I just wanna be loved fam
Well, Fire fighter dude certainly didn’t hold back on his thoughts.
Every tweet I've seen about this is screaming "where's the lie" and "he did nothing wrong"; I don't think this news story is getting quite the reaction the media was hoping for.
Sometimes the loneliness I feel is unbearably acute. All of my friends are in relationships, and sometimes I want nothing more than to be in one too. But it’s getting to the point that I don’t trust people when we start talking. I don’t trust that they’ll stick around, or that they’ll take care of themselves enough to where I’m not mentally and physically drained at the end of the day making sure they don’t hurt themselves do to intent or neglect. I see harmful patterns and red flags so quickly anymore that I’m losing hope that I’ll ever find someone that’s interested in me that is healthy enough for me to date without it being a detriment to my own mental health. And it’s getting to the point where my own loneliness is starting to become detrimental to my own health. Every time I feel like I’ve found someone I could potentially start to let in and open up to, something happens to rip the rose-colored glasses from my face and show me how unhealthy it would be for me to date this person. I want love, and I have a lot to give, but it feels as if it will never happen.
Saw this on r/LGBT and figured my aspec followers would enjoy.
August, so far:
- The entire contents of Alex Jones’s phone are accidentally turned over to a lawyer representing parents from Sandy Hook
- He learns about it while on the witness stand
- The jury orders him to pay $50 million in damages
- Alex Jones’s phone end up in the hands of the J6 committee
- the J6 committee secured the testimony from numerous members of Donald Trump’s cabinet
- Donald Trump was deposed in the NYAG’s civil lawsuit against the Trump Organization
- he plead the 5th 400+ times
- the Trump Organization’s Chief Financial Officer lost a lawsuit intended to dismiss the criminal charges levied against him and the Trump Org
- the Trump Org’s CFO will plead guilty
- Rep. Scott Perry had his phone seized by the FBI, presumably for his involvement in the fake electors scheme
- Pat Cippolone, the former White House counsel, testified to a federal grand jury
- Rudy Giuliani received a letter from the Fulton County DA’s office letting him know he is a target of their criminal investigation
- the FBI executed a search warrant on Donald Trump’s Mar-a-Lago resort
- the warrant revealed the former president is under criminal investigation for violating the espionage act
- the warrant also revealed the former president had highly classified documents at Mar-a-Lago
Not even to mention that those documents are so classified that the FBI is checking them for fingerprints to see who touched them.
And we’re only halfway through the month
Reblog to give your followers each their own sword.
have you ever stayed up late with someone texting or chatting and known as the hours ticked by that you’d be ridiculously tired in the morning but it didnt matter because it was really fun and totally worth losing sleep over just to laugh with someone and enjoy their company maybe and then the next day you keep tiredly recalling how much fun it was
The whole medical Industry is a scam, I’m not surprised. This is exactly why there’s so much money in pharmaceuticals in the US!
That’s why it’s better to get the generic brand pills it’s cheaper and legit the same thing
whenever an american pronounces herb as ‘urb’ it shocks me. do you say elp as well instead of help or like air instead of hair or like umour instead of humour wtf the h is there for a reason
Because the word is French and the H is silent at least we can pronounce our stolen words correctly
boo hiss
You forgot the best one yet
whaaaaaat’s up youtube my name is lee jordan and today we’re going to see how much magic i can do in front of muggles before they catch on, check this out
jay gatsby’s car was a real hit with the ladies
i know literally nothing about great gatsby but i know tumblr and with that knowledge i am 500% sure that jay gatsby hits some motherfucker with his car
Tumblr: gateway to great literature.
Glad Republicans took the time to understand how health insurance works before they put together a health insurance bill that will impact millions of Americans.
Oh my fucking god.
I am a licensed insurance agent, let me tell y’all something.
There is a thing in our lives called RISK, okay. Risk exists because there is a chance of loss. If you have a car, you could crash the car. You would then have to pay to fix the car, pay for your injuries, pay for someone else’s injuries, pay for THEIR car, and also pay any fines and tickets you might have incurred thanks to the crash. Plus if they sue your ass for more money, you have to pay for a lawyer. That’s the RISK of having a car. How do you get rid of this risk? You don’t have a car. Having a car is what we call ‘exposure’ - the circumstance that opens you up to the risk of a loss.
Y’all with me so far about risk and exposure?
There are four key methods of managing risk. The first is Avoid. In this instance, you can Avoid the risk by not having a car. Of course, this method isn’t perfect because other people could still hit you, a pedestrian, with their cars.
You can Retain the risk. Basically, this means you own the car and you don’t have any insurance. Shit happens, you pay for it. A digression, but some states actually have laws in place for this - if you’re rich enough to conceivably pay all your own loss bills, you can prove it by putting up a $50,000 bond with the state insurance board, and then you are formally excused from having to buy insurance.
You can Reduce the risk. Buy a very safe car, follow all traffic laws, drive very seldom. You can minimize your risk this way, but you haven’t eliminated it, so there’s still the chance of a serious loss, especially because there are other people on the roads and some of them are careless and stupid.
