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~ Energy check in w/ advice : June 27, 2023 ~

~ pile one 🧺 ~

Someone could be heavily focused on their finances or diverting their energy towards building a foundation for themselves. There’s an energy here of manifestation or trying to push things into fruition or get things together. You could be pushing aside complicated situations or connections in your life right now, I see you stepping into your power and being able to set boundaries and clearly communicate your needs and your priorities with the people in your life. This energy has sort of put you in a state of independence and even isolation, I see you spending a lot of time by yourself or enjoying your own company.

There could be some conflict and disagreements or some type or separation within your personal relationship whether that be platonic or romantic. If not conflict and disagreements there’s just a general energy of something not being stable or an energy of a relationship that is complicated or has a lot of room for misunderstandings and there’s a lack of communication. For many of you I’m sensing a romantic connection being on the rocks or out of balance or out of alignment.

There could be a third party interference or an energy of deception within your romantic relationships. You could sense this or be somewhat aware of this. There’s this underlying energy here of you knowing that this is happening whether or not you have physical evidence of this or have picked up on something intuitively but you not focusing on it entirely. There is tension and competition here or heavy emotions regarding this situation but it could be sitting at the back of your mind or you may feel as though you’re on the fence on how you feel regarding the situation. You could be back and forth between feeling secure and detached and as if you can release your control and shift your energy towards yourself and being upset, sad, extremely anxious or even feeling vengeful or impulsive possibly when hyper aware (you could be stalking your partner or the third party or karmic, you could be searching around for answers or for some type of truth)

I see someone putting something down and walking away from something for a while or sort of being in this dormant wondering place about your situation or your connection. There’s an energy of detachment or practicing releasing things or letting the universe handle the situations you can’t control. I’m hearing, “I can only allow myself to feel the way I feel while I release the things I cannot control”. I see you wanting to fix this or still being emotionally attached to someone and because you don’t have all the answers or know the reality of the situation or what’s really going on you’re still allowing yourself to leave the door cracked open for your person or you’re still allowing yourself to speak to and converse with your person as if nothing is going on or as if you don’t suspect anything.

advice 🕯️:

Continue to try and practice remaining grounded or emotionally stable and focused. It’s okay to be emotionally in tune or feel the way you feel but sit with it don’t let it turn into something that will cause you to act out or put you in a state of misalignment. I see you struggling to find the right time to say things or the right time to act at times and this may cause you to be out of step. It’s hard to explain but you may end up saying things, doing things and taking action before it’s the right time. There’s a really strong energy here of being patient and waiting for something. Sit within yourself, let the way you feel and what you perceive to be happening sit with you for a while. I’m feeling called to bring up the divine feminines energy of “being” or turning inwards when there is an issue or something comes up that tempts her to step outside of her feminine energy. I’m hearing “be still.” Let things flow through you and around you like water. The time will come to get answers, the truth will be revealed to you but be patient. You can be withdrawing from your person or even people in general at this time.

There we go, the empress upright, sit in your feminine energy and remain there, focus on your own life, your beauty and curating and attracting peace within you and around you. Continue to do your inner work and focus on your own souls purpose and building a life and securing abundance for yourself while all of these things purge out and karmic cycles and all of these complicated things are taken care of behind you. Do not move. Do not take any action to push things to be a particular way outside of what you can control within your own life and space. Wait.

Focus on your finances or aspects of your material life right now. There’s an energy here of manifestation or someone using spiritual gifts or using their energy to attract abundance and prosperity. Someone could be a witch or into witchcraft. Someone could be interested in starting a business or have things that they’d like to do this year pertaining to their career and social status, this is a good time to manifest the things you want or hold onto the natural push you’ve been given or your ambition and move towards bringing some of your manifestations into fruition. Focus on your business or your career.

Protect yourself and protect your peace. I hear you saying “I only want peace” continue to hold onto that energy and sit in it and sit with it pile one. I feel I’m talking primarily to the divine feminine collective here as well. Someone could have allergies, I’m hearing issues with sight or even sinus related issues as well. You could be sleeping a lot as well. I’m kind of getting the energy of rebirth. Someone could be sleeping a lot or resting a lot or spending a lot of time within their minds or subconscious minds as of late. I’m getting the womb, someone is sort of like a dormant volcano right now or in a state of growth and crucial development before they can be born again.

Stand your ground pile one remain grounded hold onto your peace and release everything else. This is a test of faith. Things will be good again, the situation will heal itself it will pass.

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~ pile two 🧺 ~

Someone could be struggling with a lack of direction within their lives at the moment. Or even a general energy or indecisiveness. I’m hearing someone could be heading down a path they didn’t want to go down or had been trying not to go down for a while. Or at least it seems this way to them. I feel someone feeling as though they’re being pushed or forced to live life as they know it at this moment. You may feel you’re trapped in a cycle of unfortunate events or like no matter how much you push to move in a different direction you’re always made to be in the same exact place or your efforts to bring change or maybe even to improve have not been successful. You could feel very stuck and stagnant or even trapped in a cycle against your will at this time. You may feel as though there are forces working against you or like it is divinely bound for you to live with such shitty circumstances.

