White people wanna be oppressed so bad
This is so embarrassing and upsetting.
Like why….
Bruh just stop. Please
People think I drink Coke.
I drink Pepsi.
People think all college guys watch spiketv Ive watched nothing but the history channel since I started school.
Yes, where is the mainstream feminist outrage?
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Here’s an idea: when someone says “I am not personally comfortable with your use of this slur based on my personal experience” it’s not an opportunity to flex ur debate skills
the whole “trans men oppress trans women” is fucking disgusting
this post is so comforting to me to see
There is such a distinct pattern of abuse–personal, direct, intimate abuse–many, many, many FtMs have experienced in isolation from MtFs until now. The more transmen, GNC females, detransitioners I read and talk to, the more I hear stories that are chillingly similar. An older “transwoman” (sometimes 20+ years older) with a strong online community hooks up with or befriends a younger trans man. The younger/weaker/poorer/more disabled/more isolated partner, believing in ideas of being man and woman, doesn’t know how to think about or express issues of abuse, rape, violence, emotional blackmail, degradation, coercion, silencing, gaslighting, happening to them as a “man” directed by a “woman”. The older partner’s community pressures the younger as well, insisting that as a man, with male privilege, this biologically female person has no right to speak about suffering, oppression, anything, ever. This community threatens punishment up to abandonment for misbehavior. The older partner takes up more and more space, has incessant demands, and treats the younger more like an object or worse.
And it’s always a TW who is the older partner, in the pattern. And the TM always says “I can’t tell anyone else” or “it’s not worth it to disagree” or “I have to be a man about it.”
I’ve seen this so much. Whenever ppl throw out the stat that “transwomen have it harder bc of these numbers” all I can think is, BECAUSE NO ONE FUCKING CARES ENOUGH STUDY THE ABUSE OF TRANS MEN.
Trans men are female socialized, we’re taught to be quiet, to defer to males, that what we have to say isn’t as important, etc.
When we’ve been alienated by so many and found a “home” with the trans community, there isn’t even a question of talking about what happens to us bc 1) we need our community and know they’ll gang up against US, kick us out, shame us, support our abusers and 2) we don’t believe it’s really abuse or that it’s that big of deal bc we’ve never had or experiences validated, only dismissed by the trans community.
RESPECT TRANS MEN
PROTECT TRANS MEN
LISTEN TO TRANS MEN
PRIORITIZE TRANS MEN
In solidarity with trans men.
Listen to them.
Believe them.
Support them.
Saying “gender is just a social construct” or “gender isn’t real” isn’t productive in any way. In fact it trivializes the misogyny that females face bc of the patriarchal gendered hierarchy in which we live. Gender is real and it’s harmful. This is only the beginning of a convo, not the end.
Female artists in their studios
1. Helen Frankenthaler 2. Louise Bourgeois 3. Alice Neel 4. Joan Mitchell 5. Frida Kahlo 6. Georgia O'Keeffe
*sees a callout post for a 14 year old* did that really need to be made
like im not saying 14 year olds cant fuck up cause they can but they’re still kids and publicly vilifying them on a site where they can get death threats and shit is wrong and shouldn’t even cross ur mind
Sheila Jeffreys, Gender Hurts, p.6 (via killgender)
A great friend of mine. (via antilla-dean)
I wrote on here about a creepy cleaner a while back and how he has squeezed my waist and shoulder, stroked my arm and will not stop calling me love and beautiful. I wrote a statement to the head of my school about how uncomfortable he makes me feel and how I leave my classroom early to avoid contact with him and she suspended him in the same day and emailed me to say that she’s doing an investigation into it. I think he could potentially loose his job and I don’t know, I actually feel really bad about the whole thing, my mom keeps saying that I should have said something to him before hand but like I just never brought myself to tell him to leave me alone… and so he never was warned or had the opportunity to rectify his behaviour. I mean I don’t want to make excuses for him but I don’t want to be the reason someone lost their source of income and I think that there is not something not right with him mentally but still he only targets women and would only call the men ‘gaff’…… I feel really bad, but he did really creep me out! Someone help, did I do the right thing or should I have said something to him first?
You did the right thing. Your safety comes first. Any mental issue he has does not negate the fact that he violated the sexual boundaries of you and other women.
He knew perfectly well that what he was doing was inappropriate. After he is gone you may start hearing about all the others he has done this to because he expected each of you to tolerate it in silence. Thank you for speaking up.
I understand why you feel bad, and I probably would too if I were in your shoes, especially if were still your age. But just keep in mind that it’s not your responsibility to correct his behavior. That’s your school administrator’s responsibility. How she chooses to deal with this problem isn’t your fault, and how she chooses to deal with the problem doesn’t necessarily make her a bad person either. It’s the school’s responsibility to ensure employees and students are safe.
You also don’t know how he would have reacted if you, someone whom he likely doesn’t see as an equal, had challenged him face-to-face.
