Avatar

Bruh Moment

@coolcatcuomo

he/him
Dude I’m just hanging out. Let people live and love, my guy.

Anytime i see a bunch of pride flags i have to restrain myself from saying "where mexico" bc i doubt anyone will know I'm referencing this

Avatar

Really wish tumblr had a "people are appropriating and misusing elements of my faith and that is offensive" option for reporting posts...

CATHOLICISM 👏 IS 👏 NOT 👏 AN 👏 AESTHETIC 👏

catholicism’s only value is in its aesthetic actually. sorry :/

also the guilt thing can be kinda hot when y'all have gay sex

"poor people are happier with less" and "money won't buy happiness" is literally classist propaganda. stop buying into it and start making molotov cocktails

“money won’t make you happy” well i’d be a lot happier if i knew a medical bill wouldn’t send me into financial ruin

Money doesn’t buy happiness is suppose to be applied to Rich cunts hoarding money! not poor people trying to make ends meet!

I got several requests for more of these!

Flags: Baker's original rainbow, queer, asexual, aromantic, bear brotherhood, questioning, transmasculine, agender, genderfluid, and omnisexual.

(Image description: ten square pride flags with white text that reads "you'll never have the comfort of our silence again".)

These are inspired by this post, an image of a sign taken at an anti-Anita Bryant protest in 1978.

"bUt i tHiNk mAKeUp is fUn" that's nice. i would like to be allowed to exist without it without being socioeconomically punished for that choice but what's important to focus on here is that you're just having the funnest time ever

This doesn’t happen unless you’re so ugly that you need makeup to look normal (in which case this post is a bit of a self-own)

cool misogyny! i forgot that being beautiful is the only moral way for a woman to exist. what an Epic Own on behalf of a multibillion dollar industry!!!!

Several of my friends who previously self-identified as bi are realizing they've lost interest in men, generally speaking

A friend of mine who's identified as a lesbian her whole life fell in love with a very sweet and shy man

I lost interest in men a few years ago, fell in love with a non-binary person, and now I give them their T shots

Life and love are unpredictable

And "queer" is a great word that all of us like and self-identify with (along with our other, more specific labels), and I love that no matter what else happens, we're still, always queer

I really don’t understand why some people are so hostile to the idea that attraction can be fluid. Let people love how they love.

Avatar

My attraction has been stationary — ace as fuck my whole life — but my gender identity has changed. Let people experience love and gender however it unfolds.

I think the answer to why are people hostile toward it comes in three camps.

1. People for whom it always has been static instead of fluid, who just cannot fathom that other people don’t experience the world the same way they do (a lot of problems boils down to that honestly)

2. People who’ve had their identities disrespected so much by others that the notion of it being fluid starts to feel like more disrespect so they reject it reject it outright “You identify this way NOW, but that might/will change later, you know.”

3. People who build their entire life, sense of self, personality and politics around a specific label, and then get pants-shittingly scared at the thought that the thing they built their entire being around might no longer be true. It’s especially bad when they use this one label to declare other groups The Enemy. When you’re scared of having your whole sense of self upended or being labeled a fake or a traitor by your in group, it becomes a sort of comfort to declare “MY identity won’t change because NO ONE’S ever changes, because we just are what we are no ifs ands or buts! You’re either This or you’re That, and I am This and always will be!”

reblogging SPECIFICALLY for the End Note which is widely applicable

For any trans (or really any queer) kids who are struggling through this right now, I want you to know

This is not your fault,

you are not wrong,

it wouldn’t be fixed if you were just somehow a different person

Because this guy is right, love is unconditional and this type of parent only loves you on the condition that you are exactly what they want you to be

Avatar

i hate you shein. i hate you wish. i hate you temu. i hate you aliexpress. i hate you fast fashion. i hate you consumerism. i hate you planned obsolescence. i hate you plastics.