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I have two cats. cripple dykefag. approximately 30yo. they/them. header by @Ink-And-Teeth

Anatomy is so cool, last time my blood was drawn by an actual phlebotomist they told me that I don't actually have difficult veins, they're just angled to go across my arm instead of straight up the arm like most people's do

Unfortunately giving that information to the nurses at my next appointment didn't help bc they didn't know what that meant and they'd never heard of that before. So they found a vein, failed to figure out how it was positioned before trying to access it, went straight through and blew it entirely.

But the resulting bruise shows exactly the position of the vein and where they went through it and now I have a picture to show the next person

I know the classic joke is that all of us repressed kids took Am I Gay quizzes and lied so it would reassure you that you were straight,

But I'm curious if anyone else took the quiz and would get "hey kid you're definitely gay" cause I would think to myself

"I am going to treat this like the "am i depressed" quizzes that tell me to seek immediate help and assume they give everyone that answer"

I don’t think you can fully understand transmisogyny without understanding how it’s weaponized against cis Black women.

When you find a transmisogynist you’ve found a racist who will use their ideals of the “normative female body” to demean and denigrate Black women. For years it was a popular right wing rumor/conspiracy/dick move to refer to Michelle Obama as a “tranny” and more recently sports organizations have repeatedly excluded cis Black women for not having “normative” hormone levels. Transmisogyny and antiblackness go hand in hand.

I like tumblr cause it's relatively easy to curate but that also let's me forget about how fucking hostile the site at large is.

I like the idea of this being the "you can do whatever you want forever" site, but it's actually the site whose users sent so much suicide bait to Ace and Aro spectrum folks that staff actually had to do something about it so they came up with an alternative way to say "kill yourself".

It's the same site that pretends it ran John Green off with a copypasta, but his stated reason for leaving was that people started sending him pictures of his home and family as a threat.

This is the site whose users habitually dogpile trans folks til they delete their accounts and it's currently the site that is using systemic tools to reinforce a culture of transmisogyny.

This is the site that wiped all tags relating to Black Lives Matter and banned a bunch of Black activists accounts then claimed they were Russian bots. This is the site that wiped years of disability resources and stories in the process of evicting the sex workers. This is the site that routinely protects nazis and allows them to gather and organize unimpeded.

We do what we want forever in spite of this place, but tumblr in and of itself is not in favor of liberation

something that has been on my mind recently is that fact that so much of antisemitism within lgbt spaces and/or leftist spaces comes from people who consider themselves to be allies to the jewish community. particularly white goyim who see themselves as allies are actually unwilling to listen to jewish people because they believe they're already doing enough through simply stating they support us. i believe that most of their antisemitism is not intended to cause harm, and rather comes as a genuine attempt to do the right thing and show support another marginalized group. here are some examples that i have noticed all from goyim who call themselves allies

  • asking jewish people they've just met about zionism after learning they're jewish when their conversations had nothing to do with israel
  • continuously sharing memes/rhetoric with nazi origins even after being informed of their meaning because "the joke isnt antisemitic"
  • constant use of antisemitic language to discuss transmisogyny after jewish people have asked them to stop
  • critiquing media for only the ways it negatively affects white lgbt folks and disregarding antisemitism/islamophobia/racism/ableism etc
  • using the word "religion" as a synonym for christianity, often framing "all religion as bad" in conversations about religious trauma
  • claiming that jewish women (especially orthodox) contribute to their own oppression through religious observance

again, these all come from people who claim to be allies to the jewish community. goyim, i am not saying you're a bad person or inherently evil if you have done any of the above, but rather calling attention to the fact that your words and actions may have been harmful to jewish people, as well as other religious minorities, even when that was not your intent. if you call yourself an ally, it shows us that you recognize our oppression and will support us. when a jewish person addresses antisemitism, the best thing you can do is listen to them, educate yourself, and either change your behavior or call it out in others. allyship is an action. take the time to listen to us, don't speak for us or over us.

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real life: sorry im just not a social media kind of guy… i wanna live in the moment y’know…. im like really private i like having secrets

on tumblr at 11:41 pm : guess whose period just started while watching fraggle rock season 1 episode 17

You can tell all the grown white Taylor swift fans were all raised in christian culture in the way they think it's a personal attack when they find out obsession with their personal fave is not a universal human experience

ADHD is so silly because you can think about wanting to do something for like 2 weeks but nothing happens then all of a sudden you’re chilling and minding your own business and you get a freaking Inspiration Jumpscare