You could be having a lot of breakthroughs right now though or some type of mental clarity or clearing of a fog has happened here. It seems you’re seeing things clearer or being made aware of some sort of truth regarding the nature of your life or what it is that’s causing such chaos and confusion or even conflict. You could be holding onto a lot of fear, a lot of fear based insecurities or anxiety at this time, you could be suppressing emotions or even abusing substances or alcohol or using some type of coping mechanism to help you feel more in control of your emotions and thoughts. There’s a lot of inner confusion here. You could also be lying to someone, being deceptive or withholding information from someone in your life that could largely impact a situation or the relationship you share with this person.

I do see nine of cups here upright. Nine of cups speaks about contentment and wish fulfillments. Happiness is coming or there will be some sort of ending to your suffering or some sort of solution come soon. You may feel as though this point in time will not pass but it will pass. The truth is coming, better times are coming. A new financial opportunity is on its way towards you as well, some type of manifestation/abundance is coming. You could receive a large opportunity soon or something you’ve been investing time and money into is finally going to work in your favor and you’ll begin reaping the fruits of your labor.

advice 🕯️:

Be rid of excess people in your life who are no longer serving you or who are not brining you any more peace or happiness or abundance. You could need to spend some time alone to ground yourself but I get the energy that there are people around you who don’t want the best for you or who are waiting around to exploit you for resources or who are energy vampires or who don’t really love and support you like they say they do.

Celebrate the things you do have, find gratitude for the things you do love and appreciate within your life. You’ve become wrapped up and preoccupied with all the negatives and all the things that have gone wrong and it’s easy to do that and even easier to forget about the good things.

You could be very defensive right now or sort of in a place where there is lots of conflict with others regarding arguments, karmic cycles and even third party interferences within your connections and intimate relationship. Put the sword down, take down your defenses and be rid of conflict with others in whatever ways necessary. Apologize. Let go. Move forward. You could be having problems in the home as well. You could be arguing with members of your family or even roommates.

Hold onto your ambition, hold onto the need to succeed, to find happiness and abundance within your life pile two, be the energy you want to receive, keep pushing, keeping looking for more, keep reaching for more. Release the habit to speak negatively in general and about yourself, release being your own biggest critic, release being your own biggest bully, release your deep rooted fears and insecurities, you are standing in your own way and the only way to get out is through and you’re going to need your own strength and support to do so.

Keep soul searching!!!! Keep looking deeper, keeping going within, keep looking for your souls purpose and becoming more in tune with who you are and who you’re meant to be.

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~ pile three 🧺 ~

Someone could finally be getting their flowers here for something that they do or something you’ve invested a lot of time and energy into is finally working out for you. There could be people around you who don’t agree with whatever it is you do or who don’t support you, you could even have someone close to you who doesn’t support you and may be secretly wishing ill on you or praying that whatever you’re working on doesn’t work out in your favor.

*this message deleted twice and someone really doesn’t want you to receive this message *

This could be somebody extremely close to you. It could be a boyfriend, a girlfriend, a sibling, or a parent. There’s some type of justice coming in within the situation though I don’t see this continuing to affect you negatively. I see you really truly kind of pushing yourself into an energy of being ready to let this person go or let the situation go, regardless of the fact that you may not be completely ready to let this go to let this person go. And with this judgment card, there’s this little character down here who has a key, and this princess is kind of in the middle of this maze in the middle of this locked maze. There’s somebody here who has a level of authority within your life who doesn’t want you to move in the direction that you’re moving or doesn’t want you to succeed at the things that you are working towards at this current moment, or at this current point in time.

This is not going to continue to hold this back. This person is not going to continue to affect you there could’ve had been arguments, disagreements and a lot of misalignment in regards to this particular situation with this 10 of cups in reverse. This could be a feminine energy as well. I’m getting this really strong, authoritative energy as well. This could be like I said it could be a parent, but this could also be somebody’s mother here.

advice 🕯️:

You could feel it, so there are blockages or some energies stagnancy within your finances or within you continuing to work towards whatever it is you’re working towards or continue to work on whatever it is you’re working on. I accidentally said “don’t continue to work on this though“ and I meant to say don’t continue to be stuck on this though see there’s something coming through here there’s somebody coming through here and an energy coming through here who doesn’t want you to continue to strive towards what you’re striving towards what I was meaning to say is don’t continue to be stuck on this, so this energy the stagnancy is a direct result of the energy that this person is sending towards you at this time. You should consider getting in contact with a witch, or somebody who can do some type of protection spell for you. Or you should consider doing an egg cleanse or some type of cleansing ritual for yourself.

