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we train young girls to ignore their hunger, to walk and stand and sit like ladies, to paint over or cover their pimples and stretch marks and cellulite, and then we are shocked when they grow up and become women who are alienated from their own bodies

Privacy Advice for Connecting with People Online

Pen Pals

  • General Delivery- no address is needed to receive mail. It will be sent to your local post office and you can pick it up there.

Texting

  • Many apps will allow you to have a different phone number for free. You can choose the area code and to a degree have control over the following numbers. This is yet another way you can obscure your location. Searching “Pinger” or “TextFree” in the App Store will bring you right to them.

Email

  • The most secure email account you can have is called Proton Mail. Again, the standard account is free.

IP Address

  • Internet Cafes. There are public computers at select coffee shops which you can use at your discretion. That way, even if the person you are communicating with is malicious and extremely technologically adept, the only IP address to be found is one that is owned by the cafe.

VPNs

  • VPN stands for virtual private network and quality ones do require payment. They route your internet access through various servers (often worldwide) making it essentially impossible to track you. IP addresses can be found from it, however those are the addresses of the servers and cannot link back to you.

People online really tell you to not misgender strangers but know exactly who to call bitches and karens

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I’ve never seen our anatomy like this.

This is actually really cool. I always remember being very frustrated and confused by the incredibly sterilized pictures used in sex ed of female reproductive organs.

Because it was always a side slice or a front on barbie-doll type thing with a uterus painted on I really wasn't sure where anything was. There was even a period of time between like 10-12 where I wasn't certain I had a vaginal opening because I had no concept of where it really was. Just that it was "some hole down there somewhere".

It's frustrating because male diagrams give you a pretty good idea of where tf the basics are. Whereas it's easy to be completely disconnected from female anatomy diagrams because it's all internal. Likely because males are degenerates who've made any depiction of female genitalia "obscene" to display.

I was lucky enough to get a very good book for girls about getting their period for the first time, which had a very cartoony (but still discernable) front in diagram with an actual vulva and LABELS for external landmarks not just internal stuff there's no way of seeing.

Having the hair actually outline the lips of the labia is really cool because it gives more of a visual indicator of where stuff actually sits.

Body hair is NOT an indication of how much of a man you are. Can you hear yourselves?? Girls and women grow hair EVERYWHERE! On their stomachs, their chins, their upper lips, their boobs, their toes, their chest, their thighs, STOP MAKING GIRLS FEEL BAD FOR THEIR NATURAL BODIES

It is perfectly natural to have hair on your chest, on your butt, on your face, on your back, don’t worry about it!! You are not any less of a girl or woman, you are not any less of a normal girl or woman!  I remember being so ashamed of my dark hair that seemed to grow everywhere and being afraid that I was abnormal because nobody seemed to acknowledge that body hair was a NORMAL, NATURAL thing for girls to have. Please tell your daughters, your sisters, your nieces that body hair (and I mean ALL body hair) is not disgusting or weird or unnatural.

Rich that there are r*dfms trying to purge 'racism in the r*dfm community' as if the base of their ideologies weren't racist

Uh huh... this coming from the "Black women are masculine and they're considered women, so why aren't transwomen" crowd.

This coming from the "people of color didn't know about a sex binary until White men forced it on them" crowd.

This coming from the "Ill defend racist, misogynistic White men who identify as women over the women of color they demean and assault" crowd.

This coming from the "women of color who say things I don't like are brainwashed white feminists" crowd.

Me thinks you doth protest too much.

Btw the reason why it’s not even noticeable to put a little girl in little boy’s clothing but feels disturbing and pedophilic to put little boys in high heels and making them shave their body hair and wear tight tops it’s because it is. It’s pedophilic to put little boys in attires we consider “sexy” and it’s pedophilic to do that to little girls too. We often forget, but beauty standards for women are so strict because they are meant to emphasize that our value lies in our looks, and thus our sexual value to men. So applying those standards to little girls isn’t cute or proper, it’s disturbing. We’re so numb to patriarchy we do these things without thinking what they mean

I don't plan to have children but in my head if I had a daughter, she would only attend all girls schools with all female staff.

studies have shown over and over that girls do better at all girls schools than coed schools. girls feel less confident and are less likely to pursue high education if they attend mixed schools and we all know why. the best part? it shows that girls are not naturally less confident than boys but sexism and gender stereotyping from males in schools and later in the workplace does significant damage on their self esteem.

radfems on their way to the mitski concert after a busy day of calling trans women hentai addicts

“calling trans women hentai addicts” I mean if the shoe fits, OP

he really dug his own grave with this one

Certified Iconic terf post

where does one acquire the audacity to walk out the house in a shirt like that