[“Last week I saw a young queen walking by. Coiffed hair, eye makeup, tight stretch pants, scarves. Maybe nineteen. This was the most endangered type of man in my generation, the kind most likely to die. For years, whenever I saw a really nelly queen, I felt frightened for his safety. Being so tough and brave about how they looked on the street showed they were bold about their desires. At one point they seem to have disappeared, to have been wiped out. But then new ones were created. Do they wonder about why there are so few sixty-year-old versions of themselves passing by on the sidewalk? What do they want to be when they grow up?”]