- She’s gender critical
- She doesn’t like the term ‘cis’
- She talks about sex-based oppression
- She doesn’t respect nounself pronouns
- She reblogs Dworkin quotes (the biggest terf of all!)
- She’s Andrea Dworkin back from the grave
- She’s a vegan
- She claims she wants to liberate all women, including female animals
- She respects a chicken’s gender identity more than she respects yours
- She’s a lesbian that doesn’t find trans women sexually attractive
- She’s a lesbian who talks about how she enjoys cunnilingus
- She’s a lesbian
- She talks about vulvas
- She has the term “vulva” in her url
- She has a vulva
- She’s facing charges in Japan for riding in a canoe shaped like her vulva
- She is a trans woman who is gender critical
- She is a trans woman who talks about sex based oppression
- She’s a trans woman that’s on friendly terms with other terfs
- She’s Snowflakeespecial
- She’s a trans woman knows who Snowflakeespecial is
- He’s a trans man who is gender critical
- He’s a trans man who talks about sex based oppression
- He’s a trans man that’s on friendly terms with other terfs
- He’s Transcynical
- He’s a truscum who doesn’t hate terfs
- He’s a truscum (because they’re all the same thing anyways lmao)
- She doesn’t like make up
- She’s critical of the beauty industry
- She’s a woman who says things you don’t agree with
I hope this helps :)
Look at that. Let’s all be sexist. Yeah I said it.
“She’s a lesbian” righto all lesbians are TERFs now.
this is a satire piece, just so you know
it’s weird how people talk bad about strippers but no one says anything about the people who go to see them
Sixty motherfucking seven, bitches.
This wasnt in the FAQ but it mightve been asked so I apologize: how do you feel about sex dysphoria? Because I feel like if a person experiences that then of course their biological sex is still what they were born as, but is it ok to self-identify as a different gender (while obviously acknowledging that youre a trans man/woman and not simply male or female) in the case of that, since its not just based on presentation/gender roles but your body/genitalia feeling "wrong"?
I am completely empathetic to those who experience sex dysphoria. And while I am critical of transition, I’m not completely opposed to it in all circumstances or anything, and as long as those who transition don’t completely refuse to acknowledge their sex and the socialization they received because of it, I have no problems with them.
Thank you for this. I’ve struggled with sex dysphoria for a while and a lot of apparently “supportive” sisters end up just being ableist assholes who get upset when you actually TALK about having sex dysphoria and what that entails. I’ve even been called a tranny, even though I’m not going to transition and my whole blog is about reconciling with being female. Everyone wants to wave their “I support detransitioners and women with sex dysphoria!!” flag in the face of men with sex dysphoria, but when it comes time to actually be allies a lot of you show your true colors, or stay silent.
So many “allies” are transparent as hell. When women transition, your place is to be sympathetic, open, and there for them when they need you, not call them gender betrayers and trannies. If a sister isn’t your sister if she’s dealing with mental illness, I don’t want a part in your sisterhood.
men > radfems
Good luck with that.
Just keep in mind, when he beats you, radical feminists made the first domestic violence shelters.
When he kills you in an argument, or lines you up against a wall and shoots you for going to school, radical feminists are the ones who drafted legislation against it, and attend the funerals afterwards.
If you make equal pay, radfems got you that in 1963.
Haven House, the first woman’s shelter, 1964.
No-Fault divorce, 1969.
Oxford University opens to women, 1972.
Need an abortion–we secured your right to one in Roe v Wade, 1973.
Definition of “sexual harassment” codified into law, 1973.
Take Back The Night March founded in 1975 after the murder of a woman walking home alone.
Domestic Violence Act becomes law in Britain, 1976.
First rape crisis shelter opened in London, England, in 1977.
Canadian Charter of Rights and Freedoms securing women’s access to social services and anti-discrimination policies on basis of sex, 1982.
So, you go sit with those men over there, and hope to god they don’t fuck you, or fuck you up, or fucking bury you.
I’ll go stand with the radfems and actually get shit done.
I hope you never have cause to thank me, though given the statistics?
Why are you using these things as some sort of fucking weapon against women? a woman says she likes men and you go ‘well when he beats you! When he kills you!’ Sounds pretty fucking similar to ‘nice guys’ that complain about not getting girls. What if that person was an abuse survivor or someone actually HAD tried to kill them and you just sent them into a spiral of sobs and flashbacks? Does literally NONE of thatatter because they don’t agree with you?
She didn’t say she liked men–she said men were better than radical feminists.
I simply pointed out how she’s wrong, using empirical evidence to prove my point.
As for hypothetical sad faces and sobbing spirals into flashbacks– if she’s an abuse survivor, then she already knows all the facts I provided, having lived them herself. As a matter of fact, thats why a lot of women ARE radfems.
Go White-Knight somewhere else now, I don’t have the patience for it.
this site is just one neverending game of ‘how many ways can we tell lesbians they are privileged for being fetishized’