You should be having a lot of internal conflict or feeling a lot of guilt regarding the fact that you may have to cut this person off or continue to go against their wishes when it comes to doing this for yourself, and I (and spirit as well) would like you to work towards why you feel that guilt regarding the fact that you have to do what you have to do regarding the fact that you have to put yourself first, and regarding the fact that you have to get rid of somebody who is continuously and constantly causing harm or sending harmful energy towards you.

Hold onto your inner strength here pile three. You’re going to need to persevere and to continue to push through these obstacles in order for you to get where you want to be in order for you to have the peace in the stability and abundance they want to have it’s going to take you breaking karmic cycles. It’s going to take you getting used to putting yourself first and pushing boundaries and pushing limits for you to achieve the things that you want to achieve and unfortunately it’s so happens that somebody close to you somebody dear to you is, one of your biggest bullies in this position of your life but remember that often times in peoples lives when they face obstacles like this, and they are destined for more or have a larger soul purposes. 

Hold onto the possibility of your freedom or if you are abundance and I see your freedom because I’m getting the energy that a lot of you within pile three or trying to get away from somebody or get out of a situation that you feel trapped in at this time. Hold onto your hope that things will get better. My last piece of advice you, the last piece of advice from spirit is to rid yourself of this person. Go no contact from this person, continue to strive to remove yourself from this person’s grasp. Continue to do what’s best for you despite this person.

Sometimes we feel like we're failing because we recognize we're hitting a bad patch again, or that we're falling into bad habits. We feel like this erases all our progress. And it doesn't. Recovery isn't linear. But here's another thing to think about... The fact that you can recognize that you are falling into that bad patch or those patterns is a sign of progress in itself.

interesting to me how miles' ambition was to become a scientist researching interdimensional travel. not necessarily because this is weird, but because he said 'fuck spider-man and fuck new york, i'm gonna get a degree in an entirely different state, you can survive without me'. he's more than just spider-man, in a way that isn't commonly seen. peter b doesn't have another job. when mj asks him how work was, she's referring to the spider society. jess and miguel don't have jobs. they wouldn't be able to devote so much of their time to running the place if they had jobs. the most commonly seen spider-man canon has spider-man as either a crime fighter for a career or a photographer of spider-man. basically a professional selfie-taker. not really a real job or career. just an easy way to make money. and their ambitions further than that aren't showcased. but with miles it's the opposite. he subverts expectations as spider-man. and he knows that he's more than just spider-man too

bulgarian mythology: orisnizi

a trio of female creatures that looked like women, this elusive triumvirate was said to live at the end of the world, near the sun. according to some tales, the first one was young, and was somewhere between 16-20 years old, representing the youth. the second one was between 25-30, representing the physical prime of a human. the third one was said to be older than 35, representing wisdom and maturity. orisnizi had one job – go into homes where there’s a newborn, and when the baby is three days old, they would predict its fate.

Remember that moment in ITSV, when Miles first meets his world's Spider-Man and their spider senses do the thing?

The background behind Peter is as we'd expect; the classic red and blue.

But at first Miles' background is green and purple, two colors he's never associated with at all throughout the movie. As the moment goes on, it shifts to match Peter's.

We are literally watching Miles' fate change and the anomaly happen.

It's well established that the spider that bit him was not supposed to even be in that universe, meaning our Miles was supposed to be something else before it happened.

This isn't true for ITSV, but in every other version of Spider-Man, the main color scheme for the Prowler is green and purple.

Our Miles was supposed to become the next Prowler in his world. And the only reason he's not, is because of the original Prowler. Miles switched his fate with Earth-42 Miles.

Foolproof Hair Care tips & routine :
I wish I knew 10 years ago... Seriously..

As a child I always had silky, smooth hair.. And I believed that it'll stay that way forever. Little did I know.. I got into an all girls hostel in 10th grade & got dandruff & certain vitamin deficiencies. That made my hair look & feel unhealthy ever since.

Hot water :

  • Is a big no no..
  • Your hair will lose its natural shine in the long run.
  • Thinning will be a problem in your mid 30s.
  • Stick to lukewarm water from root to tip.

Take your damn vitamins :

  • Get your blood checked & see if you have any vitamin / mineral deficiencies.
  • Take your vitamins & once you get that problem sorted. Switch to a healthier diet that contains all those vitamins.
  • Besides vitamins.. eating curry leaves on an empty stomach is also good for someone who is suffering with hair fall.