So here we have three methods of managing risk. One only works for the super rich. The other two are far from foolproof. So what the hell are we supposed to do, so that a car accident, which happens every day, doesn’t cause such a catastrophic financial event that we’re in debt for the rest of our lives because we missed a stop sign?
That’s why insurance exists. Insurance is a manifestation of the final and most successful method of managing risk: TRANSFER.
When you transfer your risk, someone else agrees to share that risk of loss with you. You both help insulate one another against loss. When large communities pool their risk, the entire community has better financial stability and better protection against catastrophic loss. Yes, it means some people may pay for a service they never use, but they are part of the community too. What helps the community helps them, whether they recognize it or not.
For instance, let’s say that it wasn’t required to buy car insurance to drive (I’m aware that in at least one state it’s not, just bear with me please, and don’t all look at New Hampshire at once, it’s rude and they might shoot you). Buying car insurance is an absolute choice. Only those who actively choose to pool their risk do so. Think about how much they would have to pay if only a few people were members of the pool. Think about the rates we’d have to charge to ensure these people were covered in the event of a catastrophic loss.
When EVERYONE pays a little, EVERYONE pays less. That’s a fundamental aspect of risk transfer.
Now we’ve been talking about auto insurance, which is my wheelhouse. But let’s talk about Health Insurance.
Every single person here has a human body. BEING ALIVE exposes us to health risks, and there is no Avoiding it. Only the truly wealthy can afford to Retain that risk but thanks to the fuckery of various incarnations of our government, many of us are FORCED to, and as a result, if we suffer a catastrophic loss, we are helpless in the face of exactly the sort of life-destroying debt and retribution that insurance exists to insulate us from! Sure we can reduce the risk in a few ways, by trying to be healthier, but many conditions are hereditary and some people just plain don’t have that fucking option - they were born broken and they’ll always be broken and they are not served in any way by others telling them “JUST DRINK MORE WATER”.
The ONLY REASONABLE METHOD of managing health risk is widespread transfer. It’s creating a massive pool into which everybody pays a little, so the money is there when someone needs a lot. And if you don’t believe me, look at the other countries that are doing this successfully and waving it in our goddamn faces because fucking Americans can’t get our act together.
Now you have read a handy primer on what the fuck insurance is, why it’s necessary, and how it works. Please spread this like wildfire, because ignorance hurts everybody, kind of like how really fucking expensive opt-in health insurance hurts everybody except people who were already rich enough not to need it.
So… put in these words… (correct me if I’m wrong- I’m kind of making a mental leap and a lot of the insurance stuff was never actually explained to me.)
Insurance already works on a socialist model of co-operative payment. You pay your share, and if you don’t use your share it goes towards a possible emergency in the future OR someone else’s emergency. Which is why it’s important to have as many people in as possible- because it (in a perfect world) would lower the cost.
Am I understanding this right? That the phrase ‘socialized healthcare’ is kind of a redundancy?
Yes, you are understanding it right. The entire concept of insurance is based on socialized transfer of risk to remove the burden from individuals so that everyone can actually be covered.
That is LITERALLY the entire point.
If only one person is paying into the insurance pool, and that person has a $20,000 loss, then that person has to pay the $20,000, whether or not they can afford it. The insurance company, to make sure they have the money to indemnify (a word that means ‘restore to their condition prior to the loss’ or ‘make whole’) that person, has to collect $20,000 in premiums in order to pay out on that $20,000 loss.
If 20,000 people are paying into the insurance pool and someone has a $20,000 loss, then all those people only have to pay one dollar. The Insurance company would only have to collect $1 from those 20,000 people in order to cover that $20,000 loss.
The way insurance premiums work is the insurance company looks at loss information. Sometimes they purchase studies and reports from third parties who literally exist to do NOTHING ELSE but track certain kinds of loss. They figure out how much of that loss they will be financially responsible for in a given fiscal year, as well as their administrative costs, and they divide that number by the number of people paying premiums. That’s how you get your insurance premium. It’s literally called the Law of Large Numbers - we figure out how much we have to charge you by figuring out how much risk we’re taking on by studying thousands of people who are, in this case, driving cars and having accidents.
If, for example, in Tornado Valley the number of claims for hail damage have gone up thirty percent since last year, then we will have no choice but to charge 30 percent more for the coverage that pays for hail damage to your car. Car insurance costs have gone up recently because more people are texting while driving, so the number of accidents have gone up sharply. Car insurance costs have gone up recently because medical payments have increased in cost, and we also cover that. Car insurance costs have gone up because a bumper that used to cost $200 to fix now contains sensors and back-up cameras that cost $5000 to fix.
If we didn’t rate for that, you’d be on the hook for all those increased costs… not indirectly, by a relatively small increase in your premium, but DIRECTLY, to the tune of thousands of dollars.
There are arguments to be made about American healthcare and how it’s tantamount to price gouging. There are also arguments to be made about how if you’re extremely wealthy, you should contribute more to the insurance pool than people who are making very little money (which would occur anyway, we hope, because health insurance is contributed to through taxes, not through private companies charging premiums). But the fact remains that the very institution of insurance RELIES on huge pools of people paying in so that nobody is financially destroyed by a loss.
Excellent commentary/explanation.






