those tumblr live ads in between posts, and if you go to the Tumblr Live tab, it will simply show nothing!

I see there's some confusion, so let me clarify:

You want to install Blokada 5, which is free. If the first thing you see on Blokada.org is "Cloud" or "Plus," you need to scroll the page.

"Blokada 6" is their set of premium cloud-security and VPN apps, which require a subscription. These are not needed to get system-wide adblocking on your phone!

staff literally took these images down and deleted op's account like within the last few hours I've seen this post multiple times today with OP still active and the images still there

Hey we're still struggling to save the teeth I have left (before I get another wave of potentially deadly infections) and I'm dealing with an attempted rape while my husband is dealing with his mother's death and the huge increase in bills we're about to experience because of it since she had a pensioner reduction for utilities

We haven't gotten much help in some time and I'm starting to actually freak out. Please help if you can 💖

PayPal is:

ace8ball@gmail.com

Fundraiser is here

Thank you 🙏

We've had two very kind donations but we still need help 💗

The tooth right at the front has broken further and I can't afford the crown I need so I'll have to ask him to try something even if it's only gonna last a month bcos it hurts 😭

I'm so desperate not just cos of this but this mental health crisis after being sexually assaulted and now all our bills skyrocketing while my teeth are breaking I'm literally thinking about kms because it feels like there's no way out

Still can't afford to see the dentist I'm in pain pls help. I'm too emotionally spent to make this plea touching in any way sorry