Identify your problem :

  • If you have dandruff or hair fall..or literally anything.
  • Your scalp type - Oily / dry / normal
  • Your hair type - silky / delicate / dry
  • Your hair type and scalp type are not always the same.
  • In case of oily scalp - I strongly suggest that you don't oil your hair. Because if you do.. your problem might never resolve. (I know it because that's what I have..) but you can use a hair mask after shampooing your hair to make sure that your scalp is feeling nourished.
  • In case of dry scalp - Use any oil of your choice. Especially massage your scalp when you are applying the oil.
  • In case of dry hair - use conditioner after shampooing your hair.
  • In case of delicate hair - masking is a must.

Two Shampoos :

  • One shampoo to treat your problem (hair fall / dandruff / really any problem) & the other to act as a cleanser (parabens and sulphate free).
  • Problem shampoo alone - Mon, Fri
  • Cleanser shampoo alone - Wed, Sun

Oil :

  • Oiling is a big no no if you have a sebaceous / oily scalp.
  • Oiling is good for a dry scalp.
  • Tea tree oil for dandruff
  • Onion / castor oil for hair fall
  • Cold pressed coconut oil for strengthening hair

Masking / Conditioning :

  • Masking is helpful in nourishing your hair and scalp.
  • While conditioning is good for bringing back your hair's natural shine / lustre.
  • Please don't take them for granted.

Comb & Exfoliators :

  • If you are someone with a dandruff problem.. please comb your hair regularly. It will clean your scalp..
  • And if you have a hair fall problem.. combing with a narrow teethed comb will stimulate blood flow.
  • Using a scalp exfoliating comb while bathing will help you get rid of dirt / dandruff efficiently..

Other no brainer shit :

  • If you are using an anti-dandruff / hair fall shampoo.. please let the shampoo sit on your scalp for atleast 20 mins before you wash it all off.
  • Be gentle with your hair & scalp. Don't dig your nails into your scalp or don't be harsh with your hair. Just gently massage your scalp & hair while shampooing them.
  • Please wash your scalp thoroughly. I can't stress this enough.. most problems are caused by the shampoo residue that is left behind..

Proper Routine :

Problem shampoo + Masking - Mon, Fri
Cleanser shampoo + Conditioning - Wed, Sun

★ Scripting your new life ★

~ these are a few ideas for scripting your new life / making your manifestation boards ~

Financial / Business :

  • Income you want to make
  • The title you would like to acquire
  • Where are you working
  • A business you'd like to start
  • What do you wear to work

Relationships :

  • The type of lover you wish to attract
  • Types of friends you'd love to be around
  • Lessons you'd like to share with others
  • How many children do you want
  • How do you show your love to others
  • What characteristics does your ideal s/o have

Health :

  • What are your health goals in the next 6m / year
  • What is your ideal body type
  • Health habits you would like to start
  • What are you eating to stay fit
  • How does your new body feel

Personal :

  • How does your new room look
  • Books you would like to read
  • Places your new self will visit
  • A problem you would like to solve
  • How do you dress every day
  • Where do you live
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I hate the implication that the Spider-Man in our universe is the goddamn popsicle

“all men are complicit in sexism and benefit from misogyny” is stating the function of a system in society, not demonizing men’s interiority. twisting that statement into some sort of insidious lie about men’s character in order to refute it on the basis that some men are good is disingenuous. there have been hundreds of thousands of good, kind men who have benefitted from misogynistic systems bc they are systems, not schools of thought or beliefs

Dear non-wheelchair users please try and learn these DOS AND DONTs because they are basic respect and necessary for our lives:

Ask me if I need help with a door: ✅

Ask me if I need help being pushed: ✅

Ask me if there is anything you can do in general (such as moving something): ✅

Ask me if I need help getting my chair in my car (if I am at my trunk): ✅

Come around a tall counter or desk to hand me something instead of passing it over the very tall counter or desk: ✅

(Medical professionals primarily), ask me if I need a cane or walker to properly transfer: ✅

When not in my chair ask to move my chair to a specific location: ✅

DON'T BE OFFENDED WHEN I SAY NO (to ANY of these): ✅

Compliment my chair or accessories: ✅

Alert me if something dropped from my wheelchair-attached bag: ✅

Grab my chair handle bars: 🚫

Ask to push me WHILE simultaneously reaching out for my handle bars before my answer: 🚫

Hold door open and then stand in door way: 🚫

Ask me why I am in my chair (unless it is imperative to your job): 🚫

When not in my chair, move my chair: 🚫

When not in my chair, move my chair with permission but to an unspecified location: 🚫

Move my chair without unlocking wheels: 🚫

Reach over my head for any reason: 🚫

Tell me you're sorry I'm in my chair: 🚫

Tell me you'll pray for me, because you see me in my chair: 🚫

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horror sub-genres • psychedelic horror

pushing the boundaries of normalcy, the term psychedelic horror is not always just reliant on trying to relate the chemically induced experience. rather, films that fall under the moniker look to explore horror that transcends the safe confines of rational thought. experimentation and abstract concepts being key, these movies offer some of the most unique horror experiences.